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No dildo feels like the real thing.

Maybe your "toy" is too big for a beginner

Are you trans ?

"Dildo" is a very general term for a lot of different size sex toys to shove up your ass. An actual dick will feel different as much as the whole encounter will be. But the first few minutes of getting anything inside your butt ranges from uncomfortable to painful. (Unless you're a huge bottom slut). It's a lot of mental/emotional stimuli that make it pleasurable. Doing it yourself is good practice but not a great representation of the actual act.

You don't.

I think it's closed-minded to assume everyone thinks like you Lots of men have zero interest in being a bottom no matter what the "possibility" of the circumstances.

Maybe they check the price of your hotel and figure you can afford more. Doesn't hurt to ask.

You assume that everyone is versatile. Labels matter when you're not.

Sexy guy, but his Twitter feed leads me to believe he's a bit of a drama queen.

There was a beautiful story in the news recently about an elderly couple in Holland who had both reached terminal conditions and chose to end their life together holding hands during the assisted suicide procedure. I found that to be a very humane and beautiful way to go. Since we're all gonna go sometime.

Beer Halls are all the rage with 20-something bros and their chicks.

I haven't been since before covid ..so my reccomendations may be out of date

Yes. For guys who are versatile. I was discussing guys who identify as top or bottom only.

Potato / Potatoe I am speaking to an audience that's primarily American so lots of members here who suffered the anxiety of Catholic guilt about sex.

DeAngelo is the textbook definition of 🔥 🥵 hot to me. Throw him in the other discussion thread: "Who would you pay $1000 to be with" ?

When I was younger, I tended to attract older men who wanted me to bottom and I obliged, and enjoyed it. As I got older and more muscular and masculine, I started attracting men more my own age and younger who all wanted me to top. Which was more of my natural inclination. I just assumed this is a natural progression, but after much discussion here on CoM I notice there are a lot of old bottoms out there. So..maybe not a matter of age...but perhaps as you point out, a matter of masculinity and muscle.

Have you been to Bangkok ? It's more about access and attitude in Bangkok. Their culture lacks the influence of the Catholic church which makes sex a shameful act. Homosexuality is also not considered "wrong". All this makes for an open and comfortable.marketplace when searching for a sexual companion.

So you're afraid a roommate will make you the subject of his cocktail hour ? I never assume I'm that important to strangers.

Do you pay by the inch ? 🤔

Yeah. Appears to be the same.guy. Same ink on the arm. Cade Maddox is impressive and I'd understand if he were asking $1000 but the twink is no more than a $300 hole for some desperate old man. The most I'd give him is $100 if I were very drunk and ran out of options.

May I ask, did you do bottom surgery or top surgery or both ? In my personal experience with having sexual relations with peope from the trans community, that knowledge is important to me. I imagine it would be so for a provider too.

Didn't even look. I'm too much of a top I guess.

I've never been clothed during a Thai massage..and I've have many from many different providers. That said....all forms of masage will be organized according to the individual provider, not some universal rule book. Every session I've had with someone who was from Thailand ended with extras. But Thai trained Americans may often be strictly therapeutic. Again...all depends on the individual.

That ass is worth showing off.