CADreamer

Gentlemen,
This is Gabriel. I’d like to address the comments about changes to my profile names, explain my perspective, and make myself available to answer questions directly.
I run my own business and take pride in how I present it. Like many independent business owners, I occasionally refresh my branding as my ideas and goals evolve. Sometimes a different name feels like a better fit. On another occasion, I changed my profile name after experiencing personal attacks on this platform.
My work, professionalism, and the quality of my sessions remain consistent. Clients who have met me know what to expect, and I stand behind my work under every profile name I have used.
I understand that consistency helps build trust and that changing profile names can raise questions. I’m happy to clarify which previous profiles belonged to me and discuss those changes openly. I have nothing to hide and welcome respectful questions.
For anyone interested in learning more about my work, my RentMen and RentMasseur profiles currently have a combined total of 215 five-star reviews. You are welcome to read those firsthand accounts and form your own opinion. I’m proud of that feedback, while also recognizing that every person’s experience is individual.
I welcome honest accounts of both positive and disappointing experiences. If something fell short of your expectations, I’m willing to listen, respond respectfully, and learn where I can improve. I understand that trust is earned through the way I treat people and respond to their concerns.
There is also a person behind the profile, with feelings, responsibilities, and a life beyond this work. I previously worked as a lawyer in Europe, and I continue to work for a law firm from home alongside running my own business. I work hard and take my professional and personal responsibilities seriously.
A few years ago, I lost my sister, my only sibling, to domestic violence. I am now raising her two young daughters, and I am financially responsible for their care and well-being. Providing them with security and a good future is one of the most important responsibilities in my life.
For anyone considering meeting me, I offer a private, discreet, and unhurried experience built around comfort, chemistry, and personal attention. I especially enjoy longer sessions because they allow us to relax, connect naturally, and create an experience that feels personal rather than rushed.
My many returning clients and 215 five-star reviews reflect the consistency and care I bring to every meeting. If you are curious but have questions or concerns, please feel free to contact me directly. I am approachable, open to respectful conversation, and happy to help you decide whether we are a good match.
My request is that firsthand experiences, personal opinions, and speculation be clearly distinguished. If you have met me, you are welcome to share your experience honestly. If you have not, please be thoughtful about drawing conclusions about my character, intentions, or work. Unsupported claims and personal attacks can have real consequences for someone’s reputation and livelihood.
If you have questions about my profile names, my work, or something you have read about me, you are welcome to ask me directly here. If you prefer a private conversation, you may message me personally. I’m happy to answer questions, clarify misunderstandings, and discuss concerns respectfully.
My hope is that this conversation can be a place for firsthand experiences, respectful questions, and direct answers. I am here to participate openly and speak for myself.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and for approaching the conversation with fairness and respect.
Gabriel
https://rent.men/VIPGENTLEMAN

I love a reformed criminal as much as the next guy, but I do think there’s a big difference between a guy who’s caught “justified” GBI, petty theft or drug related charges vs pedophilia… one’s a sexy rough criminal or addict and the other a creepy predator. Sex crimes, especially involving kids, aren’t hot – quite the opposite, turns a hot guy into a creep.
He’s very hot, so I can suspend the truth for the fantasy and meeting but I’m under no illusion that the guy isn’t in fact a creep in reality. 

I don’t understand why this would be your answer.  
Did you meet him?  Or is this just an opportunity to insult a body type that isn’t your preference?

The photo is of a fitness instructor based in Wales

The photo is of a fitness instructor based in Wales

The photo is of a fitness instructor based in Wales

Yes.  He was SouthernStudTop and then RhettHayes on Rent Men, and  MJack on Rent Masseur.

Probably this guy  Williamwest - RentMasseur

I thought that a big part of the reason that we're here is to protect each other from being scammed.  I don't like it getting to be a witch hunt, but I also don't understand protecting bad or suspicious ads and masseurs. 
Could not agree more! Thank you.

As Liam, he also can't seem to agree where he's based.
@glutes I'd like to disagree with the other poster and any supporters of the comment, that it's "...not a pretty hobby."  I thought that a big part of the reason that we're here is to protect each other from being scammed.  I don't like it getting to be a witch hunt, but I also don't understand protecting bad or suspicious ads and masseurs.  Personally, I posted about a masseur that I had an issue with.  I was pretty surprised at the way I got attacked over it.  It wasn't just me who'd had a bad experience.  There were a few others that I chat with, that have told me the same privately.
Personally, I'd rather know that I should be cautious, or aware, of certain behaviors, or outright reasons to completely avoid someone.

It has been a recent topic of discussion.  
 

It has been a recent topic of discussion.  
 

It has been a recent topic of discussion.  
 

It has been a recent topic of discussion.  
 

It has been a recent topic of discussion.  
 

Masseurs provide their photos because they are marketing their services and handsome fellas in general get more clients and can charge higher rates. The “equity” of the situation is that the client is PAYING, and generally they are paying multiples of the amount they could hire an unseen random person in a random storefront down the street. It shouldn’t matter what the client looks like. If a client does appear in a Grim Reaper outfit, the masseur can bolt the door! 
I think I have been asked once out of hundreds of appointments over the years for a photo. I simply ignored the request and the appointment proceeded just fine without another mention. In NYC it doesn’t seem to be a thing because there are plenty of options and most clients would move to next. But, as you say, people can do whatever they wish with photos or tipping or whatever, but a picture request of a client is, as a practical matter, pointless, unless a therapist is screening. Okay then; I’ll send a photo if I get a discount. 😅

Grew up with participation trophies?

One of the photos matches a full faced photo of an advertiser on masseurfinder in Huntington Beach, CA., but the phone numbers don't match.

Yes.  He was SouthernStudTop and then RhettHayes on Rent Men, and  MJack on Rent Masseur.

His Rentmasseur ad is still up.  rentmasseur.com/MJack

His Rentmasseur ad is still up.  rentmasseur.com/MJack

Changed profile name: Southern_Peach

I don't really care about how they tick a box. As long as they are willing do do what I want and act like they're into it, why should I care. I'm sure most gay guys are going through the motions for the $ anyway. It's a show, and if they're good actors, its OK by me.

I think he is beautiful, regardless of his age.  Also, I actually like older guys.  However, I know in the gay world the higher the number the more people feel invisible.  I'm sure it must be even more competitive in the porn and escort world.  However, this guy is just sexy at any age.