
borgerback
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borgerback reacted to pubic_assistance in And we're back...
😲 OMG. Thank you a million times @RadioRob for all that you do. Your place in heaven is a guaranteed seat.
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borgerback reacted to RadioRob in And we're back...
Greetings folks...
As you might have noticed, this site has been offline since around mid-day Tuesday. Our prior hosting provider decided that they are unable to continue hosting our website and had ended service to us. Unfortunately they did not provide any notification to me about this decision and I was forced to move the site to a new server without any sort of heads up. This includes arranging for the new hosting company, configuring the new server to meet the technical requirements, getting a copy of our current data, restoring that data (over 300GB of files), recovering the database (over 18.5 million records in that database taking up 11GB of space for the DB alone), and reconfiguring the software itself to run in the new environment.
While migrating there was also some technical issues that I ran into that required me to coordinate with Invision's technical support team. So that back and forth added additional time to the mix as well.
And to pile on further… all of this occurred while I'm traveling for my day job. So I've been doing this while in a hotel in between doing my day job on the road.
There are most likely several other things that will need to be fixed still and I'm working through them. For example, email may only be partially working. I still need to setup things like SPF and DKIM for the new server so our emails don't flag as spam. There are other settings that might need to be redone to work in the new server as well that I'm not thinking about yet. (As you might have imagined, I've not had much sleep during this whole process.)
But anyway... you get the idea. No... we're not going anywhere! This was a minor setback but we'll continue to move forward. Thank you all for your understanding and support!
Rob
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borgerback reacted to queensboroboy in Handsome newbie in NYC: SweetnFitNYC
I saw him and Funnicolasny yesterday for a hot threeway! This new guy has a great body and so nice. His ass looked so hot and Nicolas did him so good. I even had a chance to do him also., Looking forward to seeing both again for another hot adventure.
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borgerback reacted to + KensingtonHomo in 2025 Stock market crash affecting escorts and masseurs?
Funny. SweetnFitNYC's profile didn't give me "macho" vibes.
Now, if you wanted someone to come over and put the Wolford's on so you could beg fuck them, I might do it for free. LOL
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borgerback reacted to jeezifonly in Exposing Traditionally Discreet Queer Social Practices
I’m among the minority of guys my (boomer) age who never found overtly cruising public spaces to be a turn-on or productive.
This excludes, of course, Nordstrom South Coast Plaza when Ralph Lauren Polo dress shirts were marked down in 1983.
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borgerback got a reaction from Poppie in Hiring porn stars
And for me, being able to see them on screen and hear them speak is huge; not so much the performance (as the sex is not why I hire); but the way they carry themselves, and the voice, are big indicators for me.
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borgerback reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Best Younger Jock in NYC?
Welcome to Company of Men!
The Search 🔍 feature at the top of the page is a great tool. Searching for "Jock" and "NYC" (must match all words, subject title only) gave this fairly recent discussion. There's a few guys listed here, which I'm sure any of them would be a great first hire:
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borgerback reacted to + nycman in 411 on Jeremiah Cruze in Vegas
Nice guy. Super cute.
Looks like his pics.
A little shy and reserved.
He does indeed like Fem Men (which I am not).
So our chemistry wasn’t great, but he delivered what I asked for.
No complaints.
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borgerback reacted to Gymowner in 411 on Jeremiah Cruze in Vegas
Seen him out and about at bars in Las Vegas. Nice young man. Solid sexy body and yes ginger. I believe he told me he was mexican. He was dating at the time a very fem man... make up etc. Said he liked fem men.
Fast forward a few months and I was at chill bar in palm springs. He was dancing there so I got to see the whole body. Beautiful! I'm an ass man and baby has some flap jack's on him! Never a hire but from his actions towards me I would say go for it. Also read his rentmen ad as to his do's and dont's
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borgerback reacted to + specific25 in Jake Klerin in Walnut Creek
I was lucky enough to have met up with him a couple of times in 2023 when I was in Vegas. He bottomed, but did offered to Top. Exactly as pictured, rather hot and worth the time. He was not always fast with responses as he told me he was enrolled in college. But he did show up on time.
