Yeahman

his real name is starts with a J like he always makes up these profiles. It's 100% him i am not going to give out his first or last name. But he is someone not to be trusted so i would avoid him at all cause. he is physically attractive but when you meet him it's creep cuz you can feel he is dead inside like he is like a robot. 
i say this all as facts like i knew him and it's just fucking sad.

also, fyi those are not his real pics . he for some reason is scared of people seeing his real face. when to be perfectly honest he has nothing to lose because he really fucked up his life so he needs to lay in that bed he made for himself. the pics are of a russian model called Anatoly Goncharov. i am not sure if this guy is mentally stable so i would say avoid him at all cost and spread the word.

Is the guy you met the same guy in the picture? The guy in the pictures is cute, although I prefer cut over uncut.

https://rent.men/AlexanderMullerr
Met him a few times. Adonis dancer with great abs.  I know he's from Brazil and moved back there and communicated with him during the Pandemic. Did the US open up to Brazilians already?

It's a huge turn off for me too. I have a crush on a hot guy I met before and happened to see a few pix of him wearing dark purple nail polish in his IG. Very disappointed.

It's a huge turn off for me too. I have a crush on a hot guy I met before and happened to see a few pix of him wearing dark purple nail polish in his IG. Very disappointed.

What is this current trend with hot, muscular men wearing nail polish?  Specifically, I am referring to Morgxn Thicke, a Gayforfans performer that has an amazing body.  I would love to watch him or even suck him dry - but the nail polish is such a turn off.  Am I wrong?  Please, help me understand!!

March 10th Update. Daddy/Guy Fawkes tested negative on his 2nd covid test. Other than that everything remains the same. More attempts to wean him off the ventilator have been unsuccessful. He has not regained consciousness since entering the hospital on 2/26.
 
I know we are all hoping for a recovery but, from what I was told, it’s not looking good.

$500 for an hour with a straight ( but flexible ) steel roofer. Worth every penny. I came across his instagram and thought fuck it, nothing ventured nothing gained so I discreetly DM'd him. One of the best experiences I've had.

Did you plan to chat about it over the phone, discuss it perhaps immediately after the happy ending, or or just spring it on him while you are paying?
 

several years ago during a first meet with a popular provider, I asked if he'd been tested lately because he'd done some bareback video work a couple years earlier (and there'd been some chatter around).....despite it being a first meet, he instantly pulled out a recent testing results sheet with his real full name on it and showed it to me......
 
as discussed upthread, a level of trust is established at some point......I much prefer chatty, kick-back, good-buddy meets and, once a provider realizes I'm a nice guy and not an ax-murderer, I presume they're more comfortable with opening up a bit and I'm grateful that we can hang out and chat using real names......

I follow two providers’ IG accounts. They follow me too.

I've scrolled through the “people you may know” suggestions on Facebook and saw the profile of one provider I've hired and two with whom I've texted to ask their availability but didn't meet. If it’s someone you’ve only contacted or met with once or twice, I’d say don't tell them. If it’s a regular and you have a good relationship with him, I may pull out my phone and show him next time we're together just so he knows he's appearing in these friend suggestions. It also shows him you're not actively searching for him but the info was pushed to you by a mutually used social media platform.

Former provider here...i had one client tell me that he had found out my real name by researching. It creeped me out and with a few choice words, I threw him out of the apartment that I had at the time. That was the end of that.
 
If he wanted you to know his real name, he would tell you voluntarily.

I was disposing condoms and wrappers in the escort’s room when I saw his real name in the boarding pass he had thrown in the trash. I feel so guilty knowing his name, I don’t know if I’ll hire him again. I feel like I violated something.

That's interesting. It'll be more interesting if you had hired him before you asked him the survey questions.

Met him only once. My thought too if I fly him to me, he’ll have to tell me his real name which I already know. But I guess I don’t need to tell him I know his real name.

I've actually figured out the real names of three people on hook-up sites, but haven't mentioned it to any of them for exactly that reason.
 
Long ago, there was a porn star who listed his phone # in an ad, and I reverse-directory-ed it and found that he was listed in the phone book with his address. Shortly after that I had some work doing surveys a block away and even though he wasn't actually in the area I was supposed to be covering, I took the opportunity to ring his bell (literally, unfortunately) and ask him the survey questions.

That’s a great point! I will be cautious for the benefit of both parties.

I’ve never asked for their real names but have found out some when they wanted e transfers for travel expenses and in one case a deposit. I have always respected their wishes as to which name to call them when we are together.
 
I only found out one real name of a provider I saw a few times several years ago and that was when someone here posted a site which gives bio info on hundreds of porn actors, some who also escort. I have since tried to reach him on RM but his listing is suspended but I used the name I called him and which is his screen name on Cockyboys.
 
One escort had a RM name Tom but the first time he came to see me at my house, after about half an hour he gave me his real name, since he was talking about his career as a child actor on television. He even showed me a picture of himself when he was 6 and cute as a button. I have used his real name since then.

Two of my regulars have told me their names and in both cases I was flattered that they did so. I wouldn’t tell an escort that I discovered his real name through research. It makes me sound creepy (although I’ve researched before ?). I have asked for one name in situations where an escort has many. I don’t want to be faced with, “Oh God, give it to me Luciano? Arthur? BigdickXXL?” ?

Yes, most young men will tell you their real names after several meetings. They need regulars.

No, probably not and especially not for erotic massage.

First of all how long have you met him and how often do you see him? Are you his regular client?
 
I would assume any guy I hire regularly would tell me his own name but maybe that's just me. In some cases for Venmo/PayPal* payments and specially for trips he must tell you us his real name.
 
*Some guys use an alias without their real name for that but I haven't met anybody yet.

That’s a great point! I will be cautious for the benefit of both parties.