WmClarke

It's not what you have in a profile.  
It's how you compose the private message.
Be clear.  Be direct.  Be kind.  

Yes, it’s possible.
 
I remained friends with my favorite escort for a few years after I stoped hiring. But during Covid he stopped responding to my texts so that friendship Is over.
 
Another escort has become a close friend. He got laid off of his day job right when Covid started. It was impossible to get a job then (“stay at home” orders, etc.). So I hired him one last time for a “G-rated” session where he made dinner and we just cuddled on the couch and watched a movie. This was about two years after I had last hired him. He had since moved to another town but we text a lot and see each other for a meal or at least drinks when one of us is n the other’s town.
 

Yep. Big here in cheese land. Maybe Chicago borrowed it to Wisconsin!

Yeah, this was definitely a normal, run-of-the-mill, casual post that wasn't intended on stirring any pot.
There are those of us who have been on these boards for decades, having amassed 100+ 5-star reviews in previous site incarnations.
We are the escorts who have great reputations that precede them.  Known, viable, solid providers.
Some of us are at a point where we feel we can post here freely- sharing honest opinions and viewpoints- without the need to pollyanna on a constant basis.
I've earned that right, quite frankly.
This current admin would be, what I would consider, the exact opposite of playing favorites.  We all get our hand slapped when we deserve it.

You probably just haven’t browsed the topics enough to see the reviews of providers who are also members.
I have reviewed Mike Gaite and Tristan Baldwin who are both members here.

A good magician never tells his audience how the tricks are accomplished, no?

Thank you for sharing that.
I have a friend* with a wealthy husband.  In the earlier years of their relationship my friend was losing his business, which employed over a dozen other people, and needed about $75k to put it right.  Boyfriend would not give him the money, the business tanked and my friend lost the business.  Around that time, boyfriend spent $75k on a family shindig.  It stung.   
When someone with money cares about you, helps with luxuries and occasional emergencies, the lack of structure, the lack of clarity about where the poor person fits in the wealthy person's life, SPECIFICALLY FINANCIALLY, will make a poorer person feel unmoored and therefore uncared for.  It makes sense that, in a panic, the poorer person will tread water too vigorously saying, “I only feel safe when I'm with you”,  for example.  That doesn't mean it's not true, it's just maybe opportunistic and true.
I'm explaining, not excusing (and I shouldn't have to say that).

I don't feel comfortable sharing specific details of this relationship, but I’ll give some examples to illustrate the situation. The manipulation started with comments like “I don’t think of you as a client anymore,” “I have very strong feelings for you,” “I only feel safe when I'm with you.”.... And so on.
Regarding the money, every time I hired him, which sometimes was multiple times a week, he was paid his standard rate plus a generous tip. He also spent time with me off the clock, during which we would go out to eat, prepare meals at home, enjoy drinks, and have long conversations. Then the “extra” money requests began. It started with statements like, “It’s been a really slow month, and I'm really worried about my rent.” After injuring his shoulder, he needed help with the deductible, and because it was difficult for him to work, he required assistance with his monthly expenses. Every month, there was a new reason for needing extra money and every time the amounts were higher. When I finally started cutting back on the money, he began mistreating me. The first time I refused a money request for a trip to see his mom, he went ballistic, stormed out of my house, and shouted all kinds of insults that I prefer not to remember. And that, folks, is all she wrote.
I remember my mother telling me that the problem with helping people is that the first time you do it, you generate gratitude. Then you create anticipation and expectation, which turns into entitlement and dependency. Finally, when you stop helping, you receive hatred and resentment. This situation perfectly illustrated her point.

I can see how these things happen, but I'll also say that a wise escort will always read the signs and put up non-awkward relationship roadblocks.

I don’t really think this is a thread for jokes. What is being alleged is horrible and if you go on X, sounds like many of his professional colleagues are not surprised.  

I know someone who did it with a rather popular provider. I don’t think it included the final stage (licking the ass).

But I just can’t imagine why anyone would even want to try that.

Just one year ago today, my dear friend and travel companion, Epigonos, left us on his 82nd birthday.  He was gruff and garrulous with strong opinions, always vocal about where he stood on an issue, but the sweetest man, in disguise.  He was generous, kind and sentimental, always protective of those he loved.
Was it just a year ago?
 
I miss him.

Yes, it’s possible.
 
I remained friends with my favorite escort for a few years after I stoped hiring. But during Covid he stopped responding to my texts so that friendship Is over.
 
Another escort has become a close friend. He got laid off of his day job right when Covid started. It was impossible to get a job then (“stay at home” orders, etc.). So I hired him one last time for a “G-rated” session where he made dinner and we just cuddled on the couch and watched a movie. This was about two years after I had last hired him. He had since moved to another town but we text a lot and see each other for a meal or at least drinks when one of us is n the other’s town.
 

A revision of Oklahoma’s prostitution laws earlier this year included the following 
 
from Free Speech Coalition

Wow. I would fee if it’s been tested in court.

What’s amazing about this movie is that it’s based on the real life events surrounding Alfred Packer, a prospector who are his crew and travel members in the search for gold in colorodo territory~ Trey Parker and Stone of South Park created this musical about Packer’s Life~ 

His response is that he's bored and that he posts here to amuse himself. 🙄
QED

The politicians are trying to protect themselves when they get busted.  

Praise be, at last. 
This will make all the difference for the thousands left homeless by tornadoes and floods every year. 

Being the 8th poorest state in the nation, one can easily think of some more fruitful activities for Oklahoma's legislators to engage in.

No Sooner said than dumb.

If I can write a fictionalized account of an evening with a sex worker, describing the appearance, attributes, attitudes, and appendages thereof, by what stretch of the imagination does the Oklahoma legislature conclude that I can't do the same to describe an actual encounter? Does no one in the Sooner State have a copy of the First Amendment? Or an adequate understanding of the same? 
This is the consequence to the only qualifications for public office being age and residency.

It is good to hear Oklahoma has nothing better to deal with than this nonsense.

A revision of Oklahoma’s prostitution laws earlier this year included the following 
 
from Free Speech Coalition

Wow. I would fee if it’s been tested in court.

For those who like to plan ahead – mark your calendars for Saturday (dinner), April 13 - Sunday (pool), April 14 and Monday (breakfast), April 15.  I hope to see many of you there.  And to those of you who have said “I’ll go next year” – it’s next year! 😄☺️👍

I think he is guilty of age-shaving in the ad.