WhamIAm

"Well this is a nice surprise! I thought you were going to be much older. You sounded like you were in your 70s on the phone. Thought I was going to have to come down to help you up the stairs!"

I had the same experience -- great fun, not earthshattering, but he didn't come across sketchy or dangerous at all. Never crossed my mind that he might not be on the up-and-up. This too was in Vegas, probably 3 or so years ago.

i am afraid you are right more times than not. natural chemistry has to take over even if a valiant effort is taken to include the older hirer or the less attractive of the three. i have a play toy that i would love to either do a MMF, MMM or MFTMM scene with. he seems down but again, if a female is involved (he is a total breeder) then i may get relegated to watching in the corner, if a MMM scene comes about i want him to totally dominate a straighter bodybuilder, he may not be able to get it up or stay hard and same thing with a MFTMM scene. awkwardness may endure when just getting together as a twosome again. if it aint broke dont fix it!
 
in my experiences 3 way fun is usually better left off to the imagination or watching on screen. if all the parties are equally attracted to each other..... perfect. if you can get it to work like you see in a hot porn scene then more power to ya!

Some of these guys'll swallow your face if you want them to. Or if you don't want them to.
 
Meet Alex Ward if you're ever in Chicago. Talk about a long, deep, wet, passionate kiss. I almost had to pick myself up off the floor when he was done with me. lol

"Well this is a nice surprise! I thought you were going to be much older. You sounded like you were in your 70s on the phone. Thought I was going to have to come down to help you up the stairs!"

During the midst of exercising my amazing (or so I thought) oral skills:
 
"Do you know what the weather is going to be like tomorrow?"
"What kind of law do you practice?"
 
Wasn't sure whether to laugh or just bite down really hard.

"Well this is a nice surprise! I thought you were going to be much older. You sounded like you were in your 70s on the phone. Thought I was going to have to come down to help you up the stairs!"

Good point but once it became clear in the 80's how HIV was transmitted HIV it became almost 100% preventable just by using a condom and folks could date, work, kiss, touch each other, live a normal life, etc. without any risk of getting it and later spreading it.
 
Covid is a highly contagious disease and not as preventable as HIV. The younger a person is the more likely to be asymptomatic and pass it to others (clients) who are usually older then he is.

you’re still butthurt about the “staying in shape” thing huh? Sorry to hear.
 
you are correct, but the topic at hand is SEX WORK, and I feel this message is substantially more important for those in THIS business (specifically those who have been doing it awhile). There is a difference between being exhausted saying, idk, waiting tables or teaching children, to survive, in contrast to having to fuck to survive. Apples to oranges champ. Additionally those who do it many years full time have no resume. I’m sure you have a resume in the event you wanted to part ways with your current career. If you want to start “How is Covid affecting your business” (the blue/white collar version) in The Lounge, by all means. But this is “Ask An Escort” and we are discussing the logistics of sex work and Covid. Be safe, wash your hands.

He did. We met up in Montreal, also in 2016. I think he vanished from RM soon after. Not my fault, though.

It’s a wasteland.

I remember that as well, but can't source it. But I do recall putting this guy on my BuddyList as a reminder, but took him off after some research that suggested he was sketchy.

He pops up at Secrets sometimes.
 
I want to age in Rentmen years.

Well, at least my feelings aren't hurt anymore! Have tried texting a few times, including the last time nicely telling him I was really interested, but to text me back if he wasn't so I didn't waste both our our time. Not a word.
 
Sounds like he's in a rough place, so, who knows, maybe just being contacted by men who want him gives him some pleasure. It's annoying as crap, though.

OK, so I took the hit for the team. Glad to have done so. Really nice, interesting guy. Excellent skillz. Best kisser ever. Not my thing, but if you like feet, even better. We were pretty vanilla, but I'm led to believe he has a dominant wild side. Go forth.
 
You're welcome. My pleasure.

Any info?
 
https://rent.men/DeanWolfe/
 
Thanks in advance -
 
Wham

Nothing to do with Derek, in particular, but just generally: You don't think any of us can ever appreciate a man's physical attributes, or look forward to enjoying a sexual encounter, without thinking of another human being as a piece of meat?
 
To that way of thinking, most dates (where there is a hope of sex) and all marriages (where there is an expectation of it) could also be said to have a "piece of meat" element to them. What a reductive view of human experience.

TTBW is in my all-time top-5

Which One? Tyler the Bad Wolf is a lot of fun........

https://rent.men/AlxWard
 
One of the best Chicago has to offer!

If they are good at $250 you really don't mind $350....If they are bad at $350....they are just as bad at $250. It's the unknown that gets you....So it's the take a chance price that is up for discussion.

Hey don’t feel any need to justify your choice - do what you think is right for you and go have some fun and find out all the great possibilities of being with a man.

Tyler the Bad Wolf
https://rent.men/TylerTheBadWolf
 
Sexy, smart and skilled.

Tyler the Bad Wolf
https://rent.men/TylerTheBadWolf
 
Sexy, smart and skilled.

I'd say send three short texts:
1) Hi, I'm JohnDoe, discreet married 60ish (or any relevant indentifying info), got your info from yyy.com. Hot zzz!
2) Are you available now/later/00.00pm for incall/outcall at [insert location]?
3) I'm a top/bottom/oral only/vers/etc looking for [insert a few details here]. Thanks!
 
Emphasis on brevity, clarity, normalcy.