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Many years ago, I knew a straight married couple who lived BDSM all the time. She was the dom, he was the sub. They lived in leather and maintained their dom/sub dynamic all the time. He was an impossibly hot tall bearded biker type. She started making him have sex with other guys, but he was very resistant. I saw him alone in a bar once and was trying to chat him up. He was very uncomfortable, said his wife had ordered him to go in and pick somebody up. I would see them at parties. He wanted to hang on her, but she would order him to circulate and act like a man instead of being such a pussy.

At 65, of course I'm older than my hires, but sometimes not by much, since I love daddies. I hardly think about age. I just relate to everybody as a contemporary. I have a friend who is 85, and he feels like my contemporary. Some younger men relate to me as an older man, but most dont.

so he's into assplay

I was wondering if your mind hadn't skipped a track.

I got it years ago and they gave it in split doses.

Why not get the Hep A and Hep B vaccines?

It's been around for some time now. I think I got it about two years ago.

It isn't just businesses. If someone gets drunk while a guest in your home, you can be held responsible. I think it's a reasonable policy. What it means is that it isn't OK to keep giving someone who is obviously inebriated more to drink and then allowing them to go out and do things like operating a motor vehicle. It isn't too much to ask that the providers of alcoholic beverages exercise judgment and moderation in the interest of public safety.

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Very sensible.

The laws regarding sales and service of alcohol could be really weird. I grew up in New York State. When I was a kid, restaurants couldn't serve alcohol until 1PM on Sunday. If you had been drinking at the bar at a restaurant and you moved to a table, it was against the law for you to carry your own drink, a restaurant employee had to carry it for you. When I lived in Colorado, bars had to close at 12pm on Sunday. The only alcoholic beverage stores could sell on Sunday was 3.2 beer. 18 year olds could drink 3.2 beer, but nothing else. There were actually bars that sold only soft drinks and 3.2 to cater to the 18-21 crowd. The laws were truly wacky.

Same-My mother sent me to the store for cigarettes all the time. It was against the law to sell cigarettes to minors, but nobody cared.

My partner and I were having dinner in a restaurant in Sonoma, a diner type place. Our server was a friendly chatty guy, enough so that I thought he might have potential. While my partner went to the restroom, he walked up, said he'd been watching me and could tell I was just made to be bad. I was astonished.

My mother lived in a small town in MS for several years and I visited he twice/year. It always took a long time to get there. I had to fly to Jackson, which wasn't a direct flight and then drive for 2 hours.

He might not be very happy with you. I have enjoyable little chats with guys on the street. Nicky Blueyes even gave me a hug and a kiss.

In the rural deep south, most retail businesses are closed on Sunday.

Weekend before last, I competed in a bodybuilding contest, so I got to see the entire field of competitors up close and personal. I was struck by how straight it was. Out of the entire field of competitors, I only saw a couple guys that seemed gay. They were obviously friends and both from the same town. The way they leaned into each other when they talked made me think that they were more than friends. I asked one of them if they were a couple. He got a slightly weird look on his face and said "Uh, no." Bodybuilders often advertise for patrons. It's a costly sport.

Since I see them a lot here in San Francisco, I approach the ones I'm interested in and introduce myself, in just the same way I would approach anyone I would like to meet. I wouldn't introduce myself to an escort who wasn't alone. He could be with friends or a client. I walk up, extend my hand and say, "You're X, aren't you?" Since you're using his escort name, he automatically knows why you're saying hello. A simple introduction like that, to me, is not an invasion of privacy.

I saw Tom Vaccaro working out in my gym once. Our eyes locked for a second, we smiled at each other and then we went back to our workouts.

I guess I misunderstood. I would never do that for exactly that reason - it seems a little weird, like you need to get a life.

What is stalkerish about it? They saw you, they recognized you, they chose not to speak to you. Nevertheless, seeing you was enough of an event so that they thought it was worth talking about.

I see escorts on the street all the time in San Francisco. My most recent spotting was Kyle Braun at Market and Dolores. I was amazed. He looks good in photos, but in person, whoa!! - Like a runway model in Milan.

Actually, that sounds pretty good.

Some do look feminine, but a lot of whites look feminine. I have always been attracted to Asian men and I guess, since I live in a part of town that is mostly Asian, I have developed even more of an eye for them. I actually have a drawer full of pictures of Asian men that I have torn out of magazines. When I see one I like, I tear it out and add it to my little collection.

What was fascinating was the beautiful effect the spray-tan had on the Asian men. It interacted with their natural skin tone to produce a beautiful sort of dark taupe with a nice suede-like sheen.