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Wow - say the quiet part out loud.

At the time, none of that occured to me. I thought "why would he choose this author for me - he didn't do it for anyone else," but that was as far as I got. Many years later, it just hit me out of the blue that that's what may have been going on. He was an interesting character - kind of edgy in an environment where nobody else was edgy. He liked to say provocative things. I don't remember what work we were discussing, but it involved a wedding. And he was curious what we thought of the wedding. He said,"some people think that weddings are actually fertility rites." Everyone blushed and didn't say anything.

I tend to sleep on the left side of the bed. It doesn't mean anything - just habit.

Exactly!!

I have noticed that you can be disappointed when you hire for sensual or erotic, I always hire for therapeutic, which often morphs into sensual or erotic. If it doesn't it's OK because therapeutic is what I hired for, after all.

Inhaled meds for respiratory problems are god-awful expensive. For years, I got spiriva offshore because the copay was something ridiculous like $350.00. Just recently it has come way down - i got a refill just recently and it was only $70 for 90 days' worth.

Im sorry you feel so rotten. Maybe he should try decadron. It's longer lasting and generally a stronger steroid.

I hadn’t taken Sudafed in a long while and tried to buy some recently and was surprised I had to ask for it.

Great stuff for sure. it has be refrigerated. Even when it's refrigerated, it seems to go off if not used within a couple of months.

Manufacturing engineers know that no process is perfect straight out of the box.

He's crossing over into Michael Jackson territory

It's a business decision - if the cost/benefit analysis is favorable, keep doing it. If it isn't, figure out something else.

I don't know - mine get hacked from time to time, but my husband uses credit cards and his get hacked way more than my debit cards do. My bank's fraud algorithm is outstanding - it rarely misses a spurious charge and hardly ever has false positives. Im very careful with the card for my business because it's really a pain if I have to block the card. I also have two paypal accounts - business and personal and I use venmo to pay quite a bit on the personal card. Providers don't seem to like venmo.

I saw him once maybe 17 or 18 years ago. I was really late for my appointment because I got lost. The massage was OK, the sex was OK, but I found him extremely odd - the whole time I was there I kept asking myself, "What is wrong with this guy?'"

I achieve something similar. I have one credit card that I rarely use. I have debit cards for personal expenses and business expenses. Because the debit card represents real money in one of my accounts, I'm careful about how I use it. I'm thinking of shit-canning the credit card. It was issued by a credit union and I have used it with no problems for 25 years. The credit union just suscribed with a new fraud control outfit and I had three transactions declined in a day.

Yes I’ve seen it-a cutie playing Beethoven sonatas shirtless- luv it!

why does it matter? If the deposit is in addition to what he's going to charge for the session, I can see why one would be upset. But if the deposit is an advance of a portion of the agreed-on fee, why does it matter when it is paid? Everybody has credit cards, debit cards, paypal, venmo. It doen't even need to be an inconvenience. The only reason I can see for somebody not liking it is that it's unequivocal proof that the provider doesn't fully trust you. But it is a transaction, after all.

I assumed that they would be tipped . . . generously I hope.

He gives me a long leash - but he insists on complete transparency - no secrets or bullshiting

San Francisco is a big small town - I could well run into people that I know. They would think I was cheating on him.

I used to say that I was gay - but I'm finding I don't like to label myself anymore. It hardly ever comes up here in the Bay area, because same-sex attraction is so commonplace and widely accepted, but if I do have reason to say "what" I am, I say that I'm "into men." That really says everything that needs to be said.

Actually, no, he doesn't play piano. That's what he does here. On cruise ships, he teaches bridge.

I know a guy who plays piano on cruise ships. He said the cruise line provides them. They call them "gentlemen hosts" or something like that." They sit and chat unaccompanied women up, have drinks with them, keep them company, etc etc.