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Never hire. Met him yesterday for grade b and grade a as stated here. After 5-10 mins of massage and giving me a hand job and when I came, he asked me to leave stating that massage is over because you came and hence relaxed! Also he asked to pay upfront. Hence I was cheated. Very bad experience. Do NOT hire this guy.

Many years ago while on vacation in Fort LiquorDale, I was briskly walking south on Seabreeze Avenue towards Las Olas Blvd. on my way to the Liquor Store near the corner Las Olas & AIA (it's still there). I was distracted by a commotion in the little park on the corner and wasn't watching where I was going. As a result, I almost ran into a couple of teenage boys, one of whom jokingly yelled at me "Slow down, POPS." That was the first time I realized that I was no longer young, at least not to teens. Funny how such minor incidents linger in the mind as milestones in one's life.

I’ve spent a lot of time in Florida over the past two months. They’re basically pretending covid doesn’t exist. Bars are packed. Johnson’s was packed. People are living life in that state. I wore my mask the whole time but felt immense peer pressure to take it off. I didn’t. I’m all done traveling now though and waiting at home in quarantine until I can test negative again in 2 more days and be free.

Absolutely not. I have accross many clients who are absolutely gorgeous and definetely not in need to pay for a service, i dont know their reasons to hire. I am providing a service and refuse to be selective, i do appreciate a hot client but for me all of them pay the same, therefore i provide the same quality of service regardless of their physical appearance.

I find Grindr so annoying. Lots of weirdos sending nudes without you asking and before even starting a conversation. Too sleazy for my taste.
 
Also not many attractive guys... Most of the few ones I remember finding were actually bots, lol.

VERY rarely is there a bear type masseur in my area. He’s visiting Miami any 411 on him?
 
https://rentmasseur.com/MuscBearMassage

1. Shower together before or after.
2. After HE not getting rushed out the door - face/neck massage, wipe down with warm towel etc
 
One or both of those two add ons are a guaranteed tip/repeat/recommend.

Further,
 
The myth of a “client”, being some desperate, “humpback of Norte Dame”, beast, it’s surely fading.
 
I’m sure alot of providers can confirm that a portion of their clients are quite hot in their own ways and they enjoy the time they have with them.
 
I personally believe that the current state of dating/mating, especially with apps, has caused a significant boom in the escorting business, where more guys are ordering these services out of convenience, and not out of desperation.
 
Hence, more hot guys will be hiring, and no discounts will be given.

There are those that put right in their ad that a discount is given to bodybuilders and / or attractive physiques. My personal favorite I saw was for active duty military to receive a follow-up massage at no charge to thank them for their service.

Absolutely. I love connecting with all different types of people. The sex is outstanding, the friendships are wonderful, and there’s an emotional fulfillment I have not found in other occupations. I’m doing much more these days with only fans than I am with escorting, but porn is acting. Escorting feels more authentic to me and more enjoyable.

Hi I was recommended this site called www.dayuse.com by some guys here. You can rent “decent” hotels for a few hours. I used it and so far so good.

Years ago, when most escorts advertised in print media with no photos, I responded to a new ad in a local paper and went to the escort's apartment. As soon as I arrived, I realized that there was a problem: he had described himself as handsome and well built, and he was obviously neither. However, I also quickly realized that he was mentally handicapped, and he undoubtedly believed his self-description, although I'm sure that the only person who ever told him he was good-looking was his mother. He was friendly and enthusiastic, and definitely new at escorting, and so pathetic that I felt sorry for him. I was sure that most people who responded to his ad were likely to tell him he was unattractive and even berate him as a liar, and turn around and leave. To do the same felt to me like kicking a well-meaning puppy. So, although my libido had quickly declined to near zero, I went through with the appointment, which he seemed to enjoy immensely. His ad didn't appear for very long, so I may have been the only client with whom he had a successful experience.
 
At the other end of the scale many years later was an experienced escort with good reviews, who was just visiting town. I made an appointment to meet him at his hotel room, and the meeting started out professional and hot. After about 20 minutes, he suddenly stopped and said, "I can't do this," and started crying. He confessed that he had come to town for his mother's funeral, and thought he could be distracted from his grief for a little while by doing something professional, but he said it wasn't working. Instead, for the next hour he sobbed uncontrollably in my arms while telling me all about his mother's life. I finally put him to bed and left him. The next morning he phoned me to apologize and to offer another meeting off the clock, but I told him not to worry about it; I didn't say it would be too hard for me to erase the image of the sexy jock weeping like a little child who had lost his mommy.
 
