adventurous old guy

Ok, so I wasn't going to comment on this thread any longer, but this was too funny -- thx Ludo, made me laugh out loud! Quickly before I leave this thread -- for good this time -- I get that I was probably over-reacting in describing him as a stalker. Responses here helped me see that, thx. I would never even think about hiring him in the future, even when I am back in his city. And I'm not going to block his texts or change my phone number, just continue to completely ignore him. Now I'm really done here! Have a fun holiday everyone.

Amen.

Ok, thx again for all the advice. And the empathy/concern -- that was nice. Just to clarify, this has barely registered on my radar as an annoyance. I'm busy, and have just blown past this stuff until I realized yesterday that hey, its July now, this has been going on for 3 months and should have run its course. Anyway I'm going with the bored millennial theory -- thx Marylander, hadn't really thought of that -- and will just continue to ignore. I think I won't block, just let further texts accumulate to have a record as Charlie suggests, on the off chance he escalates this. Best to you all, AOG

Thanks all. I know I can block, but here's what I don't know. When I block, how does he know? I assumed he'd take no answers for 3 months as the same as blocking

Hi, have an issue and bet I'm not a first. I'm a consultant who travels frequently and hires when on the road, never at home. Contacted a service provider when traveling in March. Explained what I was looking for and told him a bit about me -- age, height, weight, the fact that I was very much a top -- in a RM email. He was up for it, so I shifted to text. The one time I was available, he was scheduled to work and I got an up sell - he'd take off a day of work if I would do an overnight. I said no, I wasn't interested in doing an overnight with somebody I'd never met before, plus I had to do my own job starting early the next day. I then got a hard sell -- I should take a chance because I'm exactly his type, he's a great bottom, he gets really into it and would deliver a great time and so on, way over the top. I said no thx, this won't work, thanked him for his interest and ignored a couple more follow up texts about this meeting. A few days later, he texted again proposing that he fly to my home in Chicago for an overnight. I responded thanking him for the offer, reminding him that again we had not met and I didn't want to do an overnight for that reason, and that I never hired when I was at home, it was a rule in my relationship. He then changed his offer to the effect that he would cover hotel costs if I could just do the plane ticket. So clearly this guy is an aggressive non-listener. I reiterated no, not interested, and wished him luck in life. It was firm and curt. So, now I get about 2 texts a week from this guy, asking me how I am. I haven't responded at all with the goal of my silence communicating a hard stop to the back and forth. His texts haven't stopped, I got 2 over the weekend. Wondering what else I should try, or should I just continue the silence? If not silence, should I try a threat? Or should I make another firm reply of not interested, please don't contact me again. I have been almost this direct before, but not made the explicit request to desist in contacting me. Btw, I'm not worried about being outed or any kind of blackmail. However, it has crossed my mind given his persistance that he is a whacko who can easily get my name and where I live and that he may just show up here one day. Would appreciate advice. Thx.

Hi, have an issue and think I'm not a first. Contacted a service provider when traveling in March. Explained what I was looking for and told him a bit about me -- age, height, weight, the fact that I was very much a top -- in a RM email. He was up for it, so I shifted to text. The one time I was available, he was scheduled to work and I got an up sell - he'd take off a day of work if I would do an overnight. I said no, I wasn't interested in doing an overnight with somebody I'd never met before, plus I had to do my own job starting early the next day. I then got a hard sell -- I should take a chance because I'm exactly his type, he's a great bottom, he gets really into it and would deliver a great time and so on, way over the top. I said no thx, this won't work, thanked him for his interest and ignored a couple more follow up texts about this meeting. A few days later, he texted again proposing that he fly to my home in Chicago for an overnight. I responded thanking him for the offer, reminding him that again we had not met and I didn't want to do an overnight for that reason, and that I never hired when I was at home, it was a rule in my relationship. He then changed his offer to the effect that he would cover hotel costs if I could just do the plane ticket. So clearly this guy is an aggressive non-listener. I reiterated no, not interested, and wished him luck in life. It was firm and curt. So, now I get about 2 texts a week from this guy, asking me how I am. I haven't responded at all with the goal of my silence communicating a hard stop to the back and forth. His texts haven't stopped, I got 2 over the weekend. Wondering what else I should try, or should I just continue the silence? If not silence, should I try a threat? Or should I make another firm reply of not interested, please don't contact me again. I have been almost this direct before, but not made the explicit request to desist in contacting me. Btw, I'm not worried about being outed or any kind of blackmail. However, it has crossed my mind given his persistence that he is a whacko who can easily get my name and where I live and that he may just show up here one day. Would appreciate advice. Thx.

