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I never host. The name I give them may or may not be my real name and I assume the same is true with them. I find I rarely hire from the lot whose name is an adjective (even if it is dimensionally accurate) I like the anonymity, personally.

A good actor exiting a scene stays in character until out of sight on the wings. The kiss goodbye is still part of the scene, not the curtain call. ?

Be confident in your cleanliness. Part of what you need to be able do for your enjoyment of the act, is to push as though you’re moving your bowels, While knowing there’s nothing that can come out as a result. Tell your top you need lots of hole foreplay - rimming, fingering, massaging. Not just spit - use lube. Your outermost ring will be relaxed from massage and touch, Use your favorite lube and let a couple of fingers in, to push lube in a couple inches. Clench closed, and then push out. Repeat. In between those two actions is relaxation. My relaxing is better on the inhale, yours may be on the exhale. Now you have all the tools to make sure you’re resisting the instinct to make yourself water-tight. That’s how most discomfort comes about - the resistance to being penetrated works against both pleasure and safety. Breathe. Relax. Clench release relax. Toys can be instructive more than you’d imagine, especially finding your breath.

I have worked on lots of big shows with lots of beautiful men. It’s likely that among them were some Providers, but it was before internet was the means of advertising, and the B&W photos in newsprint ads were small. It’s often hard in the entertainment biz to get away with the secret for too long, as some clients can move within the same circles, sometimes in casting/hiring positions.

Oh, yes... I know people who saw it (with Maxwell Caulfield, rather than Matthew) 1985 Off Broadway. Said the script was meh...Even the beauty that was the nude Max couldn’t save the play. (I worked with him in 2000 or so and he was still gorgeous and really funny and sweet - and wonderful on stage. He stayed mostly dressed.)

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I’d say the Best Masseur is the Provider who kept his business afloat for the past 10 months, and has verified negative Covid test results for himself and every one of his clients he will have seen through the end of the year.

No need to skip, very few all-female numbers. New York Shows can actually get away with same degree of female nudity in commercial productions that you see in Bares, so less of a novelty. Men’s nudity is usually implied - Even in The Full Monty you never get what the title promises.

@JoeMendoza it sounds like you are best off watching the Broadway Bares fundraisers via YouTube. Its combo of beauty and talent shows both in great light. Hope you also like boobs. No full frontal - down to floss and a small stage-worthy sock. Dancers butts: The best. Male full frontal nudity in live theatre is most often about one of two things: shock value (often comedic, but not always) and as an outward manifestation of the character’s extreme emotional vulnerability. Situational nudity (showers, dressing, or just before or after sex (seduction?) ) is usually brief and not really the focus of the scene, though depending on casting, can steal focus. Naked Boys Singing and Party were two successful shows that liberally used male nudity to acknowledge and laugh at most everyone’s discomfort with seeing unclothed men. There is a full video of NAKED BOYS SINGING, and you can find that online I bet. It has very clever writing and staging, some strong musical performances, and even some poignant moments about love. In a way, you eventually forget they’re all nude.

I’m not an impulse buyer. I do my research (including here) and have 2-3 providers operating in my city under consideration. When I know my availability for, say, the next week, I’ll text expressing interest and ask how much in advance they discuss booking. Then I go with that, and say “Thx, you’ll hear from me on Tuesday, then. Can’t wait” Some profiles say “book ahead” and mean one day, some mean two-three days. Some mean 2 hours. This step clarifies.

It’s very clear where the boundary line is, if you’ve already intimate with an amateur that turns pro. He’s just not into you, except with a deposit. He’s moved from FB to vendor. I think It’s fuzzier when your first or first few encounter(s) are professional and the natural rapport or chemistry invites social crossover - time off the clock. Messy, according to a few tales shared in these pages.

Couldn’t the same method of digital tracing from RM to you, be applied with posts about the topic here?

Schitts Creek takes a few episodes - I didn’t stay with it the first time, but once into it by about 4-5 episodes, the payoffs increased. Try it again. Do it for Catherine.

I love that the new scientific name for the grueling research field is “teledildonics” My personal history with insertables goes back more than 35 years, and over time I have gotten used to some really big ones. For me, I’m afraid use of this kind of vibrating toy would only result in an echo...

You mean that Corbin Fisher’s parents are Betty Crocker and Mr Clean..?

I find that knowing a guy has musical or any artistic talent is for me, an enormously stimulating situation. Dirk Caber’s Talents Art bares a different part of the being. Excuse me I need to get a towel.

Porn stars I’d never hire? All of them. My type is 40+ I have one fave who does have screen credits from 10-15 years ago. But the current crop of “stars” aren’t really as eye-catching to me.

HATED everything about PE. School didn’t have a pool, which is where I would have been chosen for a game instead of being the among the dregs that nobody wanted, who were eventually assigned to a resentful team. In Jr High there were a couple of guys who had repeated a grade or two, and were physically developed. One had a good looking face and body but had terrible acne everywhere but I was fascinated by his body hair - a healthy sprinkle of chest hair, a treasure trail to a very thick Bush, along with having hair on his butt, and much thicker on his legs. The other one was very pale with a farmer’s tan, but had one of those big uncut missile-shaped cocks with weight that shifted (swung?) back and forth as he walked, and he knew it was intimidating. Later in high school I did shower cause I knew I was stanky after class. Very few surprises among my classmates, but one time when I went back at the end of school day to look for something that I dropped in my locker and caught the coach in the shower. I waited til his hair and face were soapy and took a brief but good look. I’d never seen anything so beautiful- his naturally muscular body, just the perfect amount of hair, and my god, the oversized serving of meat AND potatoes he lathered generously for the few seconds I could stare safely. That image lasted for fantasy visual until Playgirl magazine was on shelves of better bookstores...

I’ve tried ethyl (sprayed on rag) and though there was a rush effect for me, I didn’t instinctively know how to ride it. Had to do 3 hits before getting the pay off to sync the first time, and it left my head throbbing. Had another go weeks after, used less, and still got a headache. There are some who prefer ethyl, but I’m in the little brown bottle camp.

Having had to weed through my Mom’s mountains of memorabilia, knickknacks, stuff and furniture - thinning for putting her condo on the market, sorting “take or donate” in prep for her move across country to a smaller unit, moving day out, moving day in, and then after a brief illness and peaceful passing at 89, dividing the every day treasures and history pieces among the sibs, some of which are still consuming space in my house - I humbly offer this: Discard with feverish abandon.

I think if one does all the math incl insured shipping, products to use, time making room to store out of sight, or wardrobe if not... For the same cost you could probably hire a part time houseboy for the chores, and a masseur or escort for ... the sense of humor.

@RubMyThighs since you are already seeing a chiropractor, take note of their precautions. Ask them if there are additional precautions that should be taken by a body worker, given longer session and more close contact. Make notes, and ask any provider you consider, if they will meet conditions A B and C. If they don’t, go to the next one. Keep in mind, a number of excellent providers are pausing still, and others have simply called it quits. So of the usual buffet of talent, you want combo of precautions, skills, and attractiveness. Smaller buffet right now. Your first choice might meet all the criteria but is available at a higher rate... or a shorter window to schedule. Figure out what’s most important and start there.

This maker has been doing it a long time - It’s very spendy RealDoll Male Version

What Age? Bronze

Wow. Thank you for sharing this, and I hope you are staying as safe as possible. Happy ?