I always hired escorts strictly for emotionally uninvolved sex with someone who revved my engine, but sometimes I had to turn that off and remember that escorts need kindness, too.

Unfortunately apps enable folks to misbehave and they're more likely to do it.
 
Agreed, "res non verba" (deeds not words) the world is what we make of it with our own behavior. Unfortunately in the gay community we have lots of 50 y/o teenagers.

Rather than try and disguise myself from escorts...the BurnerApp is helpful with non-standard meets like Seeking Arrangements. When things get “Serious” with these guys I like to move off the seeking app, but not divulge my full info yet. BurnerApp provides an airgap and if things go wrong no harm, no foul. A trusted handful have been moved to my real phone#.
 
Also...I use BurnerApp to keep myself from receiving unsolicited pictures on my “real” phone. I use the iphone for business, pass it around family members on occasion, and it surprises me how many times someone from rentmen or seeking or grindr will send me an unsolicited provocative pic that I never asked for!
 
Also...to my knowledge I’ve never received a negative comment or been “red flagged” by a professional companion for using the BurnerApp. They seem to be fine with it, texts first, then voice call to confirm conversations, then let’s go! ?

35 years ago I first heard the song Forever Young sung by a group called Alphaville. My favourite version was later released by Laura Branigan. It had a rather dystopian vision of the world, referring to nuclear annihilation. I was 38 at the time, an age when I thought that might be an attractive notion (living forever, not the nuclear option),
 
Today I think otherwise and as I see the road ahead is shorter than the one behind me, I don’t feel any remorse or regrets. Sometimes I think with hindsight I might have done some things better, but then I reason that had I made those choices, I wouldn’t have experienced the things that I did. You can’t have everything or do everything but if you can look back and say it was pretty amazing, as I can, then you can face whatever is coming next with serenity.
 
Here in Canada we have the right to assisted death. I have seen friends choose this in the last two or three years since it was legalized. It’s comforting to know that is out there if things become intolerable.

Source?
 
Huge exaggeration! All my gay friends are out; none are "on drugs "

These guys really took good care of me. I was in a sandwich, spit-roasted, and DPed. The last one failed, but it wasn’t their fault ?

Hi I was recommended this site called www.dayuse.com by some guys here. You can rent “decent” hotels for a few hours. I used it and so far so good.

Hi I was recommended this site called www.dayuse.com by some guys here. You can rent “decent” hotels for a few hours. I used it and so far so good.

Since when is being discreet a bad thing? BrandonJ has a professional career he protects by being discreet. I respect him for that and it hasn’t had any impact on the massages and fun I’ve had with him other than assure me he’ll be discreet on my behalf too. Over the years I’ve hired many masseurs and escorts that were discreet and didn’t show their faces and they’ve been some of my best hires. My advice is to get over it and go for it with such - but maybe don’t be the first one to hire - I usually only hire after a few good reviews by others.

Not in a first encounter. I might ask an escort I have more of an ongoing relationship with.
 
Frankly if it’s a stranger I probably have no interest in knowing anyway. I would never ask a doctor, lawyer, dentist or plumber either

It’s none of your business.
 
Would you want him to ask you why you’re paying for sex?

Share a time you did something super nice for a human or animal. No humility in this thread. Boast about how kind you were or are as inspiration for us all to be a little nicer.
 
I’ll start us off. My grandmother is 91, struggling with some early dementia. She had to give up her drivers license and is bummed about being stuck in her house all the time.I sent her some flowers over the summer to brighten her day which made her very happy, but upset her that I spent money on her.
 
A month later, I told her I had won a years supply of weekly floral arrangements for free. I asked her if she would be willing to take the prize because I’m hardly ever home and don’t appreciate flowers. She reluctantly accepted, after trying to convince me every which way to keep it for myself.
 
I also have the florist put my phone number in the card with a reminder to call me when they get delivered. Every Monday for the past 4 months, without fail, she’s called me to say thank you for giving her this prize, how it brightens up her kitchen and she loves how they make the house smell. We also get to catch up, which is essentially the same call over and over week after week, but it feels fresh to her. It’s the best $100 a week I spend.

This is why I check for reviews on rentmasseur if possible. Have had this happen and I prefer to have the full time that’s promised, however it gets divided up.

I think that is a common experience with erotic massage, but not always. Some guys end the job when you come.