I'd look at the guys on RM who live in DC but list availability in Baltimore. They are most likely the ones willing to travel.

Too perfect is always a red flag for me. Feels unreal, usually hiding something!

You're convincing. Will look to meet Alex. Thx.

Well said -- nailed it!

Had a new review this week from a long-time member here that was very descriptive of the experience and rather discouraging: Santiago I got a similar vibe from him when I saw him last year. Looked great then, very blah experience beyond the visual appetizer.

Anyone experience with this dude? Not much to go on here I know -- one soft focus pic, no reviews: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/33160/ I wouldn't even be asking but for the fact that pickins are slim in Baltimore, where our paths intersect this week. Thx AOG

Oh my...well you DID get one suggestion of someone who could PLAY dumb even though he isn't -- you might have to settle for that. Not your holy grail I know, but couldn't it scratch your itch? And I might have another similar suggestion: https://rentmen.eu/JasMorgan. I'm seeing him next week, he seems creative and interesting, and he does list role play in his repertoire -- maybe I should ask him to help me revisit 1996 and report back? Hmmm, yes...I can see him in a sleeveless hoodie unzipped to his navel...

Actually, what I remember is him being easy to please. lol. He bottomed and was ready to go from the get go!

Nope, he was a dark-haired Italian lol.

Well, this event was in 1996 or maybe 1997, so if you had him now it would be quite a different experience. Hell, he might even be a member of this forum by now, on the other side of the hiring transaction.

Love this thread. Took me back to my first hire in the mid-1990s, a hunky baggage handler at the Philly airport, who the folks at the Premier agency described as a big puppy-dog. He showed up wearing short cut-0ffs, a sleeveless hoodie unzipped down to his navel, and work-boots -- basically the clone look from 5-10 years earlier, complete with those bunchy white sox we wore in the 80s. Told me his job at the airport was perfect for him because it was "mostly outside and the people are nice" and that he loved escorting because the airport job could be boring, he lived with his mother and needed something exciting in his life. Sat on the edge of the bed as he told met this, then with a wide grin asked "So if we're done talking, I'm horny, should I take off my clothes now?" Thanks for jogging that memory.

So you set an expectation the first time with the very generous tip, and then reset it the second time. Awkward maybe, but not disrespectful, so just keep swimming through this. I'd definitely schedule a 3rd time. You may have motivated him to work really hard to deliver a superior experience in hope of earning that big tip again! Will be interested to hear what his quote is for the next visit.

Except for the clean sheets rule. No further exceptions to that rule, lol, based on experience. If the service provider is traveling, arrange for an outcall!

Ditto! And apology from me for making fun of you a bit. I was just teasing, wasn't meant to make you feel bad.

Bumping. Recent experiences?

Yeah, but I now feel kind of bad for starting this thread to get a smile out of his ad. Wonder if we shamed him into converting from what was a creative approach to sales to something boring...

One more thought, the multiple clients per day phenomena does prompt me to avoid in calls especially for traveling escorts. I like to know that the sheets are clean, lol. Worst experience was a guy who was sharing a room with two other escorts, who I found waiting waiting in the lobby as I was leaving. God only knows how many folks were in that bed between linen changes!

Kevin has a point. Genetics research suggests that we homo sapiens are exceptionally good at two things, traveling and having sex. Its very likely that many of us have more ethnic diversity than we realize, and I supposed its possible if you add up all the world traveling and fucking of your ancestors you could have a mix that is approximately 33% something. In terms of ethnic identification, 3 of my grandparents are Norwegian and 1 is Czech. Both my parents were blond and blue-eyed, but my dad used to tease my Mom -- the half Czech parent -- that her slightly almond shaped eyes were probably due to Genghis Khan being one of her ancestors. The whole Mongol horde thing. When I had my DNA analyzed, the results show I'm 99.9% European and .1% East Asian. My sibs and I now joke that Dad was right! Apologies for the diversion, back to our regularly scheduled programming...

Well, I think we can rest assured that both Gman and the Very Cute Boy Next Door know their way around a Thesaurus!