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borgerback reacted to Pygian in Favorite Chicago escort
My two favorites:
Mario_X
A little sad he moved out of the city. Such a sweetheart.
CHI_JOCK
I see he's gotten mixed reception here, but I've enjoyed each of our meetings.
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borgerback reacted to pubic_assistance in CBS will end 'The Late Show' with Stephen Colbert in 2026
I've tried watching Colbert's show several times, under the impression it was a comedy show. Seemed more like a propaganda feed to me. Never understood how it stayed on the air as long as it did.
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borgerback got a reaction from + J. S. in 411 on this gent currently in LA: Haydenhardingx
Very new, so not expecting much, however:
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borgerback got a reaction from JourneysEnd in Tipping Providers
I usually do, with whatever larger bill I have left over from paying them.
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borgerback reacted to pubic_assistance in 411 on RomanHayes in NYC
Absolutely. Not everyone is so easily offended. Obviously you were being humorous when you quoted me. Your ability to stand up for yourself is admirable and very sexy.
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borgerback reacted to pubic_assistance in 411 on RomanHayes in NYC
I think if he's advertising as "straight" then it should be understood by clients as a YMMV experience.
For @romanhayes if you're still following the thread, you might consider removing the "escort" offering from your Rent.Men profile...because there IS an expectation amongst many gay male customers that an "escort" is someone who can stick his dick in any fat pig and still perform.
Asking for photo or video confirmation is a step in the right direction but if you identify as straight, then even the visuals aren't going to make as much of a difference as personality will do. I've been with a lot of straight guys over the years...and most because they liked my personality not just my looks.
Erotic massage is a good way to offer a client the guarantee of an ejaculation without the expectation that you're going to "perform" yourself. I find that spending a bit of time during a massage breaks the ice and allows you time to decide whether you're feeling the moment or not.
Although some will disagree, having a range of pricing, helps a customer understand that if the massage is more than a hand job, it's more a more expensive service, not that you decided you were horny and are doing a freebie.
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borgerback got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Hiring porn stars
And for me, being able to see them on screen and hear them speak is huge; not so much the performance (as the sex is not why I hire); but the way they carry themselves, and the voice, are big indicators for me.
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borgerback reacted to mtaabq in Escorts that cater to older daddy (or grandpa, lol) bears
As a mature bear chub I haven’t experienced any problems hiring; I’ve been lucky in that I have had the pleasure to engage with providers who seem to genuinely enjoy my big belly and fat a**. Either that or they are very good actors. Either way, I’m a satisfied customer. I’ve never been turned down outright but I have been told, “Oh, sorry! I’m fully booked on those days,” or they ghost me. And that’s all right; I don’t take it personally. As for recommendations, GingerViking in SFO is at the top of my list; I met up with him in PV (I was on a cruise) and I’ll bet that MY “shore excursion” was much more fun that some of the others!
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borgerback reacted to pubic_assistance in Provider relationships for the long haul
I dont know about a "forever" friend, but I did see a fellow pretty regularly for about four years who was in nursing school. Now that he's working at a hospital full time, he isn't doing massage/escort anymore...and is in a relationship too. But we keep in touch a few times a year. Very proud of him. Makes me happy to know he's doing well. I like hearing from him and that he keeps in touch. Always sends me a nice message over the holidays
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borgerback reacted to pubic_assistance in Handsome newbie in NYC: SweetnFitNYC
A smart move.
I don't understand these guys who think they can charge full rate for multiple hours. Smarter to offer a discount and get another chunk of change for the evening than have most of your appointments stick to one hour.
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borgerback reacted to TorontoDrew in Escorts that cater to older daddy (or grandpa, lol) bears
I recommend Mike Gaite. He's traveling to the west coast soon.
https://rent.men/MikeGaite
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borgerback got a reaction from Huxley in 411 on VIPTraveler
New. Going to be in LA
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