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...wonder what Fishtix and breadcrumbs mean

Good point,Baron. Like you, I learn from the story-telling, and my intent is not to discourage it. I just worry when the story-telling gets specific enough that it could betray what I hope is a professional, psychological contract with an escort.
 
Again, I share my perspective bc the story-telling is hitting home a li'l too close for my comfort. It is only my humble opinion that specific details are dangerous. Also, some of these posts indicate (to me) that people are taking sides and still holding on to previous threads and grudges. What the hell is that all about? Grow up folks. I would love to see how we could redirect that energy towards a more positive aim - helping us learn and grow with tact and empathy.
 
PS - Geminibear, to me, your handle is so appropriate bc you are a GEM. I must confess I'm crushing on your soul - which is expertly disguised by unrelenting humor and wit...yet you can't help but shine.

Mesh underwear...yes. Mesh Ts...maybe. Mesh on #5...sacrilege!
 
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I'm missing some facts here. Is the client saying it repeatedly or did he/she just blurt it out?
 
If the latter, it is probably a faux pas. Give the client some grace by simply smiling and continuing to do what you were doing. the client will either get the hint or appreciate your grace during an impulsive moment. However, if the client continues telling you this, you may need to set boundaries. maybe you could bring a gag rag next time?

I had a regular fuck buddy where the sex was really good. We were about to set up a time to meet up and he asked me, "are you into anything kinky? wanna try something new?"
 
I was pretty vanilla at the time, and I told him I'd get back to him. I thought about different fantasies, role playing, etc. that might turn me on. I ended up coming up with one thing that seemed incredibly forbidden, totally taboo... even frightening. I got back to him the next day and I said, "when I'm fucking you... and I'm getting close to cumming... I want to kiss you hard and say 'I love you' and when we're done know it was just a term used in the heat of the moment - and after don't freak out or be awkward about it - and know I'm definitely not looking for a relationship, but I kind of think it would be nice to say as I haven't said it in a long time." He was open to it. (He also told me a fantasy he had which we tried one time that I'll save for a different post .)
 
Well, we did it - I did it... and afterwards it was totally fine. It was nice to say, and it made me cum my brains out because it made the experience much more intense. We stayed fuck buddies for a while after, with the sex eventually fizzling out - never going back to using that word except for that one time, and I had no real desire to use it again on him after that.
 
If part of the fantasy is saying it - it should be made clear beforehand that using the word is just that - a fantasy. I have yet to have a discussion about this with a client saying this to me, but should it come up (before or after being used), my approach would be that of flattery and empathy. I might choose to play down any discomfort he may have after the fact and follow it with an honest discussion of whether that word is something that we both would feel comfortable being used, the extent of that comfort and drawing clear boundaries.
 
Sometimes we need to feel loved - other times we need to give love. Someone once told me, "sometimes the best gift you can give someone is to accept their gift." Roll with it, but like I said, have an honest discussion about it - try not to dismiss it or make it seem wrong or bad.

I'm emballased to say this series sent me over the moon
 
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This happened to me with an escort who is now long retired. As one of my favorite guys, he came over for our regular overnighter. He was in rare form that night, and mounted me reverse cowboy within minutes of arrival. I had a really good angle on him and we went about 10 minutes when I smelled the incident.
 
I finished him off but it did throw me bc...well...it is sh!t after all, but also bc he had always been immaculate. Much like Anton, I did the inside-out condom knot and disposed of the evidence. I also gently recommended he freshen up. That went all sorts of wrong.
 
He was mortified! He wanted to leave and not to charge. He was so upset. I kissed him and told him I could not wait to be inside of him again that night and to forget about it. He looked looked puzzled and then, this 23 yo, said one of the saddest things I've ever heard: "I'm supposed to be the professional here; this should not happen, I should go" I thought to myself "is this what a 6'2 220 pound Nordic god supposed to be wondering at such tender age? Is he really expecting such perfection?" Much to my chagrin, he left and I received a letter of apology later that night for his failure to clean himself properly. Things were never the same again. He would always be a little tense as a bottom and not as free. I even regretted having told him to freshen up. Even today I struggle with how to best position a "refreshening" with partners.
 
