adventurous old guy

Wow, who knew? This never occurred to me...

Good find. That's definitely him. I'm seeing him later this week. Not sure how interactive he is, so this is a fact-finding visit lol.

Jeremy also blogged for awhile -- really thoughtful and well written. https://jeremywalkerxxx.wordpress.com

LTL, Curious, others -- I'd want him as a boyfriend bottom. As posted above, I contacted him earlier this year when he was brand new and in response to my request he sincerely told me he wasn't sure he'd be a good bottom, as he hadn't done it much. I gather he's now more open to it, but wonder now about whether he kisses? Says he does but does this come off as mechanical too? Thx.

Wow, this thread has taken an interesting turn. Glad to see my trans kin getting action. Its not my thing at all, but when you think about it from the POV of a person who sees himself as bi, being attracted to trans persons makes al the sense in the world! Just my two cents of speculation, lol.

Adding to the mixed reviews of Ivan -- now "Evan" btw. Was in DC this week. His ad always catches my eye. Decided to give him a try despite the mixed reports here. Very easy responsive planning by text. An hour before date time he texted asking if we could push back 30 min. I said sure, no prob, he thanked me. And then...nothing. No show, no text, nothing. I actually fell asleep waiting, and woke up 45 min past the rescheduled time. So odd that I was a concerned something bad might have happened to him. Sent a last text and just more nothing. But he must be alive because he's back online lol. So pig piling on the buyer beware comments already here.

Amen on Mathianis. Very positive experience with him in the bottom bunk. Again, a little tentative at first as we figured each other out, but he delivered a great experience. Looks great in a distinctive, rather exotic way.

Wanted to post this thread from the Lounge here about increasing STD risk, because I now frequently find myself in some kind of situation with a service provider where there's an action, an offer or a request to dispense with condom use. It feels like the norm now, and that scares me -- partly because I'm tempted to go for it I guess. Anyway, data is collected here, accompanied by thoughtful discussion. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/new-record-high-std-sti-infection-rates-in-the-usa.140080/#post-1595931

So glad to see this forum being used to raise awareness of this increasing risk. I think it needs to spill over into the Deli. I've had several somewhat awkward conversations now with service providers who either ask me why I still want to use a condom or why I'm not on PrEP myself. Maybe its an over-reaction on my part, but in these conversations it feels like the expectation now is that condoms won't be used, and that's a big shift. That truly scares me -- for myself as well as others.

Thx, appreciate it...as always! Just made a date with Sean X for my next OC "sharing experiencer" , but will keep these suggestions for future consideration.

I met him in SF. Great, different, very interesting massage on the floor as I recall. But this was at least 15 years ago and he used the same pics then. In an ad in the B.A.R if I recall. THAT long ago!

Oh, and its clear that AJ Irons just tops now, or is his flexibility something I should explore with him? Vids like this tick a bunch of boxes, lol. http://www.myvidster.com/video/21448163/Pumping_Irons_full_version

Bumping this thread, as I'll be in OC for work quite a bit now too. I look for the jock bottom boyfriend type. A great experience with someone who delivers a responsive, enthusiastic time as a bottom trumps looks for me. Age not really an issue, though I gravitate to older over younger. With that said JimJim's ad is eye-catching. https://rentmen.eu/JimJim I know he's been discussed here before, with some controversy, but he seems to respond with a fair amount of candor, and has good recent reviews on RM. Anyone here with recent experience? Or others to suggest or should I be shopping in LA? Sean X looks like he'll be there when I am next so may need to pursue that opportunity, but it would be nice to find a kind of regular here. Thx guys.

I'm with you. No easy answer but think you did the right thing. Hopefully what goes around comes around for you.

Has a new pic up as of yesterday. https://rent.men/Basketballplayer

Don't think so -- main goal was to make the fairness point -- but if that's how it strikes you I guess everyone's free to draw their own conclusions.

That sucks

Very impressive rear view, I must say

Me too! I'd love to see some sense-making happen here. Four categories: Top, Bottom, Versatile, Ask Me. It would save both sides time. This doesn't seem to be an issue with Musc Chase though. Gold star for him being upfront about what he offers.

I had a very similar experience -- or deficit of experience I guess -- with Mitch about a year ago. Mitch, you've explained here how you do you, and I understand. But factor in the fact that when Harey, I or others hit non-responsiveness we don't chase. If I get silence, I take that as an answer and move on.

So... I'm one of the guys who pays the negotiated fee when I have to cancel on short notice. Not bragging about it, nor do I see it as an act of generosity. As a consultant I sell my time too, so for me this is a matter of respect. And karma -- I do onto others as I hope they'd do onto me and others. What goes around comes around. My schedule can hit the skids if I miss a plane or have a more than anticipated time-c0nsuming client. As a practical matter, it does help create some trust and willingness of the part of the escort to accommodate me in the future. Twice I've had guys decline the offer for payment because they appreciated the gesture, and then change their schedules for me. Doesn't always happen, but feels good when it does.

haven't seen THAT! but thx for bringing it to our attention. Appreciate it.

So this guy has been around awhile with very few reviews, but a couple positive ones on RM in the last year. https://rentmen.eu/muscchase I contacted him a couple years ago, got a way overzealous response. Wondering if I should reconsider. Anyone here seen him recently?

Wow - blackmail, assault, ripoffs -- I''d be cautious too. Great message, glad you posted.

Oh, and with respect to Alex, he and I have crossed paths in a couple off the beaten path places where work takes me, Charleston most recently. Scheduling didn't quite match, so we never got down to meeting planning. But if that were to happen again, based on info here, I'd be super direct upfront about what I am looking for and prepared to walk away if I couldn't get to the firm price + tip understanding going into the event. Usually I don't bring up tip in pre-planning. I think its a class act when the service provider doesn't either. And its more rewarding to me when I get to tip not because its expected but just to show appreciatioin because I had a terrific time. But with very transactional a la carte guys like Alex, if I were in a situation where I'd consider him again, I'd want him arriving at my door with base price settled and motivated by the clear idea of tip tied to service.