adventurous old guy

...or has foul morning breath, misses the bowl when he pees or is a FOX News junkie.

Wow, that was fast.

Well, I'm on the list of people who stopped hiring due to hypochondriac leanings, but at the risk of being snarky I'd want to hire Brodie Scott and take him to dinner just to get the low down on Gillum's down low. https://m4m-forum.org/threads/politician-miami-escort.156525/

Also lays it out in the RM Interview section: Q: What would you like your readers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal? A: That I’m a pornstar for Seancody

Amen! Older + Built = Hot

The SC guy who sticks in my brain is Raymond. Built, hungry, bottom. Woof. https://www.seancody.com/scene/2702321/raymond-pavel https://www.seancody.com/scene/2702771/raymond-jarek-bareback

This link almost always works for me, on either Safari or Chrome. Another tip is that when you access the "Free Proxy" from the dropdown, another drop down that displays is "More Options." Open that, and make sure all five boxes are checked. Then choose your country button. Germany consistently works better than the Netherlands.

I saw him a couple years ago. Handsome, well built, exotic looking guy. We did not click at all. Very self-absorbed at the time, maybe he's matured by now.

He's the most intensely fun guy I've ever retained. Clearly loves sex a lot, built, and boy does he deliver. An interesting and engaging guy to boot. I'd definitely recommend hiring for longer than an hour.

Nope, passed.

Nope, passed.

Have to say it IS a great ad copy. Almost every sentence has a perfect hook in it. Wonder if he focus grouped to get it just right, lol.

After a lot of thought over the weekend, where this thread weighed heavily, I've made the decision to end this hobby. I remember very well the first time a provider suggested we go bare, because it was a mindfuck for me. That was November 2014, I had just turned 60 and it had been over 30 years at the time since I'd had anything sexually transmitted (crabs in my case, not sure that even qualifies as a true STD ). I know there's some back and forth here about whether barebacking is routine now, but based on my experience shopping through ads and hiring its totally normalized, at least in the markets where I explore. Then there's all the data shared here and elsewhere about the rise of STDs beyond HIV and antibiotic resistance. Still wondering if the risks are greater now or my willingness to rationalize condom use as "safe enough" is just less. Anyway, the bottom line for me is that I don't want to go on PrEP, so it does seem irresponsible for me to continue -- for my own health as well as the risks I'd be exposing sex partners to given that I don't take the PrEP precaution. I'm extremely grateful for this forum, even though I'll probably be using it less. More than just informative, it's been a fun and naughty escape from the daily stresses of work and life! I'll have to take up knitting or scrapbooking now, lol. Anyway, thanks to all.

wow. Think this thread is thought provoking -- have been mulling on it all weekend -- and I truly appreciate all the points of view offered, especially those that emphasize avoiding blaming. But it IS giving me the creeps. Especially this point -- if I'm going to be responsible for whatever risks I choose to take, does that responsibility entail informing other sex partners that we hire escorts. Is that a distinct risk factor that should be disclosed, especially if we know the escorts we hire offer bareback services?

HUGE pet peeve for me too, epidemic at my gym. After texting while driving, the 2nd worst collateral effect of apps and text messaging.

Lol, I meant that he was gay of course. But I see your point, and like it. We're more than our sexual preferences, yes?

btw, my review is in RM. Left extensive comments you can read if you access it through the foreign VPN. Or you can PM me here lol.

Alexander quoted me $300/hr and he was NOT a clock watcher. Thx for the birthday wishes.

Just saw him this week. Might top, not sure, definitely bottoms. He was really communicative and forthcoming in the text meeting to set things up, and he followed through on everything. Nice, interesting man. He looks like his photos but better in that he smiles much more in person than in most of his photos. Reviewed him on RM this morning, with extensive comments for those who access through an international site via VPN.

Right on! My thinking exactly. Chemistry IS a thing, it matters, and sometimes it's just not there. Laughed out loud at your take on a "rounding error."

Just a quick follow up on Mark. I contacted him this week when we overlapped in DC. Very polite, but quoted me $500/hr or $950 for 2. It was my birthday so I was prepared to splurge, and responded that $500 was not out of the question for me, but not for a first meeting, someone I'd never been with before. Countered offering $400 with a promise to be generous if I had a great experience. He read that but didn't respond. It was early in the day. I assumed he was probably waiting to see if he got a better offer. Gave him two hours before pulling my counter and going with someone else, specifically this guy: https://rentmen.eu/AlexanderLatin. Very different look than Mark, but beautiful, super nice, flexible and fun. Just reviewed. Got a nice final note from Mark later in the day saying "no worries." So want to underscore he was friendly and communicative throughout the back and forth. And as a consultant myself I certainly don't begrudge him sticking to his price. Goal of this post is just to update intel about his pricing.

Just a quick follow up on Mark. I contacted him this week when we overlapped in DC. Very polite, but quoted me $500/hr or $950 for 2. It was my birthday so I was prepared to splurge, and responded that $500 was not out of the question for me, but not for a first meeting with someone I'd never been with before. Countered offering $400 with a promise to be generous if I had a great experience. He read that but didn't respond. It was early in the day. I assumed he was probably waiting to see if he got a better offer. Gave him two hours before pulling my counter and going with someone else, specifically this guy: https://rentmen.eu/AlexanderLatin. Very different look than Mark, but beautiful, super nice, flexible and fun. Just reviewed. Got a nice final note from Mark later in the day saying "no worries." So want to underscore he was friendly and communicative throughout the back and forth. And as a consultant myself I certainly don't begrudge him sticking to his price. Goal of this post is just to update intel about his pricing.

Amen. And Foucault was in our club!

Just want to say that I resonate and totally appreciate your candor. Made me recall my college philosophy courses. Sarte wrote some really thought provoking stuff on fetish/perversion. I'm bastardizing, but the gist is that sex is a profound act of human to human communication. Fetishs no matter how exteme are not perversion as long as some real person to person exchange is going on, whereas banging it out in the hetero missionary position is perversion if its rote, routine and objectifying. Talking about those ideas in class at the age of 21 as I was coming to terms with the reality that I was attracted to boys much more than girls changed my life.

Good practice wise words. I do that too. Interestingly, the provider who proactively insisted on a condom before I did was European.