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I'm not on PreP. So no monitoring necessary. Condoms work just fine for me as a top.

I was in London two weeks ago. I noticed the same. Quite a lot of very handsome Brazilians. Seemed almost too good to be true. Maybe it is.

Does he ? I mean...he doesn't look 40. I'd have guessed. 32.

Sorry to dash your hopes but that's not what it means. An "intuitive" masseur simply means they are good at reading the needs of your body in terms of tensions /pain etc.and how to heal you. Nobody needs intuition to understand what a boner means. 🍆

Really ? Some of the gay guys I've met over the years are pretty bad in bed. Women are far more demanding in bed than gays. So straight guys need to try harder.

I don't watch a lot of porn...but there was one guy who I remember really turned me on when I saw him. Discovered after a searching the internet for information on him that he escorted on RM. So I thought ..what a great opportunity. Happily paid his porn-star rate but the encounter was lackluster. He had bad breath and seemed to be high during our time together. So after that I decided that the fantasy may be better than the reality.

All sophisticated cities with educated people have straight guys who enjoy being hit on by the gays. Girls are just after their wallet. If a gay guy hits on you it's taken as a compliment of your sexual prowess. So some straight guys seek put this validation.

Back to the subject: Inviting someone for a drink, or a coffee is a standard signal for wanting to get to know you better. Doesn't matter where you have that beverage. But this is also a standard way of getting to know a friend...so if you want to make it clear you're looking for some bedroom time you need to navigate the conversation into more personal / intimate subjects pretty quickly and don't just talk about the weather.

Indeed.

$250/hr. Travel only. Doesn't host..so that doesn't work for me. Somebody else need to take the plunge.

Any job where you are so exposed to the general public can be traumatizing. I don't even know how people work at McDonalds, when you are exposed to every psycho who walks in the door. Escorts have to deal with a series of complete strangers engaging them in the most intimate way. This requires an incredibly well-honed sense of people skills to avoid troublemakers. I am sure many have run-ins with bad players from time to time and that surely would make someone question his career choice.

Yes. That sounds about right. Many of my units in prime areas like Greenwich Village were going for $4000 in 2019. Vacant by mid 2020. Filled by millennials at $3200 in 2021. Back to $4200 in 2022 and now at $5000 a month for a one bedroom apartment. If it weren't for the ever growing real-estate taxes in NYC I could retire.

I was in London last week. Had to wear a jacket most of the day it was so cool. Returned to NYC Saturday afternoon with 92 degrees and humid.

Oh no ! Sad news. Paul is an icon amongst comedy performers. Rest in peace.

Because other countries aren't owned by their pharmaceutical industry like the US.

I was actually questioning your 99% efficacy statement regarding PreP. The pharmaceutical industry uses that statistic based on closed studies but general population statistics have efficacy at lower rates because we don't live in a laboratory.

With that ass 🍑 it would be a damn shame if he wasn't a power bottom. Totally fuckable. Great find.

Wow. I never considered a personal chef.... He's hired !!

You shouldn't miss Taromina. It's the best destination on the island.

Maybe this is "Men are from Mars" moment because there was nothing "paralyzing" about the incident. I was angry and motivated to make sure this person never inflicted this same humiliation on another person. I find it VERY difficult to understand the level of selfishness that would preclude you from discussing your moment of shame while the predator is out violating others. Pure Narcissism .

Thank you. But. My "pain" was more anger and I didn't consider my reporting the incident to be a matter of "courage" as it was responsibility. It was important to let people know who this predator was. I couldn't un-do my own humiliation, but I could prevent it from happening to others. To withhold information about rape is a selfish act. It's your responsibility to others that should drive your choice to reveal the predator, not some desire for revenge or compensation years and years later after so many others have suffered.

Russian Roulette is a game played with "ONLY" one bullet. Would you play ?

Just a moment... WWW.THELANCET.COM I am somewhat shocked @Unicorn that you are shilling for the pharmaceutical industry with their fantasyland efficacy numbers. Multiple REAL WORLD studies show efficacy ranging from 86% to 93%. I do agree that safety measures will vary according to one's choice of dominant or submissive roles during anal sex. Since I bottom so rarely condoms suffice. If I were a pig-hole-pup I would likely be on PreP as well as insisting my (multiple)partners strap on a condom.

This is the age-old mistaken arguement about prejudice. Claiming that ALL guys aren't groomers doesn't mean that SOME aren't. Embracing facts isn't prejudice.

I was raped at a Halloween party many years ago by an older gentleman with some degree of wealth and family social standing. I exposed his misconduct the very next day to everyone who knew him. I fail to understand why anyone would wait more than 24 hours to do the same. As a victim of rape myself I do find these accounts from years past to be completely unbelievable and even more so when fame and money comes into the picture.