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Then WHY are you calling people "stupid" ? It's not the third grade here. We are all adults. So act like one.

What "theory" ? Go through Rent.men and find one obese escort. There aren't any. You don't need a research paper from Harvard to tell you what that means.

Your first instinct was the correct answer . With no police report, you have no evidence and no case. Just let it go.

In the absence of looks you need personality. I have two friends who are sisters and both really obese. Always the life of the party. Lots of fun and a great sense of humor. I get that. I just don't know that anyone wants to fuck them. They have both been single for decades. This narrative of how insulting it is to claim nobody is attracted to blubber is amusing in-that, even when fat people hire, they hire good looking people. Not fatties.

Same for me . I had been several times. I used to love Rio (I also love Brazil in general). I always poo-poo'ed all the stories of violence and muggings as being a "dumb tourist". But I am far from an inexperienced traveler and have visited more obviously dangerous places so I know how to watch my back and know when I am in danger. Unfortunately those favella boys will ride up on their cute little bikes like innocent school children until you see the guns come out of their beltline. You won't see it coming. So if you are going to risk it again...my advice (which saved me a bullet in the head) is to carry a big wad of singles in your pocket. That way your robber thinks he hit the jackpot. They don't ever wait to count the money and will run off with no reason to shoot you in the face since they think they got what they were coming for.

Definite hustler vibe. Messaged me without any interest from my end and started taking about how he "prefers to top" when I hadn't even contacted him about a massage and he's already discussing sexual positions !

Well....I don't know exactly what went down on Gayguides but I do know there was some trouble that got various people banned. So if this nonsense starts up again here, I don't have a problem with someone calling it out before it blows up. Why would you leave a ticking time bomb on the platform ? Notify the police.

Yes. There are men who never deal with their homosexuality or "come out" very late in life. But there are MANY men who simply dip their toe in both waters.

I might have enjoyed that show. Considering I have a preference for masculine men who like men, I like to think I have a very finely tuned "gaydar". Might have been fun to see if I could spot the 'mo.

Sad. One of the greats. I suppose 89 is not a bad run. But we always want to hang on to our favorites forever. Rest in Peace.

Sorry to be nit-picky. But if you're married with kids, your most likely bisexual, not "gay".

These are like Disney Princes. Just cartoons, not real people.

Just one example...but.... My brother is somewhat effeminate but straight. I am more st8 acting and masculine than he is ...I am bisexual. I don't think masculinity is the indicator of straight or gay as much as people seem to subscribe to.

You know how I "survived" ? I didn't purposefully spend a lot of time acting like I was different from everyone else That's how you get equal treatment.

Congratulations 👏

Beautiful face. The body is obviously fake or seriously augmented. Would be curious to know how much is real.

Since most people are straight ...how complicated is it to NOT "act gay" ?? 🤔 I don't know why some people assume all gay guys are effeminate and obvious.

I wonder if this is all CGI or this man actually exists ( albeit less carved up ).

Poor education

Except that the English language has hundreds of French words that are part of the English language. Masseur (and masseuse) being two of them.

Most everyone turns a blind eye to it. And it's returning little by little. But I can't say more since it's too political.

You enjoy stating the obvious. We were talking about Brazil, and then Cuba...so the brutality of the Spanish came to mind first. Certainly the Portuguese, French, English, Danish and Swedes forced their fair-share into slavery around the world too.

Obviously. I have traveled to many poor countries and am NOT a snob about travel. I enjoy visiting places and seeing how people truly live. It's not always castles and cafe's in Europe for me. So your presumptions about me are starting to stink of racism for assuming being rich and white makes me clueless about poverty. In fact I have always found it important for my children to visit places where they can witness how much of the world lives. They have never been to Disney World, but they have watched a man cook a dead rat over a pot of charcoal on the streets of Yogyakara.

My two cents: Heterosexual escorts are everywhere because heterosexual people are everywhere. Gay escorts tend to cling to major metropolitan areas because gay men prefer major metropolitan areas (to live and to travel to party). So....Suffolk county is going to be limited in it gay population and therefore even fewer gay escorts. Very nice of @Coolwave35 to share some of his contacts !! NYC is a train ride away. So your best bet is to meet up at a hotel in Manhattan. Dayuse.com has good rates on hotel rooms during the day for a few hours. As far as arranging your dream encounter...it's a matter of trial and error. Every provider is going to have a different style. If you want the intimacy of the boyfriend experience you're looking for a specific kind of provider, which might not always be available along with the look you're going for. So again...it's trial and error. There is no single method to arranging your dream date. But as others here said...Rent.men is always your best resource. Most all of the other sites are dead zones of old, stale profiles that aren't going to get back to you.

The entire history of Latin America is about Rich Europeans treating brown people as serfs (and black people as property).