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“Never fuck on the good duvet”. — Kitty Bartholomew Use a sheet or thin washable blanket over an inexpensive plastic barrier - thin enough to not go “crunch crunch” with each passionate thrust… https://www.dollartree.com/black-plastic-table-covers-54x108/943536 Oops, too late… https://www.reddit.com/r/askgaybros/comments/1nl8li/any_tips_on_cleaning_up_silicone_lube/ I’m able to buy 99% Alcohol at beauty supplies for the trade. Really helps break down silicone lube. Denatured Alcohol from paint dept at Home Depot comes close. Blot it on the stain, then follow with soap solution blotting, or laundering. Stick with Kitty.

If you have visited anyone in an average corporate chain skilled nursing facility, you’ve probably noticed that one resident, probably near a nurse’s station, who’s angrily yelling to no one in particular for attention. “Somebody better get in here, or there’s gonna be hell to pay.” Crazy old lady. Well, that was my 90yr old mom in what was prescribed post-stroke rehab, when she actually had a brain tumor they weren’t looking for. Up to the first seizure-like event, she was in a 55+ active senior complex, nice one bedroom. No care, no meals. Independent scaled down living. So her drastic personality change was not a result of being in the place, but the care she needed was always just out of reach, and the other residents were mostly variations on a similar theme - neither demented enough and too “we’ll off” for funded memory care, too poor for transitional assisted living, not independent enough to be left alone in a child’s home during working hours - it has been/will be the fate of too many - and now I also gotta worry about getting booted out for being “too handsy” with the male aides who are tasked with lifting us? Oy vey. How do we get insurance that will cover the routine preventative maintenance of a nice massage …or something… maybe 2 hrs once a month. I don’t know, it might keep me from yelling at no one in particular.

I missed this show when it toured the first time - another tour company resuming soon I hear. It was captured in HD on the Broadway set during lockdown with the original cast and a limited audience, and I caught it on either HBOMax or Netflix. A wonderful balm to follow the maudlin 20th Anniversary of 9/11 - I cannot recommend it highly enough.

Perhaps we all need to make a pact that we shall open a Senior Existing Facility in each major city, that is open only to members of the Forum, and books providers accepting Groupons! 🤗

This series has been a revelation! It has now been revealed to me that I like the two Martins, but no longer as the main dish. Definitely a side…or garnish even. Short in The Morning Show, for example. I do like OMitB choices to use a lot of stage actors. I have set it aside for the time being. It’s not as funny as How to Get Away with Murder…

Amen. I love my comedy dark. Killing Eve. After Life. Dead To Me. I don’t object however, to a little sprinkle of kindness to balance, or add a little sweet *zing* to all the bile. I don’t find it as necessary when it’s a film, but for me, binging on a nonstop parade of people being awful is no different from watching FoxNews all day. 😛

Do you make time out of your non-working hours to see a provider? You schedule an appointment? That time is “set aside” for your interaction, meaning that other activities won’t make you run late or make you have to leave early. You can set aside a block of time for anything. Doing good for others is worth setting aside time, right?

Shop for freebies. That is, non-providing people, who are looking for a soulmate, like you. Put Richard Gere and Julia Roberts out of your head entirely. Professional companionship is not meant to be an alignment of souls. Maybe it can happen, but not likely by any stretch. Set aside time to volunteer or take a class or attend a concert - anything that puts you in a space with people who enjoy something you do.

@Shawn Monroe Quiet lurking sounds hot - is that part of dom/sub or BFE? Or perhaps I can quietly lurk and watch you lurk quietly? 👀👀

If you are talking about a group, think of encouraging him to use a wheelchair for the long parts and a cane or walker (carried by another of the group) for the shorter parts more manageable for him. Call ahead for specific info on an exhibit or show -lots more places have ADA accommodations in place. If you take him to see strippers, make sure he can reach his own singles and fives without needing help

OK. No one in this conversation has yet to peak. Here’s to the memories of when it happened, if we still got ‘em! 🤩

According to my research, gay men peak sexually sometime prior to the onset of the infallible ability to identify this woman by her full name: Dame Elizabeth Rosemond Taylor Hilton Wilding Todd Fisher Burton Burton Warner Fortensky If you have no clue who she was, your peak may still be ahead. Huzzah!

Some religious Arab- American families are not always welcoming to the idea of a gay son, so many remain closeted longer, and thus there are fewer providers out there to choose from. Add in the height requirement- I mean 6’2 is in itself a rarity among providers -we members not withholding, its just going to take a bit more research which you can easily do yourself. You can filter results by height and weight on Rent.m - Use advanced search which includes this: In general, forum help is going to best after following your own research to its dead end(s) first. The provider platforms actually are pretty helpful, but only to the extent the provider is truthful in his submission. And THAT is where the fun begins ‘round here.

There is, Big Ben. I guess no one told you, figuring you probably wouldn’t care…😐

Men can get breast cancer too… just sayin’ And what does scarring of any sort matter when paying for masseur, unless you really want sexual services of some sort, or are just expecting maybe escort-level physical ideals at a lower rate? Maybe this has an effect on the overall rate increases discussed of late in the forum…

I don’t know how you can compare them, medically. Though both were exacerbated by a disastrous Administration ignoring cries for help.

Call and ask, as facility layout is unique to each location and may dictate policies on distancing, etc.

Whoa. That’s sick. 🙂 Good for Jason. He knows Ted and will continue to make him delightful and compelling however his therapy plays into the coming episodes.

Kiss and not tell.

Late to the party with all Apple shows- been hearing so many good things and finally got around to it. Any other fans? not intended as a spoiler but if you’ve seen the series so far https://slate.com/culture/2021/09/ted-lasso-episode-8-suicide-mental-health.html what do you think?

How many Freudian Analysts does it take to change a lightbulb? “One to change the bulb and one to hold my penis. I mean my mother…. …the ladder! “

Tragic stories of family cut off from saying goodbye, like in wartime, or other man-made disasters, will be a big part of the narrative in any historical look back at the past two years. In many recent cases, its pain is compounded by the legacy of willful ignorance worn so proudly by some Americans.

So, I gather Customer Service is not among your Big-T Talents, @Talented lol

Thx. You’re a PR pro!