CADreamer

Joe - if you’re ever in Vegas, Jay does a great job.
https://rentmasseur.com/JayMassageSpa

https://www.google.com/search?q=beetle+bailey+zero&sa=X&tbm=isch&imgil=ue304ckrNFOxdM%3A%3BXMZDhxk8co118M%3Bhttp%253A%252F%252Fwww.cartoonistgroup.com%252Fsubject%252FThe-Leg-Comics-and-Cartoons-by-Beetle%25252BBailey.php&source=iu&pf=m&fir=ue304ckrNFOxdM%3A%2CXMZDhxk8co118M%2C_&usg=__dE1KwfOrrzPvarvB04Nif0KKBCI=&biw=1284&bih=703&ved=0ahUKEwjf7ISV7K_UAhUN22MKHU8OCy8QyjcIPA&ei=LBk6Wd-mJo22jwPPnKz4Ag#imgrc=ue304ckrNFOxdM:
 
A bit of levity?

CADreamer - I usually do the same. I offer a full description as well as a recent pic. It makes things easier for the escort as well. Afterall, they are human too.

I feel the need to point out this is one area where white privilege doesn't really exist. Perhaps it is less common, but I have been rejected by guys I was interested in many times because they were "only into asian guys", or "only into latin guys", etc. I think there are lots of guys of all races who have their preferences, and most all of us have experienced this sort of rejection at one time or another.
As for hiring, I am older and a bit overweight. When I contact a provider, I give them all of my vital statistics to let them decide if they are willing to take me as a client and avoid all of their questions later.

I feel the need to point out this is one area where white privilege doesn't really exist. Perhaps it is less common, but I have been rejected by guys I was interested in many times because they were "only into asian guys", or "only into latin guys", etc. I think there are lots of guys of all races who have their preferences, and most all of us have experienced this sort of rejection at one time or another.
As for hiring, I am older and a bit overweight. When I contact a provider, I give them all of my vital statistics to let them decide if they are willing to take me as a client and avoid all of their questions later.

WTF.... I had 58 reviews now I am down to 8... All of my text is gone. This is BS.. at least announce the changes.

Agree with you two. If we are paying, they should not care. Some other poster here says he sends a pic of $100 bill and says “this is the picture you’re looking for” or similar.

Wow, this thread has been busy. I've spent the last hour getting caught up on it.
 
First and foremost, thank you MrMiniver for starting this thread. I had never heard of this site and after reading the the earlier posts I decided to sign up for it in December and try it out.
 
I have been very honest with everyone I have chatted with on the site, making it very clear that I have no intention of paying anyone an allowance just to go out with me. If that's what they're looking for, I have nothing but best wishes in their finding it, but it isn't going to be from me. On the other hand, I'm happy to pay for everything on our dates, which could end up being a cruise or even a trip overseas (I love to travel), but I'm not supporting them, unless our dates lead to a LTR.
 
I very quickly found someone who seemed interesting and we chatted for about three weeks before we finally met (I told him I couldn't meet until after the New year because of the holidays and family visiting from overseas). It's been two months now and the only thing that would make me happier would be if we could see more of each other. We are both busy and he lives near downtown LA and I live in what's called the South Bay (it took me two hours to get to his house on Valentine's Day). He's young, tall, handsome, and just as nice as can be. And he's never asked me for a dime. He struggles a bit, and I have offered to help a bit, but he's never made that a condition of our relationship.
 
I've waded through many guys on the site as the rest of you have, but, in L.A. at least, there are some out there looking for the same thing I am. Even if the current relationship ends, I count the site a success.

Wow, this thread has been busy. I've spent the last hour getting caught up on it.
 
First and foremost, thank you MrMiniver for starting this thread. I had never heard of this site and after reading the the earlier posts I decided to sign up for it in December and try it out.
 
I have been very honest with everyone I have chatted with on the site, making it very clear that I have no intention of paying anyone an allowance just to go out with me. If that's what they're looking for, I have nothing but best wishes in their finding it, but it isn't going to be from me. On the other hand, I'm happy to pay for everything on our dates, which could end up being a cruise or even a trip overseas (I love to travel), but I'm not supporting them, unless our dates lead to a LTR.
 
I very quickly found someone who seemed interesting and we chatted for about three weeks before we finally met (I told him I couldn't meet until after the New year because of the holidays and family visiting from overseas). It's been two months now and the only thing that would make me happier would be if we could see more of each other. We are both busy and he lives near downtown LA and I live in what's called the South Bay (it took me two hours to get to his house on Valentine's Day). He's young, tall, handsome, and just as nice as can be. And he's never asked me for a dime. He struggles a bit, and I have offered to help a bit, but he's never made that a condition of our relationship.
 
I've waded through many guys on the site as the rest of you have, but, in L.A. at least, there are some out there looking for the same thing I am. Even if the current relationship ends, I count the site a success.

