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A lot of us took the year of staying home to try growing something we might not have the patience for in other. I still refer to mine as my fukkit beard. During Pride, shouldn’t disapproval of anything be shelved along with shame and fear…?

I rarely revisit a book in its entirety - the ones I really do lose myself in (Follett’s historical fiction e.g.) are longer, too long for a rerun. My favorite re-read are Maupin’s Tales of the City series. A publishing gap of 17 years required a re-read of Books 1-6 before Michael Tolliver Lives. I re-read all of them for pleasure after I had pre-ordered the last: Days of Anna Madrigal. TV Adaptations were pretty good, but obviously incomplete. And missing the author’s dry narrative voice.

Only if it does floors and windows.

A provider charges $750/hr because he’s learned he can make up to $749/hr creating self-produced content with other hot-as-he-is providers who have a pre-determined sexual compatibility. I just learned JFF as a professional membership org has enough creators that it can give models access to group health insurance. Cool. And that has comparable cash value to it. The value of time spent vs compensation. If you’re in demand, you’ll have passive income available, and can choose to offer “in-person, client-oriented” work less often and/or at higher rates. As with athletes and dancers, the clock (and sometimes gravity) place limits on peak earning capability for SW’s. Get ‘em before they’re stars, gents.

I support the use of a neutral singular pronoun. I have problems with the redefinition of they/them/theirs to accomplish this. Pronouns must be clear about the number of nouns they are standing in for. “It/It/its is dehumanizing, obviously. The English language has developed hundreds, if not thousands of words referring to human genitalia. We can’t invent a new pronoun?

Is it at all possible that Nick’s the same guy in this ad? Probably not, but does anyone like@Love2GetMassagedor@MassageLover82been in person make any connection? The therapy emphasis, lead time, and pricey upgrade - possibly to reduce the crossing of dual career tracks …and such… His IMDB page has some not-insignificant credits. The face was familiar but I haven’t really seen the shows I took notice of the commercial for very first time today and was sure I’d seen that guy’s face somewhere. I have in the past (a year?) checked his profile on the linked MF page and maybe that’s the random bit of linked memory. Then I stumbled on this Thread which took me back to his profile and made me wonder 🧐

1. In bad taste. Says the rent-boy…who is making a public scene… on a rooftop… in Missouri. 2. Those of us in our drama-free 50’s and 60’s didn’t start our long-term friendships last week, we started them in our early/mid-30’s. While doing LOTS of the Gay stuff. 😉

So, Self-Care…

The first one says I’m sorta shy, but relaxed… …the second says I’m hilarious … the third says I need to go home … and more than that says that I won’t be allowed in this bar again 🥴

He must be focusing on creating content -his Twitter always linking to new scenes. The modern masseur - working from home

Pediatrician joke about his youth was all Role models setting good examples, and leading the good fight in local region or city have more to offer young people facing societal obstacles. The spotlights will stay trained on those who generate sales.

There are impulsive transactions and planned encounters. I’m not the only one here who remembers when SW ads were only in low-circulation print with poor if any images. For the youngsters reading, there was no internet and no mobile phones. Research was impossible. So if you needed that professional touch, and were “out” there might be a referral from a discreet friend, but closeted men were checking the small ads or picking up someone at a bar or on the Boulevard, very risky, that… Forethought helped, if only for the two days of volleys with landline answering machines. And ATMs were not everywhere… We now yell at the Microwave to hurry. There’s stimulating imagery only a click away, so some assume the stimulating human in the image is summoned as easily. SWs are not Instacart AvailableNow is a tool for providers, and the site, less for clients. Providers use it to bump their ad upward and is pretty basic marketing (Operators Standing By!!) They tease us with their phantom presence. I plan. A little. I check profile for requests/limitations about lead time. My standard otherwise is 48hrs ahead via text

