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Yes An enlightening article - thank you. I learned a new word: "transphobia".

LOL I met a new guy at Starbucks today for grins. No chemistry but I offered to pay for his Uber and he asked me for $20 more for his time. I declined. This evening another 22-year old SA guy told me he was an escort and requested $500 for an hour of his time "just as long as there's no anal or anything" and asked if that was in my budget. I assured him it was not.

Over the last few weeks I noticed a huge increase in the number of notes from guys located in Columbia. I couldn't quite figure it out - there was never allot of notes from outside the US and most came from the Philippines or Malaysia. I just saw this article and it all makes sense... sad. Venezuela crisis triggers exodus to Colombia

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What he said.

I agree. I've also observed that some of the introductions and responses are strikingly similar.

139 of those guys want to fuck your brains out. One wants to murder you in your sleep and steal your car. Carpe Diem !

Predictable and unambiguous... that's why I prefer engaging escorts rather than masseurs. I know what CAN happen and I depend on talented and creative companions to throw me a curveball every now and then. With the SA guys it's a whole different perspective on meeting someone for the first time. Because most of them are ... inexperienced.... you're not bound by the conventions of the typical escort routine or dating/hookup grind. You never know what you're going to get at first. I've seen one SA guy about 6 times and we've gotten to the point where there is one sexual thing he likes doing. That's fine but if I can't broaden his horizons it's likely to evolve back to a platonic friendship (which is still enjoyable and very pleasant). There's another guy - a 19 year old philosophy major - who is really fun to talk to and I've loved spending platonic time with him. He told me a couple of weeks ago that he is FTM trans (clearly I need to sharpen up my people-skills; I should have figured there was something different when he joked he masturbated 10 times a day). It kicks a little different spin on things and I'm really not sure where it's headed. I suppose the upshot is that sometimes predictable is what I want and sometimes unpredictable is good.

I had weird experience last week with an SA guy. His only pic was of a buff torso with 6-pack. We met at a Starbucks near a mall and chatted for an hour. He clearly wasn't the muscled guy in the pics but was pretty cute. He seemed a little edgy, not making eye contact, but I attributed that to nerves. He said he was a Finance student and it was evident that he was pretty knowledgeable about some arcane topics so I'm certain he is who he said. We wrapped up our coffee chat and I was about to say goodbye and he blurted out "Do you want to get a room?". I was sort of knocked back on my heels but suggested he think about the kind of arrangement he wanted and we touch base in a few days. Then he asked to see my car (we also talked cars a little as he's an aficionado). The alarm bells went off in the back of my mind (wallet snatched...robbed... jacked... ???) but I took him out and let him sit in the passenger seat... he then asked to go for a ride... more alarm bells but I took it around the block (in very slow rush hour traffic). We ended up behind the shopping center and he asked to blow me while he jacked off. I declined, not being interested in a public indecency charge, but he enthusiastically shot a huge load up across his t-shirt. I got back to where I'd met him to let him off... still wary but now about both getting my wallet snatched AND getting arrested. He asked for $200 and I declined but told him we could talk numbers if he wanted to seriously consider an arrangement. I've not heard from him since, nor tried to contact him. My take on it: he obviously needed the money.. he was a finance student...he was horny and maybe turned on by the prospect of getting caught.... he met me on a whim after getting his nerve up and it hasn't returned. The unpredictable nature of these SA encounters can be interesting.

Did you see the fiver I left on the dresser?

He has in the past; I think he'd be receptive to inquiries.

Very cuddleable.

I concur

Do some research in the Forum on Ash... I vaguely recall some discussion of him here. Tim has been discussed (favorably) allot here. His rates are competitive and worth it. Kevin - this seems like a purely therapeutic massage?

That would be creepy! Do I look like some kind of weirdo ! http://www.snopes.com/movies/graphics/banjoboy.gif

I regret that PETA takes restraining orders so seriously.

What these guys said! But, in my opinion, we regret the things we do not do more than those we do (except for that unfortunate misunderstanding at the goat petting zoo.)

I spend a very enjoyable afternoon with Judas and would highly recommend his companionship. He looks exactly like his pics and is very passionate and insightful with a professional, eager-to-please approach. (And I did something for the first time in my life. Not telling.) Review in progress; PM me in the interim.

I get that there's all sorts of micro-beasties roaming around down there but, as with all other intimate practices, everybody has to choose their battles. I think I'm just too hesitant (i.e., shy) to have that conversation before meeting someone. As the bewildered recipient of a latex glove covered massage & HE I've found my boundaries on both ends of the spectrum and know where my happy middle ground is. I'm generally comfortable diving into the deep end after a thorough shower, preferably one in which I've participated. (Bonus question: how many escorts won't kiss after being rimmed.)

... and percentage of escorts who likewise refuse to reciprocate.

From the profile - "I don't do bareback. This pic was made with my boyfriend, him only" A general question about guys who are "condom only" with clients but BB with certain individual(s). Doesn't this beg the question of the habits of those individual(s)? If boyfriend is not monogamous (and there is no way to know this) then is the question of condoms-only somewhat moot?

My people will get with your people

... is today's (7/14/17) coverboy (and a Forum member - @JudasKane.) I've not met Judas though he certainly has an interesting profile. BDSM isn't really my cup of tea so I've deferrred. Have any clients had the opportunity to meet the gentleman? More generally, over the years I've seen profiles that focus on a specific niche and always wondered if it's more fruitful to be a specialist who can do other things or a generalist who has a few specialties.

Wow... and only $99 to be a masked fly on the wall. My guess is that's a female/male event (or at least that's the likely assumption). It looks like there was a gay version last week. Darn, missed it.

Anyone have any aware of Antonio - he's posted profiles in NC, SC, GA, Chicago, etc. He has an interesting look... Expired Charlotte RM profile -> https://rentmen.com/Antonio_GrayXXX Hourboy profile -> http://hourboy.com/antgrayxxx Boyscort -> http://www.boyscort.com/atlanta-escorts/864-266-7919/?pid=35886591