HotWhiteThirties

As a follow up, my planned meeting with Ryan was a total success and one that I hope to repeat again at some point. Total professional and kind. Right on time and exactly as he presents himself on RM. You may private message me for more specifics, however, be advised that I don't do real-time, play-by-plays of my experiences. (I know it's nice to read "hot" stories, but I don't normally write those sort of details out for a variety of reasons.) 

Anyhow, I really enjoyed my meeting with Ryan. 

I am planning to. So far communication has been clear and consistent, but nothing to report yet. I am hopeful for a positive meeting, and based on how things have gone so far, things seem promising. It would be nice to hear feedback from a forum member, however. 

18 hours ago, RJD said:

Earlier this year, someone reported Mateo Blanco won't even communicate with anyone contacting him through RM until you subscribe to his OF page and even then, he was asking for $2,500/hr.  I don't doubt it since his ad has been active over a year and he doesn't have one review. 

 

 https://rent.men/MateoBlanco

17 hours ago, Lazarus said:

He’d have to pay me $2500.00 to even communicate with him. 

I'm almost certain, given a choice between this "Queen" and a blender, I'd rather put my dick in a blender!!! And I sure as hell don't plan on doin' either, so that should get the point across as to my personal regard for what "she's" reportedly offering. With that said...he may be living his best life, and has every right to! 
 

I rarely, comment on something like this in such a way, but this is ridiculous, and obviously this "provider," doesn't genuinely intend to meet a soul from the client realm. Seems the consensus here is he doesn't hafta worry about that! 
 

On topic, it's just the blurring of lines between promotion and the actual work. @jeezifonlysummed it up perfectly: Kardashian. And, yes, I have had a few of the Kardashians of RM send me messages. I ignore, and see it as a gift. I know they have no intentions of actually engaging, and it allows me to rule them out more quickly. Same when I see that OF/JFF is the lead on their ads. Good for them and best wishes, but I am moving on. 

38 minutes ago, Danny-Darko said:

Lord, have mercy! What a balanced meal....an entire day's worth of eating too! Breakfast, lunch, and dinner!!! 👏🏻 

On 10/27/2021 at 6:43 AM, bigjoey said:

A fly on the wall OR better yet an invitee to be an observer😀

Being an observer would definitely be quite nice...being a participant, however, would be much better! 😜😈🤣🤣

20 minutes ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

Yikes.  

In having been in your exact shoes for London's NYE, as well as Times Square, I no longer agree to do those kinds of events with clients.

It's uncomfortable and a basic shitshow.  I'm not prone to anxiety, but those situations come close.

Right! It's a horrible feeling. I will never forget it. Don't plan to ever put myself in a similar circumstance again! 

And yeah. Shit show. Watch it on TV instead! There are WAY better ways to celebrate the changing of years.

I like my Dyson. It works on a variety of surfaces, and isn't overly cumbersome. 

Some years ago I found myself on the bank of the Thames River gazing over at the London Eye for their annual New Year's Eve countdown. Never again! Once was enough. Literally a million people so tightly packed. I was with a group of about 8 people. Once the new year had been rung in, the crowd began to empty out toward Charing Cross and Trafalgar's Square. We were absolutely helpless to determine our direction - like @Benjamin_Nicholas described as water being poured out. Our group clasped hands tightly to try to prevent being swept away and lost. People were pressing and pushing. Panicking. Had we tripped, we would have been trampled. I have never forgotten that feeling and how we had no choice but to flow with the crowd wherever it took us until eventually the "current" of humanity quit flowing as densely. 
 

So, as a result, I have no interest in such events where hundreds of thousands/millions convene. I will watch any future year be rung in from my living room, or a far less populated venue with plenty of space!!!

Devastating, horrific event at the Astrodome. Heartbreaking for those lost...ages 14 to 27, from what I read in one news article. Tragic, indeed. 

Has been messaging me this morning also asking to meet up. I don't recall ever looking at his profile, so not sure how he's going about deciding who to contact.  So, he's quite forward and I'm not sure we are a match - at least for what he is proposing. Call me weird, but it's hard for me mentally to be submissive to someone of significantly smaller stature - which is what he is trying to offer. FWIW, I'm not naturally a submissive person to just anyone, especially with the size difference at least based on  his profile description. Summary: I'm picking up on red flags! 
 

Now if he wants to be submissive for free and make it convenient for me, we might talk. Don't think that's what he has in mind, though. Not interested in paying for this gentleman's time. 😜

1 hour ago, Danny-Darko said:

Why don't I ever get a seatmate like this??! 

No doubt a distraction for everyone on this flight who walked by! Show stopping! Bet those flight attendants had quite the discussion going....

