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Will Smith (during his beefy A-list days) was on many a straight man's who-I-would-go-gay-for list.

These kinds of recommendations remind me of restaurant reviews in Middle America. "Great place ! So much food !"

That's because the biggest know-it-alls migrated over there. They probably had no idea what they were talking about but gave you their advice anyway. 🙃

Is it ? I found the situation odd myself. I am also curious.

My "agenda" is that you're gonna like what (or who) you like and no matter what someone else thinks about...that's not gonna change. "You do you", has always been my mantra.

I was never "in".😉 But, I remember my first realization that I was different from other people. My mother picked me up after my first day of Kindergarten. She asked me about my day. I said the teacher was nice and I met a cute girl and a cute boy. She quickly corrected me and said that although the girl might be cute, the boys are just friends and you don't call them "cute" or think about them in that way. So I thought about it and decided to never discuss it again with my mother ..because that boy was definitely cute. 🤣

Poor grammar and unaware of the difference between masseur and masseuse.

I guess we are lazy hunters. Don't need to look far when you're a generalist.

Straight men go hunting for deer. Gay men go hunting for dick. Men love the hunt for something new.

No. I meant VHS. Do you not remember those? VHS - Wikipedia EN.M.WIKIPEDIA.ORG

Escorts have a "sell by date". The sort of young fit and handsome men who can run a successful OnlyFans can charge whatever they want for access to their dick and ass. 30-somethings who continue to keep fit and handsome have a dwindling - but still solid following. That said; unless you keep up that gym routine, your pricing is going to start sliding backward. Over 40: you're losing most of your audience and you need to take on budget customers or offer more extremely kinky services. So escorts are like cars. A few years off the lot and the price has nothing to do with inflation....its all about how pristine you maintain the chassis.

Yes. On 14th Street

He's not even "super hot"...so why should I be ? 🤔

Offering "engaging conversation". 🤪

Jason give good body massagee.him bery fit look. You come .enjoy him and good tip with happy time.

Will she also be releasing a new music video on VHS ? 🤪

The obvious shilling in broken English is like a comedy sketch. 🤣 "Him make massage me. Happy fun time you come and good tip have."

Well.... I think your feelings of loss are getting the best of you. Sounds like you had a pretty superficial relationship. I think involving yourself more in his last days would have only served to make you feel worse...and may not have done much to make his better. Meth addiction is often a sign of self-medicating for depression. You lost a fun fuckbuddy. Don't make more of it than it's worth making. The universe called him home. You couldn't have changed anything.

A point; you well make.

Thanks But I meant on C.o.M. 😁

We need an emoticon for covering your ears instead of your eyes. Normally I like old Cher performances (Sonny & Cher era) but this is painful to listen to.

Darrell Jones is one of my favorite Instagram cuties. If he was actually the "boy next door" I'd be at my window daily. 😉

I grew up, down the street from a family who raised their down-syndrome child at home. That was a rough life for that mother. Just my opinion based on knowing that family...I don't think your parents necessarily made the wrong decision.

I live in NYC. There are dozens of S&M dungeon spaces to explore. Both straight and gay.

I wasn't criticizing your ability to give back. I was sad to hear that you felt you needed to "make up" for not being straight. My parents are actually pretty open minded people and I never really HAD to say much to them about my relationships. Even when I was dating a guy, it took my mother only two visits to figure it out. My wife is a college friend and yes, my mother knows we both experimented a lot with relationships with both men and women. I never mentioned the swingers parties to her but I did tell my father who was envious of my ability to experience the world in ways he never could have. I did not bring up the subject of dungeon parties or huge orgies in the early 2000s. Some things just need to be left to a parent's imagination. 😉