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Even a monkey stops pushing the wrong button after a while. You're still pushing the same button and expecting a different result.

YOUR reality. Look up Cognitive Dissonance.

I've been to events where single gay men show up with hires as their plus one. Nobody wants to be the sad only lonely queen at a black tie affair...so they hire someone so stunningly beautiful we all forget to pity him for being alone.

The answer to that has been banned on Companyofmen.org. "You’re not implying that racial discussions constitutes someone needing to feel disconnected, right? " I was observing that YOUR racial discussions frequently stink of bait. It's always leading to you talking about how your poor choices in life are because everyone's a racist, not because you make poor choices. Multiple people on the site have commented on your habit of complaining and asking for advice, then ignoring the advice, telling everyone they can't possibly understand you..and then going back and continuing to make the same mistakes so you can complain some more. The solution is called CHANGE. It's time for you to get out of the business and CHANGE your life for the better. And no...the world is not inherently racist. Some people are. Most people aren't. So I'm sure if you'd put on a smile and drop the constant complaining someone would be happy to bring you on-board with a normal job where you have a guaranteed salary and you wouldn't have to jump through hoops every day with strangers. I hope some day you dare to listen to good advice. Good luck.

Is it ? well...I was completely uncomfortable. But that's because I was the only hot guy in the place...so it was like being the fresh kill for a pack of (old and ugly) wild dogs. Wasn't fun at all. Will never do THAT again. (Even at 50-something I'm still probably in far better shape than any of those old-farts were )

I hope to fall out a window before I become a burden.

I think, a professional escort needs to remember that for some men, this is the ONLY sex life they've ever had. I often joke, that "if it weren't for hookers, ugly people would never get laid"...but in all seriousness there are many people born unfortunate-in-looks, who spend their life paying for affection. So it's not unlikely for one of these fellows to develop feelings for a regular provider. In all situations, it's a fine line for the escort to provide the illusion for the hour ( or evening ) but to keep reality in check after the session, and remind their client that they are a friendly service provider. It's sad that some people are lonely, but it's unfortunate that their loneliness isn't getting cured through pay4play encounters.

I once booked a gay hotel with a clothing optional policy, many years ago, in Fort Lauderdale. BIG mistake. Nothing in that pool that I wanted to see.

I hardly think you need to share a sexuality to have someone understand you're not skilled in finance issues. These days, any professional in any major city wouldn't bat an eyelash about a gay client, nor would they bat an eyelash that anyone gay or straight (or bi) spends more time focused on their own career than learning about investing.

I would happily throw the match, just to feel this one on top of me 😉

I miss the days when we all just AMERICANS. This constant need to feel disconnected is tiresome.

Reminding everyone to keep your online conversations discreet. You're hiring an escort for their TIME. You can discuss their sexual INTERESTS but you shouldn't discuss PAYING THEM FOR SEXUAL ACTIVITY. Sting operations are rare, but you never know when one's gonna pop up.

Covid is rough on the morbidly obese.

I agree. I'm not suggesting he should go by MY beliefs. Just sharing my own confusion about why someone / anyone would want to live artificially past his natural expiration date through pill-popping. And no...he's really NOT "enjoying" his remaining years. That's what's sad. Just sitting there waiting to die.

I just remembered ...peaches 🍑 are in season......😋

Yes. Thank you.

I don't know that catching a glance is "lucky". Lucky would have been if he was looking for a rich sugar daddy and jumped into my bed. 😉

Too many people live past a true active life. My own father has been sitting in a chair waiting to die for far too long. Keeping his heart beating with dozens of pills, but devoid of any ability to do anything but watch TV, eat and shit. I find it rather ridiculous and sad. It's not a life to live.

I didn't know anyone used A4A anymore. Haven't seen that site since 2010.

Bumped into this one at a mall in Long Island one day. Even better looking in person. My radar went off from more than 100 feet as he walked toward me. He is quite a beautiful young man. @corradommartini

Someone should write a column for gay sex etiquette. That does send a message of "ick" I need to get rid of your funk. I don't blame you for being turned off by his immediate exorcism.

I don't think that's always true. Back when I worked in and around the fashion industry there was a service that matched models to wealthy gentlemen. From what I was told the fees for an evening with one of these beauties was incredibly expensive. But people paid it because that was the only way they were getting access. These guys didn't officially escort.

I think that's the best part.😉

Living past your natural end, is a very American Pharmaceutical Industry concept.