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I agree that doing detailed due diligence and interviews on RM is probably the best solution. Searching for a secret society of providers that doesn’t want to be found is a fool’s errand. I know some providers that have professional careers in other industries, and only escort part-time for a little extra cash or even amusement. It just takes a lot of searching to find the right one and it’s easier if you’re in a major market.

You’re very lucky to have a partner that enjoys group sex.

Legit art class use models of all different body types. Not just the young and ripped.

This is going to sound very snobbish, but tailored menswear is almost always going a challenge for providers. The jackets and ties in these photos are just awful.

A porn star or someone on Only Fans, etc.

Some of us travel a lot for work and have more money than time. Some of us are a solid B in looks or body want to have fun with and A or A+. Some want a particular act or scenario that it’s easier to find with a provider. Some want to play with a content creator. Some are just bored and want to try something different or a little taboo.

I was on the local high school quiz show that was televised in my hometown. But that was 30 years ago.

I’ve had them a few times while traveling. Nothing great. Would not recommend unless the providers specialize in that service. Even then, I’d it rarely lives up to the expectation in my experience.

I went a couple about eight years ago. I ordered massages and the guys pretended to give a massage for about five minutes before asking about up charges for extras. None of the ones that I found had the slightest intention of providing a full, one-hour massage. I got frustrated and left.

I’m a New Yorker so I always tip 20 to 30 percent. The weird thing is providers in New York are often surprised and appreciative that I tip, whereas providers overseas are often disappointed that I don’t tip more. Anyone else experience that?

The best providers (and porn actors) are gay and more than a little slutty in real life. They found a way to professionalize their lifestyle and get compensated for something they enjoy doing anyway. Truly straight providers are just in it for the money and generally crap in bed. It’s like going to a restaurant with a chef that doesn’t like to cook and is not interested in food. You may it something on your plate, but it’s not going to be as delicious as it would be if the chef actually enjoys what he does.

Has anyone subscribed?

For recreational rather than investment purposes. Do you go there it on weekends or seasonally? Do you use it and enjoy it as much as you thought you would? Or is it a money pit you regret? What issues have you had with maintenance, weather, security, etc. I’ve always fantasized about having a weekend house in the country, but it’s a huge commitment and would love to get other perspectives.

George James offers haircuts. I’ve seen him for facials and waxing, but haven’t had a haircut there. His studio is very private. I’m sure you could be naked if you wanted it be. https://www.georgejamesspa.com

I second George James. Super sweet guy and does a great job.