adventurous old guy

Wow, really had never appreciated this distinction. Thx for the clarification!

I'd put Mathianis on this list: https://rentmen.eu/mathianis Interestingly, while big they are not hard-wired as one of his erogenous zones (I asked). Which begs this question: Why is it that for some they are, but not for others? Is it a gene? Can't be just psychological, can it?

Had and excellent and memorable date with Max back in the mid-1990s. Super fun.

Hmmm, so what role is IvyLeague playing? Natasha, the good-hearted but high strung youngster we're watching grow up? Boris, the social climber? Maybe Helene, whose serene beauty masks her manipulative tactics? Or Nicholas, the nice guy who just needs to find the right sugar momma (or daddy in this case) to make his life make sense?

Whatever the varied opinions about his age, communication skills, propensities to party or pricing, bottom line he's hot and he sure seems to enjoy sex. The way he grins and laughs in the course of his vids reminds me of some of the best partners and experiences I've had. So I for one am glad he's out there generating content!

Woof. In his videos he eagerly kisses, seems to crave it when he bottoms. Huge turn on for me too.

Ding ding ding, correct!! I think we've now conclusively established his MO. Gymowner, my experience wasn't anywhere near as hot as yours (although at one point I do remember his legs on my shoulders). It was just oddly funny. I had this great corner room in a Dallas hotel and he'd commented on the view. So after I got the menu of items I paid for, he hung out for a drink. That's when I told him his approach made me lose my hardon and asked if it really worked for him. He grinned and told me he had goals. When I asked what they were, his answer was car repairs. He had a Corvette, he'd damaged it, it was a big bill. If i ever write a screenplay, I'll find a way to insert that conversation into dialogue.

LOL, this reminds me of a porn star I hired many years ago. Famous, hunky Australian. He had an itemized price schedule for what he would do for how much, and it was comprehensive. He'd do anything and everything, each with its own price. Even when we were in bed and I was on top of him, it was "For this much more, I could do this. For that much more, I could do that..." It was all very friendly, even humorous like an SNL skit, but a total hard-on killer.

Covid-19 take on "15 minutes of fame?" Many of us might just have a lot more time in our days lol

Hmmm, following the content and tone of this thread with interest. Benjamin, with respect -- "antiquated" strikes me as a pretty harsh characterization of concerns with the risks of raw sex. Yes, the risk of death from condom-free sex may be greatly mitigated, but they still protect against multiple STDs, many of which are becoming increasingly antibiotic resistant, therefor potentially life-threatening. https://www.cdc.gov/drugresistance/biggest-threats.html However, I see your point. And its pertinent to me because I'm in an intense conversation with a 30ish friend who thinks it's irresponsible of sexually active men not to go on PrEP and rely on condoms to manage risk of getting or transmitting HIV. He argues that PrEP is easily accessible, condoms can break and consistent condom use is too easily impaired by a couple of cocktails or other real time factors. He would never trust that someone who says they always use condoms is telling the truth. For me, as a 60+ person who started having sex with men in 1977 just as the HIV pandemic was starting, I'm deeply socialized to associate condom use as death prevention. Plus condom reliance has worked for me for 40+ years, averaging maybe 20 sex partners a year, most of them escorts. The prospect of shifting from condom use to relying on a pill feels dangerous. I realize that's a bias, but I'm experiencing it as a mindfuck. Like losing religion. Bottom line, I appreciate the dialogue and the chance to share this perspective and consider my own embedded biases. Also, again to Benjamin's point, risk is dynamic -- in the Covid environment there appears to be more risk of death or serious illness from kissing a new person than from having sex with one. AOG

Noticed this ad pop up in Chicago yesterday. An RM member since 2018 with no reviews? Odd. Beautiful, but hard to believe. https://rentmen.eu/JChristiano

I've made my peace that there is no privacy at all anymore. When I buy a pair of shoes at Nordstrom, I get a shoe ad on Facebook the next day. Don't know if they're monitoring credit card, the websites I visit, Nordstrom's points system data or what, but it's not coincidence.

And the answer is in the room: https://m4m-forum.org/threads/jack-mackenroth.148685/#post-1990592

Never hired him, but didn't/doesn't Project Runway contender Jack Mackenroth advertise from time to time?

He's been around for awhile. i saw him in early 2018. Btw, he bottomed for me though it seems right that his preference is top. Also, I remember really liking the planning process. He was the one who asked for a phone conversation, not me, and it was to pretty graphically understand what I wanted. Very direct questions that seemed to be part of his process of deciding whether he could meet expectations. Fun memory, because I was in a restaurant during the interview and had to get him to reformat his questions so I could answer yes/no or give coded responses.??

So interesting looking. It must take a good dose of courage to modify your gender identity -- its strikes me as such a big, bold decision. I admire him/her/them for that.

Further back, or as far back? VHS was pretty long ago, lol, trying to remember what came before...Betamax? 8 MM?

Reminiscent of the Ritts photos of Bob Paris/Rod Jackson, updated to full frontal. https://www.tumblr.com/search/rod%20jackson

Oh good, glad to hear. While I don't count myself a part of his personal life, we had a clear expectation going in that he would bottom. And then he couldn't, which I empathized with as its something I just don't enjoy. Interesting conversation ensued. Apparently he's clearer about that now.

"not a good pick if you want him to bottom ✔ (he tried it a couple times personally and ain't into it)" Very much my experience. He tried, its just not his forte. Kudos for the attempt, but demerits for telling potential clients that its on the menu.

Oh, and to confirm -- he is very cute. Built young man, big smile, exudes enthusiasm. Smelled good too.

If you still are interested in meeting him, I don't think it's too late to turn this around. You seem reasonable and articulate about what went wrong before. And he's both a good communicator and a nice enough guy that I think he'd give you a second chance. I once had to cancel with him very shortly before a date. I was literally in a cab on the way to his hotel when an event at work required me to immediately fire someone over the phone and then follow up with legal, etc. Our date turned into a meeting in his hotel lobby where I had phone in one ear, muted as I gave him an overview about what I was managing. He had a flight out so couldn't postpone. I took the high road and paid him the base fee agreed upon, so he knew I wasn't screwing with him. But I could tell, both then and in texts after, that he was empathetic and understanding, and he was fun and flirtatious in doing so. So extrapolating from that experience, I think you could take the high road, say I was hesitant then, I'm not now, and he'd agree to move forward. Its his business. And its not like you did anything that was terrible or really put him out, so there's not a whole lot to forgive. I'd just start with a mea culpa, be very clear about setting a date and enthusiastic in tone, so he knows your ambivalence is gone.

Thx AZDR, appreciate it. I do my best here to be fair and civil. I see a similar approach in your posts as well.

Golly, somebody got up on the wrong side of the bed today! Steven, like it or not, when a service provider changes his name frequently its a red flag. People - me or others -- will notice and comment here, and we're going to share our opinions based on our experiences. It's what we do. It's what this forum is for.

Adding Paddy to my list, especially after seeing the vid of Michael Lucan plowing him six ways to Sunday, with Paddy obviously enjoying every inch!