I'm 64 and overweight. I hire a couple of times a year, mostly for massage+, but occasionally for something more intimate. My RM profile is filled out with all my specific details, so if a provider looks at my profile after I have looked at theirs, they know exactly what they are getting. I have had a few young, muscular, very handsome providers reach out to me after I view their profile, which have led to some great, passionate encounters. I also look for provider profiles that indicate they are into "Daddy", and when I contact them I describe myself on first contact. Hang in there. Not every provider will be into every client, but there are some great ones out there who will be just right for you.