adventurous old guy

Jumping in to offer this perspective: I haven't lost interest in hiring at all, unfortunately for my wallet. However, I hesitate more because of the way bareback has become the norm. I think the trend is unfortunate for these reasons: First, it's very tempting. Bareback IS so much more exciting. Second, I really don't want to go on PrEP, long term affects have not been studied, I'd worry about not complying with the regimen, and honestly I just hate taking chronic meds. Third. all evidence is that drug-resistant STDs are on the rise, and PrEP does nothing to prevent any but HIV. And finally, there's a lot of rationalization and misinformation out there that comes up in conversation with providers about how its OK to go bare now. I've had two conversations with providers about how relying on condoms without PrEP use is irresponsible on my part because condoms can break. I see the point, but its a kind of a mindfuck for someone who has been as careful as I've been for as long as I've been. So honestly, I'm thinking of retiring this hobby for that reason. BTW, I don't think this is just a provider problem. Multiple threads here where providers express concern about clients now expecting bareback. Most recently, this one: https://m4m-forum.org/threads/safe-vs-bare.153674/

I hire at least monthly, and can think of only once in the last two years where my date asked me to wear a condom. I've often been encouraged not to, and in those conversations -- since my preference is to top -- a common rationale I hear is that I'm not the one at risk. So boy, there's a lot of misinformation and rationalization. Agree, that this debate has shown up here in quite a few threads However, I appreciate them as a reminder of the risks. That CDC vid on the clap certainly got my attention.

Do tell. Mark and I overlap in DC this week. He was amazing, the real deal why? Tried to PM you to no avail, but would love hear more. PM me if you feel inclined...thx

Interesting guy, very exotic looking. But don't hire him as a bottom. He agreed to bottom, and gets A for effort. But he's hardwired as a top. We had kind of a fun time sword-fighting and I enjoyed it just because he is an interesting guy, but...

bump, here now too.

Speaking of his hair, I exchanged messages with him too. In the exchange I inquired about his parameters, and the only thing he listed was that he didn't like his hair messed up. Made me laugh. So, I guess he spends some time getting it right, lol.

Well, if I see him he will be bottoming. Something he already has said he's "very interested" in doing. I honestly don't care about how horse hung he is, but will report back for those that do, lol. Scheduled for 11/19.

He's very responsive to email, so that's a good sign.

Any experience? New in DC, has just one review. https://rentmen.eu/Lczxxl/

Interesting. I personally wouldn't comply with the request, but given that he advertises as a bottom it could be an indicator that he really does love his job, lol.

Haven't seen this guy before. Hot pics. Any experience to share? https://rentmen.eu/Tombigtool AOG

Caught my eye too. Come on DC, someone must have tried him out!

Also, he's not going to find a lawyer prepared to be "ruthless" in a defamation suit for 5k. Needs to up the budget for the threat to pass the smell test.

Yeah, saw that. Wish I hadn't missed him!

Here's what I do: 1. On Rentmen, scroll down to reviews and select "Read all reviews about...". Then copy that URL 2. Go to www.hide.me. Under the "VPN Apps" dropdown menu, select "Free Proxy" 3. A blue box pops up with a URL field, two more dropdowns and a yellow button labeled "Visit Anonymously." Paste the URL from RM here. Open the "More Options" dropdown and make sure all 5 five boxes are checked. Then hit the yellow button, and you should be back into RM, now with comments visible in the Reviews. Hope this helps.

Just noticed that this guy has even more butt pics in his ad now than before, so wondering if he as evolved? Any new insights?

My two cents: I'm from a family of LEOs -- although we call them cops lol -- and all for standing up against criminal activity, but the time to do that was during the shakedown, by calling his bluff, picking up the phone and dialing 911. Now -- well, we know this guy is a creep, he knows where you live and if reported now I'd be worried about retaliation -- vandalism or other property damage, getting stalked and beat up on the street or worse. Pains me to say it because so unfair, but at this point I'd chalk this up to a $1500 lesson learned rather then spending the next 6 weeks 24/7 looking over my shoulder.

Right, this sounds like something that LEOs wouldn't do in the U.S. But it does happen elsewhere, A young very American looking/dressing friend of mine just had drugs planted on him in a Columbian restaurant, followed by an attempted arrest by LEOs. Luckily his girlfriend, who is Columbian, saw it and confronted them loudly and shamed them into backing down in front of all the restaurant patrons as witnesses. Bottom line, beware when traveling.

Just to be clear, your sentence in quotes is not a verbatim quote from Dane's ad, which is how I first read it. Rather your interpretation based on some assumptions, as you say. Anyway, agreed that discussion of his American bf being available is naive at this time in history, and risky.

Smiled when I saw this because these are all guys I've had a great experiences with too, and would enthusiastically recommend. We have similar taste I guess. and GREAT taste at that lol!

Yes, exactly.

Here's a past thread on Daniel: https://m4m-forum.org/threads/daniel-fox-chicago-411.137577/page-2#post-1726726 I almost broke a rule about hiring in my hometown because I thought he was really hot. Definitely got a flaky vibe from him re scheduling. We had a date, he cancelled as I was about to jump in an Uber because he "had friends over" then tried to reschedule with me during mornings or at a local hotel. So there is something odd going on that seems to be pattern. Just to be clear though, I haven't met him and it looks from other comments like he delivers once you get past the scheduling weirdness.

I reached out to him and the back and forth communication has been really nice - polite, direct, clear. Have a date on my next trip to Dallas in a couple of weeks. Agree, he looks and sounds hot.

Thx for this. I contacted him a few months ago and got a response that raised flags too.

Although I will say that this man also is a contender for my next date in San Diego. Great reports from his reviewers too, as well as very responsive communication with him: https://rentmen.eu/KevinDinSD