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Plus you can say three Hail Mary's and suck-off the priest and all will be forgiven.... 😆 But in all seriousness...I don't pick up any remorse in this fellows story. He's just looking to find a bridge between having a social life as a gay man and not alienating his family. That's all quite possible. And I will repeat. Don't burst out of the closet. Maintain a bit of discretion, as you are mentioning @marylander1940. People deal with homosexuality better with one eye SHUT.

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Stumble out of the house and GO GET coffee. (from just around the corner) Obviously I could make coffee at home, but the ritual of NEEDING to get dressed, comb my hair and speak to a human being first thing in the morning, gets me into work-day mode right away.

Cute kid. Terrible name.

Probably. Although I knew a few metal-heads who sucked dick, I don't recall ever meeting one who openly identified as gay. Sort of like the "Professional" Wrestling WWF guys. Lots of dick suckers...but no actual gays.

Completely agree.

I suppose the sexual intercourse becomes the tipping point. I have many long time clients who are also friends. It's well understood that while I will gladly cook dinner / buy drinks and help carry furniture if their basement floods....etc etc....when it comes to my JOB: I get paid for it.

All very true. But based on the little bit of inside information I get from my wealthy Canadian friends who are well connected with local leadership....things are not looking good up there. There are storm clouds brewing and they are also concerned about the future. Personally I would move to Copenhagen if I were to plan an escape of the USA.

I have met several young men via Twitter after leaving a "hungry" message on their thirst-trap postings. Comments like: "What I wouldn't give to be inside that amazing ass" are often followed up with a private message asking "and what WOULD you give ? I hooked up with a couple OnlyFans models this way. None of them have an escort listing anywhere. But I figure if they're getting fucked on camera they aren't shy about sex..so doesnt hurt to flirt.

But logic doesn't dictate that if I saw a pool full of ugly old men, I'd be dropping my drawers and wandering about. In fact ...I stayed only one night and moved to another hotel after I realized I was the only attractive person in the entire hotel. Lesson learned. I was very young and just learning how things worked in gay culture. You learn from your mistakes.

So it really had nothing to do with Portugal being a poor choice to retire.The gentleman simply didn't think through a move of this kind for his retirement. Even for younger people, moving to a foreign country without family and friends nearby is a challenge. For retired individuals the lack of a work routine requires you keep yourself busy with volunteer work that offers social interacions. Sounds like this gentleman was expecting a new life to fall into his lap. Re-locating takes effort and being the ex-pat anywhere means a lot of effort to blend in.

Without getting deep into political discussions, I think you better do some research about Canada before you just assume the grass is greener over there and there's no "weirdness" going on there too.

Same here. I used to see a handsome college student for Thai massage once a week. Over the course of a few weeks it went from therapeutic to erotic to me fucking his brains out after the massage. We never discussed payment for the sexual favors and I since didn't hire him as a sex-worker, I didn’t see that conversation as necessary. But of course, I did appreciate the extra attention and was well aware that he needed the money (as we all do)...so I always paid double what he originally asked once the "services" were upgraded to "full service".

Why ? Unless you're marrying the guy, the line is still clear that they're a paid service provider and you're the customer.

Oh...I'm well aware that there are admirers out there for this kind of thing. Just saddens me to see someone start out so handsome and healthy looking turn himself into a Frankenstein of a chemical experiment.

I think telling someone they are wrong about how they are running their business is ripe with insult. Although i understand you're wanting to share a different perspective and your intentions are good..I think you miss the effect of hurting a man's ego.

Nice photos....but as mentioned above they are from several years ago. (pre-covid)

I think your perspective and his are different. Who are you to "educate" him on his business model ? I would never tell someone else HOW to run their business. Especially if I've never been in that line of work.

To be clear: none of them were "escorts". I believe the key to "maintaining friendships" is to actually HAVING one to start. Some clients mistake polite business manners as friendship.

I was never even close to being that big. You're going blind ,(or delusional). I can't body-shame someone who's not in the room. (Including a chat room).

I keep in touch with several young men who used to do massage(+more). All of them departed NYC but always ask to see me out for a drink when they are back in town. I keep a casual friendship going through social media. Facebook/ Instagram/ Twitter.

He's already deformed looking. Any more sinewy faux muscle and he'd not look human anymore.

I may have been a "pretty little bitch" back then but my motivations were more.borne of naivete, than vanity. I saw "clothing optional" hotel and naively envisioned a place full of naked hot men. (This of course was pre-internet). Rather than being the center of attention, I waa hoping for more handsome sexual prospects to oggle. The reality of the situation was more of a sad retirement home vibe with men so fat you couldn't see their dick. (Which was maybe a blessing). 😉

Who said I did ? 🤔

If it were obvious I wouldn't have asked. Loneliness seems more of a personal issue, than geographical. So I hardly think that was made clear by saying he moved to Portugal. I've been several times. It's a beautiful country and the people have all been lovely...so I have a very different experience of the place. However I don’t live there...so his social situation may be different from the touristexperience.