Moneymike68

Great responses guys! Being a sugar daddy is a bit more complicated than I originally thought... I think I'll stick to being a well tipping client for now.

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there's no need for escorts to come here and defend their rates to perfect strangers
 
if you price yourself high and can get it, go for it. it ain't for everyone and you just gotta figure out what suits you and who you see best

It isn't a bogus government statistic. It's a fact which, later in your post, you actually confirm. The inflation rate is an average of all consumer goods like housing, gas, products, etc. So while some things have seen an upside many things cost considerably less which is why inflation has stayed so stable. Unlike the late 1970s, when EVERYTHING was going up at the same time. So it's not bogus, not everything is some vast conspiracy to fool you.

Every escort (few) I have used with this rate have also had significantly reduced rates for hours after the 1st. Something to look for.

Every escort (few) I have used with this rate have also had significantly reduced rates for hours after the 1st. Something to look for.

I hate to admit this, but i feel 300 plus is too much for me. The guys i usually see are more like 200-250 that I've met a few years ago and who are ok with the "grandfathered" rate. One guy i've been seeing used to charge 200 and now he is on rentmen for 350. I feel for 350, i should be able to buy a nice pair of ferragamos (and those are now 500!). I used to pay for a nice pair of ferragamos for 250 many years ago. I guess it's inflation...

Absolutely- The quality of service is also pretty great with escorts who prefer longer appts. Can't say the same about escorts who have a higher rate :o

Absolutely- The quality of service is also pretty great with escorts who prefer longer appts. Can't say the same about escorts who have a higher rate :o

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Frequently a signal they prefer appts of 2hrs or more. For which the average hourly rate will often be in the 250 range. Or lower, for longer appts.

Every escort (few) I have used with this rate have also had significantly reduced rates for hours after the 1st. Something to look for.

300 per hour is my absolute limit in NYC, LA & DC. Less elsewhere.

For me kissing is one of the best and most intimate and sensual parts of sex and connection. It's rough for me when I have a client that doesn't like to kiss, and it is usually because they identify as straight and it's just too intimate from their perspective. In these cases though I love to get as close to their lips as possible and match breathes without actually touching lips. In regards to the "tonsil raping", I have to say, it's a turn off. I enjoy a decent amount of tounge when kissing, but when kissing becomes almost all tounge and no lips, I no longer enjoy it. Usually if it's my first appointment with a client I will give them a little of it, but will move to kissing their neck, ears, chest, or elsewhere because I just don't enjoy the excessive amount of tounge. The next time I see them I will ask them for a little more lip.
 
I understand that we all like different things, but it's important that we try and "read" our partner to understand what they enjoy and try and meet them half way. Most guys I've asked about this agree that kissing that's all tounge is not enjoyable for them.

I can't speak on behalf of all escorts, but I am like your friend.
 
I can't imagine sex without kissing. The spring that makes my dick hard is hidden somewhere in my lips. I kiss because I love it and if we meet I will want to kiss you. As my reviews can attest I am a great kisser and do it with gusto... unless, of course, you have bad breath.
 
Onions, coffee, garlic, any kind of food, cheeses, gastrointestinal problems, dental problems, badly affixed dental prosthesis, sinus and other infections. The reasons for bad breath are many, they sometimes are in our blind spot, which means that we may not even be able to think about correcting them. We don't know that we don't know that which we ignore, and therefore we have absolutely no desire to fix it.
 
And of course, the rule number one about bad breath is:
 
He who has bad breath (or bad overall hygiene) is always adamant he is fresh, clean, minty and delicious. You never know when you have bad breath.
 
If you are with me and I am not kissing you, you have bad breath. There is no mystery there. I will let you know, I will ask you to brush your teeth, I will give you mints. If you pretend to brush your teeth and come back and I still don't kiss you, it's because you have bad breath.
 
Believe me, I so wish you didn't, because the session would be so much more fun! It would be hotter and more exciting. I am not lying to avoid kissing you.. I WANT to kiss you. If I am not kissing you... you have bad breath.
 
A cut dick will be clean 95% of the times. Unless you have incredibly bad hygiene and haven't showered at all, sucking dick is an incredibly safer bet than kissing. It's not because it's more intimate, it's just less stinky.
 
Also, a dick will not force its tongue out, trying to stick it as wet and deep into your tonsils, as some people do. If you try to rape my tonsils, if you try to pass on gobs of saliva into my mouth, I will actually let you know that doesn't do it for me. If after ten attempts you keep trying to rape my throat while attempting to push back my face into yours, I will forget about "kissing" and will focus on your dick, or ass.
 
