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That and the 5 cent cherry coke at the counter in Woolworth's

Absolutely. I have made this point many times. For now the law is used to "take down" important people (Governor of New York). But in the era of meta-data being stored for that moment you become inconvenient, it's wise to avoid the risk of having broken a Federal Law.

Two sides to every story. I would be curious to hear the client's side of your story.

I see he's a "masseuse" . Is he a recent Trans person ?

Correct. They are attracted to the money 🤑...not you .

As I stated before...it's all theatre. For example if an escort can't get a hard-on...then neither can I. So you'd better tank up on Viagra if you can't actually get into the session. I'm not SO old and I'm still in pretty good shape for my age...but I'm aware none of these super hot guys would hit me up in Grindr for a freebie. I suppose the more a provider is an actor the more likely a Lonely-Lenny will hire him just to hang out after he gets off.

This is very simple. If you're PAYING someone for sex, they're not actually into you. *boom*

People have mentioned they hire him for escorting too ...but the over all opinion is that YES..he's burnt out and unable to pretend he's enjoying your company My memory of hiring him was that he was bored beyond belief. Although I didn't take it personally...it was an unpleasant environment to be in and hardly something I would recommend to anyone.

Thanks for this. I have traveled a great deal for many years...but I am sure to learn a few things with this.

Well... Clearly that's not true. You're a very attractive man so I'm sure you get many responses from tourists visiting New York. I'm sure you rarely keep a regular clientele. 80% sounds like a gross exaggeration when you consider the mediocrity of your work. Sorry. I've been around for a while and although I can compliment you on your looks / polite manner and lovely apartment.... your massage skills are lacking and your sensual abilities are incredibly unenthusiastic. I'm sure jerking off old men for a living gets boring but you make it REALLY obvious.

They're not. It's theatre. You're paying for the illusion.

Yes. Thank you @marylander1940. I PAY people because i accept they are better looking than me. I acknowledge that at my age Super amazingy hot guys aren't going to let me fuck them for free. I have no need to pretend they actually like me and I just happen to be handing them cash because I had some extra in my wallet. 🤣

I do if I have to PAY them. Of course, they're not attracted to me, or I wouldn't be PAYING ! Escorts are paid to pretend they like you...so you'd never know if the connection was genuine or not. If I want really superior looking fit young guys, then I need to match the attraction or match the price. Otherwise I'd have enough luck on Grindr to keep me satisfied. I'm well past the days where people might clamor to get in my drawers. I'd much rather pick what I like and schedule a meet instead of spending hours digging through Grindr for the occasional hottie who likes daddies.

I agree and agree. Always nice when there's more offered. If it does somehow ends up being an escort session at the completion, then it's due more than just a "tip". I pay what a normal escort fee would include. Sometimes this is negotiated and sometimes it's left up to me to be a gentleman. But unless I'm traveling or visiting someone from out of town. I tend to keep a regular relationship with a good masseur who is sexually compatible too. So I would naturally be generous to keep my provider happy to return.

As everyone has stated there is NO exact definition. But I would say that an "erotic"massage SHOULD at minimum involve a sexually titillating experience, where the masseur arouses the client. But At that point what varies drastically is what happens after you're aroused. Some will include a completion and others will negotiate for an additional fee. And sadly some will leave you with blue balls. Yes. It's good to discuss up front...but I actually prefer to leave it to fate and if I am impressed I will return. If not...I pay the fee requested, include nothing more and move on.

I don't agree. I stayed at a small hotel in Barcelona where the doors were closed at midnight. If you were out late (as most people are) you were supposed to ring thr bell and the attendant would come unlock the door for you. Knowing I had likely woken up the young fellow I said thanks and tipped him. He threw is back at me. I've had other instances where desk clerks or service people outside of the restaurant industry look at me like I'm crazy when I tip for small accommodations that to me go beyond the standard of their job title.

Yes. As a business owner...I pay people to WORK. An escort for the night is working mostly during sex with someone he's only pretending to be attracted to. The rest of the performance is seemingly less complicated to act like you enjoy the client's company. So I think the compensation at a lower hourly rate is appropriate. I agree. .. a nice dinner or the offer to accompany someone to an event is not part of the pay scale...but it does make the experience more tolerable when the client is particularly dull or disgusting.

I'm with @Jamie21 on this one. Start with the scalp.

Same. Nice guy. I just wasnt into him enough for any minds to be blown .

"BIG" ?? big in what way ? 🍆

Elio is 17 and Oliver 24

Definitely pretty...but is he truly sweet as candy ? He's expensive like a five star restaurant.

He seems to have two sets of photos. Some VERY fit photos from when he was a young man ..and then some facial shots showing just the upper portion of a much more thick torso and an older face. I'm thinking there's at least four years between these images. Maybe even another year or two between some of the face pix.

I agree there was some bad facial surgery before the tits got added...but wasn't that also part of his growing dislike of his male self ? No matter how much lipstick and wigs he applies, Bruce/Kaitlyn is one ugly woman.