You guys DO realize that masseurfinder and massagem4m has put so many rules and regulations and censorship on the massage ads since the rentboy sting that most of the guys have trouble actually advertising what they do, right? I understand what your frustrations are, but you should blame the websites and the government for forcing this o the massage community, not the guys who are trying to figure it out with all of these stupid regulations. Even our customer reviews are up for serious censorship. I tried to post my review of Mateo on masseur finder and they yanked it and sent it back to me as unacceptable because I used the words "difficult time" (to describe my current tough situation). i couldn't figure out what the hell the problem was and then they told me that the phrase "ult time" was flagged as "inappropriate". I was like, WHAT?!? I was using the word "difficult". But apparently "ult time" flagged in the system as meaning "ultimate" and that could potentially be code for a masseur offering services that would be consider the "ultimate time". That's how bizarre and ridiculous this all is now.
 
Anyway, I asked a friend today who also advertises and he explained that masseurfinder used to have 3 sections that were something like therapeutic, sensual and erotic. Then I guess they yanked the erotic and changed the sensual category to something else. now they have "heal" and "relax". He said Heal is code for strictly therapeutic and Relax is code for sensual. So I think you guys got it backwards. A shirtless picture is more appropriate in the relax category than in the heal section. It makes sense if you think about it. Heal is a word that more describes what therapeutic work does and relax much more describes what a sensual appointment gives you.
 
For what it's worth, my friend also told me that if I thought I had aggravation with trying to post a fair review of a massage therapist, that it's nothing compared to the hoops they gotta jump through with the wording of their ads. apparently it's even worse with massagem4m. he said they will cancel and block a masseur's ad who has accepted any reviews that have inappropriate content. he said they have to police their own reviews under the fear of cancellation if any words get through that the massagem4m lawyers have an issue with. He said words like "sensual" or "affectionate" in a review can get the masseur's ad cancelled if they don't block the review from being published. Which explains why so many of our reviews are not showing up. nice world we live in now, huh? And nobody's gonna fight it in the government because nobody wants to admit they use these kinds of services. The puritans win once again!

Wow, this thread has been busy. I've spent the last hour getting caught up on it.
 
First and foremost, thank you MrMiniver for starting this thread. I had never heard of this site and after reading the the earlier posts I decided to sign up for it in December and try it out.
 
I have been very honest with everyone I have chatted with on the site, making it very clear that I have no intention of paying anyone an allowance just to go out with me. If that's what they're looking for, I have nothing but best wishes in their finding it, but it isn't going to be from me. On the other hand, I'm happy to pay for everything on our dates, which could end up being a cruise or even a trip overseas (I love to travel), but I'm not supporting them, unless our dates lead to a LTR.
 
I very quickly found someone who seemed interesting and we chatted for about three weeks before we finally met (I told him I couldn't meet until after the New year because of the holidays and family visiting from overseas). It's been two months now and the only thing that would make me happier would be if we could see more of each other. We are both busy and he lives near downtown LA and I live in what's called the South Bay (it took me two hours to get to his house on Valentine's Day). He's young, tall, handsome, and just as nice as can be. And he's never asked me for a dime. He struggles a bit, and I have offered to help a bit, but he's never made that a condition of our relationship.
 
I've waded through many guys on the site as the rest of you have, but, in L.A. at least, there are some out there looking for the same thing I am. Even if the current relationship ends, I count the site a success.

Some of the younger men use the site to connect with older gentleman, gratis. Like silverdaddies.com does.
 
Has happened to me 2-3 times since I joined...no allowance or support requested or offered.

Wow, this thread has been busy. I've spent the last hour getting caught up on it.
 
First and foremost, thank you MrMiniver for starting this thread. I had never heard of this site and after reading the the earlier posts I decided to sign up for it in December and try it out.
 
I have been very honest with everyone I have chatted with on the site, making it very clear that I have no intention of paying anyone an allowance just to go out with me. If that's what they're looking for, I have nothing but best wishes in their finding it, but it isn't going to be from me. On the other hand, I'm happy to pay for everything on our dates, which could end up being a cruise or even a trip overseas (I love to travel), but I'm not supporting them, unless our dates lead to a LTR.
 
I very quickly found someone who seemed interesting and we chatted for about three weeks before we finally met (I told him I couldn't meet until after the New year because of the holidays and family visiting from overseas). It's been two months now and the only thing that would make me happier would be if we could see more of each other. We are both busy and he lives near downtown LA and I live in what's called the South Bay (it took me two hours to get to his house on Valentine's Day). He's young, tall, handsome, and just as nice as can be. And he's never asked me for a dime. He struggles a bit, and I have offered to help a bit, but he's never made that a condition of our relationship.
 
I've waded through many guys on the site as the rest of you have, but, in L.A. at least, there are some out there looking for the same thing I am. Even if the current relationship ends, I count the site a success.

Wow, this thread has been busy. I've spent the last hour getting caught up on it.
 
First and foremost, thank you MrMiniver for starting this thread. I had never heard of this site and after reading the the earlier posts I decided to sign up for it in December and try it out.
 
I have been very honest with everyone I have chatted with on the site, making it very clear that I have no intention of paying anyone an allowance just to go out with me. If that's what they're looking for, I have nothing but best wishes in their finding it, but it isn't going to be from me. On the other hand, I'm happy to pay for everything on our dates, which could end up being a cruise or even a trip overseas (I love to travel), but I'm not supporting them, unless our dates lead to a LTR.
 