If you are an adult having sex, then you should have a support system. Find a friend to whom you can ask whether your breath smells often. Ask your dentist. Learn proper dental hygiene. Avoid bad breath causing foods and habits, especially before having sex. If you have a beard or moustache, trim it to human proportions and make sure it's impeccably clean, shampoo it carefully to erase smells, brush it to make sure theres nothing on it, Ask your partner if you notice hesitation on his part, and LISTEN to what he says. Don't slobber all over his face, thinking it sexy. Don't rape his throat. Don't force his face in place. Remember kissing is a two way language that requires listening, proposing, and negotiating. Notice when he recoils in horror, notice when he moans with pleasure.
 
If you do all this, I assure you, all good kissers will want to kiss you and won't be able to hold back.
 
And all of those who don't kiss... who gives a shit about them? Who cares!

Agreed! A shopping list is worse than tasteless.
 
But, I gotta say your comment about barbaric fucking gave me a boner I will have to deal with in a minute. Well done! It is a distinct and rare pleasure to be fucked with great skill and patience until I am utterly relaxed, slack, and groaning while the top goes into a total fuck frenzy.

You are a dream client. I'm available and my rates are reasonable.
 
But seriously, keep searching. Your fantasy can be fulfilled.

I have no plans to ever be a sugar daddy. As much as I like/love my friends and family, I have to have my large doses of alone time. I don't necessarily want someone dependent on me. Not at this time anyway.
 
My experiences somewhat echo what Jawja wrote. I get along exceptionally well with a small number of working guys and have hung around with them off the clock mainly platonically. I like being single... do what I want, when I want.
 
I must admit though, there are 2 working guys in particular that if they came to me and said let's give a serious relationship a go... I'd strongly considerate it. They both, at various times, hinted/said as much. I find that flattering and a huge ego boost, but I'm reluctant for many reasons.

I'm not relationally-oriented. I'm a happy single guy, so it's not too hard for me to move on. I think they were more nervous about moving on. I was easy for them, that is, until they got those lucrative job offers.....and never looked back. HAHA! But I say good for them. I wish them the best.
 
I had an early test in my hiring career of whether I'm vulnerable to "falling in love". I hired a handsome sexy guy often. I was 35. He was 32. We really clicked. Got along sensually and socially. Spent many nights together. Enjoyed each other's company. Often went shopping/dining/outings together off the clock, and no, I didn't pay for everything. He eventually moved to San Fran and returned to the corporate world from which he took a break. While I missed the convenience and compatibility of our time together, I was not wounded. If I was ever going to be tempted to fall in love with one of these guys, it would have been him. It did not happen.
 
I'm free.........to have fun.

Nice question. I offer myself on grindr and growl as a sugar daddy. I have some flexible money and I don't mind spending it on my enjoyment. Now while not exclusive, and I do wish there were more opportunities in my area, Ihave been seeing a certain person for 15 years; we travel together, spend nights together but I know it's a business arrangement. As I've mentioned previously, wish there were others around..

Interesting concept, I like it. Did you (or the escort) experience a sense of loss when it ended? I know the ending was built in, but I imagine you get to really like somebody and then it's all over. How did you deal with that?

I can think of 4 that have not been mentioned.
 
- Anthony Driller
 
- Karsin Knightly
 
- Gabriel Matthews
 
- Kieron Porter
 
~Boomer ~

My arrangements were college boys with a built in ending. They would graduate (hopefully), move on with life, possibly re-locate, enter the work force, etc. I provided a set monthly stipend for a certain number of days/nights per month. No exclusivity. Two of them posted ads and were hired by other clients; they gave me scheduling priority. The other collegian saw no other clients (as far as I know); he was satisfied with the stipend.
 
These arrangements worked well because of the character of the young men, which I vetted through several meetings/hiring situations before terms were offered and accepted. All three of them went way beyond the minimum requirements in terms of satisfaction, scheduling, and number of meetings. Each ended amicably. They moved on to professional careers, and my interaction/communication with them ended.
 
It's a privilege to help aspirational young men.

Shawn in Ft. L is a great escort. Very well built, masculine, and professional. He also has a great tool, and this is coming from a strict top! I love his skin, though he's a bit rough for my liking he gets the job done and does his job well! Unfortunately I've fallen out of contact with him- if someone could forward me his info I'd put him to good use.
 
I also can't get enough of my boy in miami, Miles; sweet, intelligent, and polite- but a total whore, for lack of a better term. If any of you happen to find his ad/ more reviews please pass them on to me. I believe his email is escortmiles@gmail.com or milesmiamies@gmail.com, either way he's well worth a try.