Sh!t happens and not just physiologically.

This happened to me with an escort who is now long retired. As one of my favorite guys, he came over for our regular overnighter. He was in rare form that night, and mounted me reverse cowboy within minutes of arrival. I had a really good angle on him and we went about 10 minutes when I smelled the incident.
 
I finished him off but it did throw me bc...well...it is sh!t after all, but also bc he had always been immaculate. Much like Anton, I did the inside-out condom knot and disposed of the evidence. I also gently recommended he freshen up. That went all sorts of wrong.
 
He was mortified! He wanted to leave and not to charge. He was so upset. I kissed him and told him I could not wait to be inside of him again that night and to forget about it. He looked looked puzzled and then, this 23 yo, said one of the saddest things I've ever heard: "I'm supposed to be the professional here; this should not happen, I should go" I thought to myself "is this what a 6'2 220 pound Nordic god supposed to be wondering at such tender age? Is he really expecting such perfection?" Much to my chagrin, he left and I received a letter of apology later that night for his failure to clean himself properly. Things were never the same again. He would always be a little tense as a bottom and not as free. I even regretted having told him to freshen up. Even today I struggle with how to best position a "refreshening" with partners.
 
Sh!t happens and not just physiologically.

Love being worked over by an imaginative top while blindfolded! These pics bring back some happy memories.

Dinner's served, GBear...

Dinner's served, GBear...

Thanks True that's is some serious bear snack....

What?!?! says who? I'm not sure I like where this is going

Also on girls!
 
The window she undid, and that in haste.
"Have done," quoth she, "come off, and speed thee fast,
Lest that our neighebours should thee espy."
Then Absolon gan wipe his mouth full dry.
Dark was the night as pitch or as the coal,
And at the window she put out her hole,
And Absolon him fell ne bet ne werse,
But with his mouth he kiss'd her naked erse
Full savourly. When he was ware of this,
Aback he start, and thought it was amiss;
For well he wist a woman hath no beard.
He felt a thing all rough, and long y-hair'd,
And saide; "Fy, alas! what have I do?"
"Te he!" quoth she, and clapt the window to;
And Absolon went forth at sorry pace.
"A beard, a beard," said Hendy Nicholas;
"By God's corpus, this game went fair and well."
This silly Absolon heard every deal,
And on his lip he gan for anger bite;
And to himself he said, "I shall thee quite.
Who rubbeth now, who frotteth now his lips
With dust, with sand, with straw, with cloth, with chips,
 
Chaucer, The Miller's Tale

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How about Mr. Sargent? He is looking gooooooood and his posts here have been a delight to read. Just sayin'
 
http://rentmen.com/MaxSargent

Maybe we should have a DaddyReviews Eastern European Adventure?
 
A road trip of sorts or a recognizance mission?

If it's a cruise, count me in.
 

Maybe we should have a DaddyReviews Eastern European Adventure?
 
A road trip of sorts or a recognizance mission?

How about Mr. Sargent? He is looking gooooooood and his posts here have been a delight to read. Just sayin'
 
http://rentmen.com/MaxSargent

Another First Dog on the Moon take on something, this time Uber.
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/picture/2015/nov/13/first-dog-on-the-moons-handy-guide-to-the-difference-between-uber-and-taxis

Two things concern me about this thread:
 
1. One of the clients went from 300 to 400 to 500 lbs in a matter of a few posts! Take heed: Reading these posts can lead to weight gain unless you are reading this on a threadmill!
 
2. On a serious note, I agree with CarlRichmond. I do pause and pay careful attention when I read companion's comments about their client experiences. Yes, I learn from those experiences and it helps me be a better client, but I also gain insight about the escort himself. I've learned a lot about a couple of escorts today.

Are you sure you drank enough from it?
 

Is he really that subtle?
 
Omg! This damn fountain keeps on giving!