1 hour ago, KeepItReal said:

It is really physical! If you get a chance to watch a game in person - definitely do it. It brings the game to life and you understand how fit those players have to be to keep up with the pace of the game.  It took a while for me to grasp the rules as well - biggest thing is that in Rugby you kick the ball forward and can only pass it backwards when you have it in hand.  Unlike football you cannot toss the ball forward.  🙂

Definitely would welcome watching it in person. The fitness required to play it is very obvious even from watching on TV, I can't imagine in person. My brother ans I are very familiar with American football, and did quickly pick up on the differences in passing when compared. Also, the opportunity for injury seems greater with less protective gear being worn! 😳😳😳 (Not a complaint from this particular spectator...since it's a bit more "revealing!" 😜)

I need to spend some time and understand rugby. My brother and I tried watching a game recently and were a bit lost, but started to pick up on some of it. Such a physical game! 

What an ordeal to endure! It's good to know you're doing better, @BasketBaller. Certainly understandable to withdraw from things. You have my prayers and well wishes. 

1 hour ago, jtwalker said:

He got a bad review where he was accused of theft on daddy's.  He over-reacted and threatened daddy with legal action.

Outside of that one bad episode, he had 100+ good reviews on RM and many on Daddys, so it was probably just youthful ignorance in dealing with conflict.

That's right! That's the "drama" I was remembering or associating with him. 

Yes, @BuffaloKyleis correct. Seems like I recall some "drama" surrounding him, but that could be incorrect. 
 

Interesting how long the guy has held his age...22. Sorta like me...😜🤣

On 10/28/2021 at 11:53 PM, RJD said:

A colleague of mine went for her Pfizer booster yesterday at one of the large national pharmacies.  Last night she received an automated call to contact the pharmacy about an urgent issue concerning her booster. 

When she finally reached someone, she was informed the technician didn’t dilute the vaccine so she received 5x the recommended booster dose.  The pharmacy contacted the county health department who referred them to the CDC.  They and her PCP advised her to monitor herself for severe side-effects and get to the ER if she starts experiencing tingling or pinching in her feet and legs, which are two early symptoms of Guillain-Barré Syndrome.  Apparently there’s some evidence linking over doses of the Pfizer COVID vaccine with GBS.  

I’m sure the pharmacy is circling the wagons and preparing for inquiries and potential lawsuits.  The technician was a contractor and not a pharmacy employee, but I doubt that exonerates the pharmacy of any liability.  
 

 

What the actual hell? Hope she is ok! I know mistakes happen, but these are the kind of incidents that we do not need when we have so many resisting getting vaccinated!!!

I'm not aware that I am eligible for a booster yet, but would like one. I have had Pfizer and would like to mix it with a Moderna 3rd booster. Did I read they were saying that was ok to do? It makes sense to me. 

29 minutes ago, Tygerscent said:

This is a really great topic… My point of you and practices have changed over the course of 20 some years. Most of my Clients are straight identifying with families and careers that might be impacted if we were to meet in public and openly acknowledge some relationship together.  Due to my career in the adult industry, my involvement in politics, the public and community for fundraising events etc., it’s easy to find me on the Internet and people do recognize me in random places like cafés, restaurants, airports, theaters etc. This can take place even in different countries.

i’ve been open about who I am to my Family and Friends but, also understand that who I am may also impact their lives on various levels. So, I respond accordingly to what is appropriate for us~ 

 When I see somebody that I know or recognize, I may not be by myself.  I may be with another client that precise time who would not be comfortable with me acknowledging this other Client I’m randomly seeing in public while with him/her. 
 Hire situation’s are not always clear cut or predictable. There have been instances where a couple is married or have been partnered for 20 some odd years. Without disclosing to each other, each has hired me privately on different occasions and perhaps numerous times ongoing. It is absolutely inappropriate for me to “out” them but, that is precisely what can happen if I acknowledge either one of them in public. My public that could be walking around in some city or at a party or a restaurant or a theater… Instead, I will take some personal moment later to send that person a text and say how happy I was to see them but explain that I was maybe with somebody else and unable to chat with them at that time. I think that there are communities where concerns like that may not be a greater concern. Some social circles, couples and cultures are a bit more open about things but, I have to be careful because I’m still obligated to protect the people who don’t have that aspect of being out about everything in their personal life .

 My particular style is to establish what degree of privacy and anonymity any given Client requires~
 There are Clients I have spent holidays with, attended family weddings and reunions with… I’ve gone with them to high school reunions and more… Eating dinner with their families and friends… Picnics and parties and stuff. Sometimes everybody knows who I am and what I’m doing there and other times I am simply a friend, acquaintance, travel companion~ 
Add times I’m with people who are trying to get thru medical school, applying for jobs, waiting for their spouses, (male or female). Those people can be Clients or Service Providers~ 

 It is not my place to decide what degree of anonymity‘s is right for my Clients or other Service Providers. It is my obligation and honor to respect whatever that is.

Exactly. So well said. Thank you, sir. 

