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The sexual marketplace is a great place to find sex, not such a great place to find love, romance or friendship.

We've been subscribers for several years. It relieves our pain points perfectly. We don't mind cooking at all. We just get tired of menu planning and shopping. Hello fresh takes care of all that. We just open the packages, follow the recipe cards and in 30 min. or so, we have dinner.

Genital sex is not generally considered fetishistic. Is oral-genital sex genital sex? I would say yes, others might disagree. I also love to give head. And I'm just into the guy's dick. He doesn't need to come, I don't. I just love dick. I used to get together with a particular guy who was very well hung, but he never got more than semi-hard - didn't matter. It was so pleasurable sucking that huge dick.

Different business model serving a different market segment

They all struggle with the packaging issue-some more successfully than others

I have multiple types, one of which is hairy stud daddies. There are lots of this type of provider in their mid and late 50s. I hire them gladly.

Last week, my husband and I went to Sonoma for a couple days mid-week. We had a wonderful corner room for an 80.00 rate.

If they're into shit, they usually say so by saying they're into scat. More subtly, they might say they like it dirty.

There are a lot of people who are willing to live with risk. And guys who want to minimize risk by keeping their circle of contacts small. Not long ago, a guy on a hookup site proposed that we be exclusive FBS for the duration. It was an attractive offer- great looking guy, we'd proably be sexually compatible, but I'm sitting out the pandemic. Any time I'm tempted, I remember the hunky nurse who went to a circuit party and ended up on a ventilator for weeks.

To me, "wild" means impact play, bondage, fisting, power exchange, the sorts of activities that people call "hard core." If someone says he's a pig, I take that to mean he's into fisting.

I'm nowhere close to wealthy. But if I texted a quick question about my FICO score to my financial adviser, he would answer quickly, providing more information than I ever needed or wanted.

Im also a helpful and savvy poster - usually.

Maybe h Maybe he deserves the benefit of the doubt. But I'm remembering a post of his from a few weeks ago when he posted a photograph of a model who closely resembled his ex, saying that he looked almost exactly like his ex just in case anyone was wondering what his ex looked like. One doesn't expect a man of his age and station to be that needy.

Right. Why didn't he just text his financial advisor?

It's a non-concern concern. Fair Isaac's algorithm rewards the use of credit, so if you have a substantial amount of available credit and aren't using any of it, the algorithm dings you. But who cares when you have an 800+ FICO score? Trust me, any lender will be happy to give him as much as his heart desires. It's a worry for people who need more important things to worry about

And it doesn't mean that that group doesn't look for sex at all. It's just that looking for sex is of lower priority and isn't so public

"Survival of the Wisest," as Jonas Salk said.

Yes, not owing any money at all can have an adverse effect on your FICO score. But with a near perfect score, why are you worried? Someone with a score of 800+ need not worry anout borrowing all the money he should ever need. Maybe you just wanted brag about your high score.

Of course even long-term relationships end sometimes. O My point was more that there is a large group of men who find other things to do with their lives than looking for sex. If that seems foreign to you, it's more a function of the people you choose to hang out with than that it doent exist.

All these guys are relatively "scene"-they go to parties, bars, they're active on social media, they're out looking for sex. But there is another whole group that is nearly invisible to the scene guys, that doesn't do any of that. They're coupled or married. They may be monogamous or mostly so, they work, they travel, they may live in the country, they socialize with each other, they don't have sex with the people in their circles. They stay busy enough with their interests that they don't have time for bars, parties, apps, etc. That's what being a non-scene guy is like. When you are wrapped up in the scene, it's easy to think that that's all there is.

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Those concerns are all symptoms of being stuck in your head. Truthfully, they're not unreasonable concerns, but they will keep you from ever enjoying licking a guy's ass. There are some guys who are into dirty smelly butts, but for most people into rimming, a foundational requirement is a clean butt. Other than that, you just have to get out of your head and into that beautiful ass. It also helps if you just really love mens' asses.

Those concerns are all symptoms of being stuck in your head. Truthfully, they're not unreasonable concerns, but they will keep you from ever enjoying licking a guy's ass. There are some guys who are into dirty smelly butts, but for most people into rimming, a foundational requirement is a clean butt. Other than that, you just have to get out of your head and into that beautiful ass. It also helps if you just really love mens' asses.

I don't think everybody enjoys getting rimmed