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I prefer legit massages from attractive (but not drop dead gorgeous) gay men with good technique and training. I usually look for these guys on gay sites. I don’t care about happy endings as can take care of that myself if necessary. However, the best massages feel like an embrace from a friend. It’s useful to have a gay therapist (and to out myself to him) so he can dispense with the draping and not feel he has to avoid passing contact with sensitive areas that might make a straight man uncomfortable. Also, I’ve had some of these experiences turn into mutual and uncompensated hookups, which are far better than anything that could be arranged through an erotic provider.

Andy is amazing and highly recommended. I had a sore back and needed a therapeutic massage. The receptionist showed me to the room so I was already on the table when he entered and he didn’t ask me about my problem areas. Nonetheless he found them all and used very firm pressure. I was grunting and moaning so that much anyone in the next room would have had the wrong idea as to what was going on. It wasn’t relaxing, but I felt 100 times better afterwards.

I assume anyone that posts Ask Me is signaling that he barebacks without turning off clients that want to use condoms.

I got a couple of massages while I was there in the saunas. Generally perfunctory and lame by so-so looking twinks who went more excited to be with me than I was with them. The prices quoted on Rent Men were similar to Europe or the U.S. and I didn’t try them.

Heading to Manila the second week of September for work. Staying in Makati. Would be interested in hiring a hot tour guide to show me the naughtier parts of the city. Love parties, groups, etc. Any tips or suggestions appreciated.

I think it was a Friday. Don’t remember exactly.

Dried shiitakes are much stronger than fresh. I used them more as a flavoring than as an ingredient. I add a few to stocks, soups and stews if I have them around.

I was in Santiago, Chile for work a few years ago. I had just taken a shower and only had a towel wrapped around my waist when a male housekeeper (the only male housekeeper I’ve ever seen in any hotel anywhere) knocked on the door. I let him and noticed he was pretty young and very obviously gay. After I closed the door I let my towel fall around my ankles and started playing with my cock. He looked through the peephole on the door for his coworker in the and locked the door. He then dropped to his knees and started sucking my cock. I pulled down his pants and we started 69ing on the floor. I don’t speak Spanish and he didn’t know any English so I just said Activo/Passivo? Unfortunately he didn’t want to fuck. We kept sucking each other until his coworker knocked on the door. Once she went away he shot in my mouth, zipped up and snuck out with his cart. I got dressed quickly and went down to the lobby so they could clean my room.

I was cruising in the Ramble for the first time a few weeks ago. Typical New York scene: 100 guys walking around in circles looking to get off with someone younger and hotter than they are (myself included). I was there for two hours, but didn’t see a lot of action. Some blowjobs, but I only saw one guy getting fucked. I have to say, some of the guys were incredibly hot with porn star level cocks and they were getting most of the action. Most of the guys were Latino and didn’t speak any English at all. Cruising is alive and well in the Ramble, but it’s more picky than piggy. I left at 10 o’clock. Maybe if I had stayed later it would have gotten wilder.

I was talking to a pup (while he was wearing his mask) about this last night. He said he finds the anonymity very liberating. He has a very high level corporate job in Manhattan and can do things as a pup that he would never feel comfortable doing without the mask.

Any spa in Manhattan worth going to as a spa, e.g., steam rooms, etc. Looking to hang out naked and chill. Massages and extras are nice, but looking for ambiance and relaxation as well.

I recommend Fontainebleau and Chantilly. Both are quick train rides from Paris with great architecture, huge gardens and much smaller crowds.

You can’t get fucked every now and then and expect to take it with ease. You have to train yourself with butt plugs.

I went to him for a facial and a waxing. We got a little carried away at his initiative. He’s a very sweet man. Highly recommended.

I’ve tried both Alex Spot and George James. George James has a nicer facility and is much cuter. Highly recommend.