I very quickly found someone who seemed interesting and we chatted for about three weeks before we finally met (I told him I couldn't meet until after the New year because of the holidays and family visiting from overseas). It's been two months now and the only thing that would make me happier would be if we could see more of each other. We are both busy and he lives near downtown LA and I live in what's called the South Bay (it took me two hours to get to his house on Valentine's Day). He's young, tall, handsome, and just as nice as can be. And he's never asked me for a dime. He struggles a bit, and I have offered to help a bit, but he's never made that a condition of our relationship.
 
I've waded through many guys on the site as the rest of you have, but, in L.A. at least, there are some out there looking for the same thing I am. Even if the current relationship ends, I count the site a success.

Wow, this thread has been busy. I've spent the last hour getting caught up on it.
 
First and foremost, thank you MrMiniver for starting this thread. I had never heard of this site and after reading the the earlier posts I decided to sign up for it in December and try it out.
 
I have been very honest with everyone I have chatted with on the site, making it very clear that I have no intention of paying anyone an allowance just to go out with me. If that's what they're looking for, I have nothing but best wishes in their finding it, but it isn't going to be from me. On the other hand, I'm happy to pay for everything on our dates, which could end up being a cruise or even a trip overseas (I love to travel), but I'm not supporting them, unless our dates lead to a LTR.
 
I very quickly found someone who seemed interesting and we chatted for about three weeks before we finally met (I told him I couldn't meet until after the New year because of the holidays and family visiting from overseas). It's been two months now and the only thing that would make me happier would be if we could see more of each other. We are both busy and he lives near downtown LA and I live in what's called the South Bay (it took me two hours to get to his house on Valentine's Day). He's young, tall, handsome, and just as nice as can be. And he's never asked me for a dime. He struggles a bit, and I have offered to help a bit, but he's never made that a condition of our relationship.
 
I've waded through many guys on the site as the rest of you have, but, in L.A. at least, there are some out there looking for the same thing I am. Even if the current relationship ends, I count the site a success.

Wow, this thread has been busy. I've spent the last hour getting caught up on it.
 
First and foremost, thank you MrMiniver for starting this thread. I had never heard of this site and after reading the the earlier posts I decided to sign up for it in December and try it out.
 
I have been very honest with everyone I have chatted with on the site, making it very clear that I have no intention of paying anyone an allowance just to go out with me. If that's what they're looking for, I have nothing but best wishes in their finding it, but it isn't going to be from me. On the other hand, I'm happy to pay for everything on our dates, which could end up being a cruise or even a trip overseas (I love to travel), but I'm not supporting them, unless our dates lead to a LTR.
 
I very quickly found someone who seemed interesting and we chatted for about three weeks before we finally met (I told him I couldn't meet until after the New year because of the holidays and family visiting from overseas). It's been two months now and the only thing that would make me happier would be if we could see more of each other. We are both busy and he lives near downtown LA and I live in what's called the South Bay (it took me two hours to get to his house on Valentine's Day). He's young, tall, handsome, and just as nice as can be. And he's never asked me for a dime. He struggles a bit, and I have offered to help a bit, but he's never made that a condition of our relationship.
 
I've waded through many guys on the site as the rest of you have, but, in L.A. at least, there are some out there looking for the same thing I am. Even if the current relationship ends, I count the site a success.

Wow, this thread has been busy. I've spent the last hour getting caught up on it.
 
First and foremost, thank you MrMiniver for starting this thread. I had never heard of this site and after reading the the earlier posts I decided to sign up for it in December and try it out.
 
I have been very honest with everyone I have chatted with on the site, making it very clear that I have no intention of paying anyone an allowance just to go out with me. If that's what they're looking for, I have nothing but best wishes in their finding it, but it isn't going to be from me. On the other hand, I'm happy to pay for everything on our dates, which could end up being a cruise or even a trip overseas (I love to travel), but I'm not supporting them, unless our dates lead to a LTR.
 
I very quickly found someone who seemed interesting and we chatted for about three weeks before we finally met (I told him I couldn't meet until after the New year because of the holidays and family visiting from overseas). It's been two months now and the only thing that would make me happier would be if we could see more of each other. We are both busy and he lives near downtown LA and I live in what's called the South Bay (it took me two hours to get to his house on Valentine's Day). He's young, tall, handsome, and just as nice as can be. And he's never asked me for a dime. He struggles a bit, and I have offered to help a bit, but he's never made that a condition of our relationship.
 
I've waded through many guys on the site as the rest of you have, but, in L.A. at least, there are some out there looking for the same thing I am. Even if the current relationship ends, I count the site a success.

I was answering Zman's question. Yes, I think he is open to more, but I don't know how much more.

It has been a while, but I've had several massages with him in the past. He's a really nice guy (we had dinner together after one of my appointments). The massage was very good. We didn't get into anything else, by my choice. I would definitely recommend him.

It has been a while, but I've had several massages with him in the past. He's a really nice guy (we had dinner together after one of my appointments). The massage was very good. We didn't get into anything else, by my choice. I would definitely recommend him.