Why are you dealing with the Conservator's Office? You don't seem to be somebody in need of conservatorship. You need to start teasing out services for the aging. Every community community has them. In large cities, there's usually a single number you can call that will hook you up with all sorts of services and agencies. A small community like yours is probably more challenging, but the services are there. They may be provided by government agencies, non-profits, churches. There may be food banks, transportation assistance, assistance filling out forms to apply for benefits, meals-on-wheels, etc., all sorts of things.