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One of the big mistakes a lot of gay men seem to make is isolating themselves from the real world. Going to gay bars, gay restaurants, gay cruises and only keeping up with their gay friends. Straight people have large family affairs, weddings and children. One of the great joys in life (for me) is seeing those kids grow up. I just attended a wedding last weekend for my niece. Being "Uncle" whether by blood or friendship is certainly a resource for late-in-life love and support when you spend your early years being a supportive "family" member for the younger generation.

I love THIS line in his profile - "ɪ ᴀᴍ ɴᴏᴛ ꜱʜᴀʀɪɴɢ ᴍʏ ʙᴇᴅʀᴏᴏᴍ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴀɴʏᴏɴᴇ ᴏʀ ᴀɴʏ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀ ꜱᴋᴇᴛᴄʜʏ ʙᴜꜱɪɴᴇꜱꜱ".

I've had terrible massages by certified guys and great massages by guys who aren't. Skill in massage takes instincts and the certification papers don't always signify you've got any.

His stories certainly are. Why don't you hire him and tell us how much is truth and how much is marketing ? 😉

YOU brought up the thugs. I didn't But it's not unreasonable to consider the possibility of thug fetish going bad and you ending up with actual thug-boys robbing you during a meet. I'm well trained with a pistol and martial arts. So doubting that any one is gonna survive an attack on me. Therefore I have no problem saying goodbye quickly to a fake

I didn't say they do. Just saying they're all over the place inside and outside my house. It's standard procedure in NYC these days. If I say more about the issue I would need to wander into politics and I'd get spanked.

Not in the habit of hiring "thugs" nor hooking up in "the hood". So I'm good. I can read the room.

You never shoot to kill for a robbery. That's asking for trouble with the courts. Always aim for the thigh, and immediately call the police after you shoot them. Make sure you have the attack on video so you can claim self defense. Cameras are cheap and easy to use today.

Like I don't have cameras all over the place already. It's NYC, dude.

It's NYC. Anything possible but it's unlikely a gay guy who's sucking dick for a living is carrying a gun in NYC. #1 it's VERY difficult to get a license here...so you need to obtain one illegally. #2 Walking around with an illegal unregistered weapon here, is going to land you in jail for a long time. So unless you're a drug dealer...most people don't risk it

I think everyone is allowed to quote an age that is REALISTIC. Doesn't need to be actual. Just believable. People tend to be shocked when I tell them my real age. So I literally exist in a different reality for others if I don't tell them otherwise.

Most guys who do sex work get off on being worshipped, not "giving". The idea that youre so desireable that somebody will actually PAY you to cum I'm them/on them is a turn on for the provider. I do believe that MASSEURS are more inclined to the "giving" personality than escorts.

That would end badly as I maintain an active firearm license. 😉

The pear shaped loser was in my house. You tell them to leave and call the police if they don't. Like I said I generally hire for massage...so there's no embarrassment for me to explain why this guy's in my house.

Once again. The Labor class takes the hit. Wage increases for blue collar workers did not adjust the same way it is doing for white collar jobs. These people already live dollar to dollar. Making everything more expensive by 20% over two years and raising their income by 10% means you're reducing a consumer class in their ability to afford basics. It's little wonder the middle class department stores have vanished and the suburban blue collar landscape is now full of Walfart and Dullard General.

Vinny: "I'm very Open mind". I guess when you join the mafia, spelling isn't important.

Because I'm PAYING This isn't a 'date' where I'm working to please my partner. I'm slapping down some cash to be serviced WITHOUT the worry of my partners orgasm.

BIG difference between losing your job as a cashier and choosing not to let you dump in my ass with a load of HIV. Sorry. That said....the likelihood of people being honest in general is low. So YOU need to navigate your own health decisions. Wear a condom.

Easy to explain: It's fulfills the fantasy that your partner is actually into it. I remember a straight friend of mine, told me he used to let old gay men suck him off when he was a teenager so he could buy drugs...I asked him what he was thinking about to get hard with a man. He said: "obviously I was thinking about that $50 bucks."

Everyone is in denial. I heard they were still fucking at dungeons and bath houses in the middle of the AIDS epidemic until the Government shut them down. Gay men, too frequently, think with their dick.

I don't hire a lot of escorts. (More inclined toward massage pros)..but even with them, if the pix are way off, then I'm not going through with the appointment. I understand that everyone uses their best shots and sometimes you find someone lacking those abs or gaining some crows-feet. So I'm not talking about minor differences. But if you're off by ten years and 30 pounds then you're not worthy of anything but the courtesy of the words: "Sorry. This isnt gonna work". I remember one guy asked me "what's wrong" and I said you're shaped like a pear and you're clearly a liar. The guy was at least 20 years older than his photos and hadn't seen his abs in a decade of eating cake. Be prepared for drama, because these types are a little mental.

Everyone has their own turn-ons. That's not what I am disputing. I am saying if everyone is ejaculating all over the place this is not " a massage"...this is sex-worker territory.

Amazing. Thanks for the blast from the past. I used to make that in college. Long forgotten, once I learned to actually cook. But I recall this E Z mix was actually kind of good. Lots of sauce so serve over rice.

To me ...when I am PAYING a masseur, I want a massage and maybe a Happy ending for ME. The issue of the other fellow ejaculating anywhere seems more ESCORT oriented than MASSAGE 🤔

I would have immediately lost my hard-on.