May his life’s journey be enhanced by being true to himself. I mean that. But I’m weary of all the Stars and Influencers over-sharing these days. I mean, isn’t the group of people that might need this intimate information actually a pretty small one? His family, close friends, collaborators, his pediatrician and other MD’s, plus the few individuals he may find desirable in a given time and place? Can’t I still appreciate his work if I don't care about what “sort of bisexual” he is? ”Yeah, but his story can set an example for younger people who…” Bullshit. He’s a beautiful celebrity and has a ton of money. The only younger LGBTQ people whose experience could possibly be modeled on DA’s would be more beautiful celebrities with a lot of money

I understand that initial communication with a provider when inquiring should always be brief, clear, and respectful and basically about date, time, location, duration. In profiles, many providers will indicate “open to new things” or “mild to wild” “let me make your fantasy come true” and my favorite, “Ask Me” If from his pics and profile, I expect he would be agreeable to fun with X Y and Z activities, is the necessarily more graphic proposal better for the provider via text (volley no doubt) or voice call? There are times a provider needs to have a sketch of the session to quote rate and agree on times. I like to hear the voice, and sometimes providers appreciate that as well. So I usually place a call What do you think? are you in favor of a call (by appt if needed for privacy) or of text for details of the client’s objectives? I always follow up with simple confirmation text re day date hour, location. Thanks

So many A—holes So little Hair… 😌

Nurse Film/Stage Producer, Director AMW (Actor, Model, Whatever) House Servant, Chauffeur. Bartender/Waiter Retail Clerk Law Enforcement/Military Artist /Writer/Photographer Musician/Composer/DJ Loading Dock Smoker Guy

A Diva does not retire She She is “re-evaluating her life/work balance to allow more ___________for her _________ and valuable work with The ________ For _______ ,________ - _____________ And ____________________Type 3” OR She is “working creatively across multiple _________and __________, with some new artists who ______ the_________ “ OR ****Tickets Available Now!**** Pre-Broadway tour of the exciting new One- ______Show, “The _________ Never__________ A Diva and her ___________” Starring The Lady Herself *+*+* ____________ ! ! *+*+* no refunds no exchanges

Actually, just a case of crackers would be fine Gluten-free. Crunchy and not too small, to hold a nice dip

Have had a thing for older men for all my life. Older is not static, so over time this has become a thing for OLD men. The inevitable, now that I myself am An Old, is one of two paths: Enduring a prattling well-endowed youth of 19 who needs a grandpa, or necromancy.

Buttah- Face “hes got the body, the swagger, the booty, the dick, everything but a face…” I prefer to see a face pic for full service hire. Less important for massage, with eyes closed I can imagine he’s anyone…

Bump. Post-Covid-19 now His profile active, 1 or 2 new pics

There is a little terminology tidy-up needed, right? Re: Rimming change “positions” from Bottom/Top to Give/Get. Versatile still applies ”I will bring a clean bowl if you’d like to toss a salad” is cute but maybe arcane? Re: Into’s So many stops between a first kiss and the AfterGlow. if the idea of “into” is to help MATCH clients with providers, this might help draw a better map: 4 options of degree per item YES/Learning/Open to try/NO Clearer way to start convo when provider volunteering to share specifics This can make hiring easier with less back n forth, and help the session be more successful for both provider and client, I think.

His ad on RentMen (link in post above) is what you need to look at, rather than ad on rentmasseur. He’s very easy to talk to, so when you contact him, be upfront about what you would like to happen. He’s versatile in almost everything, and you will have a very good time with the upgraded service. His Sensual Massage is spa-level work and service. PM if you have more specific Questions.

I’m sure I mumble to myself when sorting something out i save the yelling for when I’m on an LA freeway and the gun has been left in the trunk

Tops who bottom? They used to be called “gay” Then internet and social media pushed this definition to “versatile” Now the pro’s marketing strategy includes being some sort of unicorn, branding themselves as the elusive “Top Who Bottoms”, while the difference for them is just between prep for the date: good douche vs popping a Cialis. God bless the real men who do both.