48 minutes ago, Tygerscent said:

So… Hemorrhoids and skin tags occur with relative frequency and they’re neither contagious nor infectious for the most part if they are truly hemorrhoids and skin tags. I do feel that Service Providers have both an obligation and opportunities to learn about what is infectious and what is not, what is a sexually transmitted infection and what is not. I understand where a service provider might be off put/confused/concerneded when they come in to a meeting completely unaware and have to make an instant assessment to something that may or may not have an impact on their health or ability to work if they are exposed to something unexpectedly. Having to take off of work for two weeks or more when your only income or necessary income is being a Service Provider a dilemma~ A Client who is married or partnered may have their own concerns~ Compassionate communication is the key~

I have had a number of Clients with these conditions as well as other things like: eczema, psoriasis, arthritis, pigmentation issues, scars from radiation treatments when they had cancer, C-pap machines, you name it… Sometimes they may have had their prostate biopsied or they may be recovering from a stroke, heart attack or any number of things~ 

 While these are things to be aware of, they are not detrimental or necessarily a deal breaker to fun play and really happy session together.

 I realize that this is not a perfect world, (and to its benefit not a perfect world for other reasons), but, it also may be beneficial for people who are playing frequently to go and get tested for STI’s quarterly, (or more depending on their play styles)~ That way… you can communicate with a person that you are going to play with that your STI‘s have come back clean, but, that you have this other thing going on that isn’t infectious or contagious.
 That type of communication may better establish the necessary trust to work through a situation together in a way that enables you to have a wonderful time together~ 

Beautifully, compassionately, and professionally stated. Bravo!

I use both Uber and Lyft depending on convenience. I have some Amex benefits (small) on Uber, so use those first. On my last flight to LA, I used a cab because it was easier and more immediate than waiting on Uber/Lyft. I find this to be the case at airports, etc, where cabs are waiting and ready. I don't price shop as much as make a decision based on convenience because I am, in general, impatient! 🤣 I could spend ages toggling between the apps and cabs trying to price shop and miss a ride if it's an app or cab if they're handy. So, I accept there's a cost. I only use these services when traveling, and rarely in everyday life, which would provide greater motivation for comparison shopping if the latter were the norm instead of the former. 

7 hours ago, jtwalker said:

I think we all have our hangups.  I don't mind feminine guys, but the "gay lisp" that is common with feminine gays is something that is a huge turnoff for some reason.  I don't know why, but I just can't get past it.

Ok. This is going to come across stereotypical, and I am sorry that it does, but - at least for me - I wasn't aware that the two attributes were separable. For me, that's the essence of feminine guys - both their carriage and speech patterns. Not sure I have ever met a guy who I felt was quite feminine, and didn't have a "lispy" speech pattern. Perhaps I have??? If so, it's been so infrequent that I don't have enough examples to think of one without the other. 
 

Personally, I can find myself attracted to both types - masculine and feminine. So take heart, @Merboy!  I would be identified as traditionally "masculine" in carriage, posture, and speaking patterns by most folks.  At least as those attributes are "traditionally" defined, and based on feedback others have given me over the years. I do groom well, though. That's my "red flag!" 😜🤣🤣

21 hours ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

As fun fact, Aquaphor is also good to fuck with.

It keeps a bottom's hole looking years younger too.

The more you know...

2 minutes ago, JoeMendoza said:

wow, just realized if an average person poops a pound a day, that is about 340 tons of poop dumped in the ocean for that one 274-night cruise (hopefully there's a good way to dispose of it). talk about toxic waste!

And what do you think the whales do in the ocean? Hold it? 🤔 talk abput tons of poop! Circle of life man...🤣🤣🤣

On topic...I love a cruise. There are pros and cons. There is efficiency and convenience in it. Not sure I could do it for 9 mos. Most I've ever done was 10 days, and I wasn't tired of it at that point, but I was on a premium line. My guess is 2 or 3 weeks would be my limit. I expect that there is a strong correlation coefficient between the length of cruise and the extensiveness of infirmities and age of the pax.  The 10 day cruise I went on was Hoveround central! Much more significantly so than the shorter cruises I've sailed. Obviously, that's also impacted by the target demo of the line, but the folks with significant  disposable incomes and free time skew older, so that's not a surprise. At a certain point, I think that such an environment would get old after a few weeks and begin to feel like a convalescent center. Although when or if I reach an age of infirmity, given a choice between the two options...maybe being infirm on a cruise ship would be preferable. 🤔

Bump. Anyone with an experience?

8 hours ago, Just966 said:

https://www.xvideos.com/video52486441/hairy_daddy_massages_a_gay_before_barebacking_him_hard

Sorry...slightly off topic. But regarding this video...

Billed as being from "BangMeRaw.com" ....then whips out a rubber in the video. 
 

🤔🤔🤔

(I know it's just one of those catfished porn vids, but I did find it funny. Carryon...this is a great thread.)

18 minutes ago, mattr said:

The best ass on any field anywhere when he played!