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One just needs to be sure that their budget and their standards are compatible.

I only hire guys for therapeutic massage because the rate is lower. When it doesn't progress to sex, I'm not disappointed. When it does, it's a nice surprise. And it expands the universe of guys I can hire. Since it doesn't have to culminate in sex, I can hire straight hunks who do massage.

I hire for massage a lot- enjoy it. And it does often progress to full-on sex.

I would say that would be true in boyfriends, FBS and other unpaid partners. But for me, hiring is primarily driven by fantasy fulfillment.

Hardly think about it. Here in San Francisci, there's no need to read people, so the skill becomes dormant. I spend a lot of time in the South Bay, which is much straighter environment and I still don't think much about it. The south bay drives me crazy because there are good lookin' Latin men everywhere you look.

I had quite a crush on Joshua Bell. He looked almost like the Elvis of the classical music world up on stage using his entire body to play that violin.

There is no guy nicer to be with than Jake Walker.

It won't let me in.

I think I often hire the first guy that I had sex with.=, when I was 17. He was on the short side of average height, athletic build, dark-complected and very hairy. Obviously, I was already attracted to that kind of guy, but the experiences I had with him more or less imprinted me for that type. Also, in addition to being attracted to that sort of man, it was the type of man I hoped to mature into. I didn't make it, but I'm not unhappy with how I did turn out.

I think Jessie Colter has the nicest feet ever. https://rentmen.eu/Jessiecolter

If you hire, beware of providers who list fisting as a preference. When they are filling out their profiles, they just go ahead and check the box if they've done it at all or think that they would do it. It doesn't mean that they are into it and/or have experience. Unless they specifically say they are into it and have experience, I would pass them by.

Never been interested in underwear, but there are a few guys whose worn dress shirt I would like to have.

Forgot about him. I could hardly stand watching Medical Center because he was so hot.

I guess you won't be trying sounding any time soon.

When you hire, you get to take a vacation from your self-consciousness and low self-esteem and just enjoy being with a great looking man who's there to make you happy. Of course there's some staging and play-acting, but that's paid sex. When you watch a play or a movie, you don't sit there ruining the experience for yourself by constantly reminding yourself that it isn't real life and therefore sucks. It's the same here, its just that there's an audience of one with audience participation being expected and encouraged.

They dont do them as a routine screen as with DRE. Only if they want to make a diagnosis

Agree completely. Questioning whether an escort's compliments are sincere is WAY overthinking. When you hire, you're getting an experience for your money. Part of the experience is compliments. Why ruin what you've paid by overanalyzing it?

My uro knows how to do it so that it's nearly pain-free

I cant imagine myself using makeup, but if I did, that would certainly be my goal.

Ive tried it, I like it.

I'm also a sapiosexual. Conspicuous intelligence gets me hard.

I have a very fond memory of a black Cuban hunk that I met at a bathhouse in Vancouver many years ago

Actually, I had a cystoscopy a few years ago that made me positively horny, it felt so good having the scope snaking around in my bladder.

I knew a guy years ago who used eye makeup so artfully that you wouldn't have known he used it. He just looked terrific

I like musclemen. Strong preference for blacks and Latins.