I don't have any specific desire to be with a straight man just because he's straight, but I also don't care if a provider self identifies as straight. I have hired providers who have identified as straight, bisexual, and gay. What I care about is that I find them attractive, and they agree to what I am looking for when we discuss meeting. I almost always check here (and previously on Daddy's old site) to get reliable information on others' experiences before I contact them. I have had some great experiences with guys who identified as straight, and some not so great ones with guys who identified as gay. I think you just have to do your due diligence and hope for the best. And if they deliver on their promises, tip them well.