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I'd be more concerned about his apparent use of steroids.  

On 10/27/2021 at 1:24 PM, Epigonos said:

Damn this thread bring back all sorts of memories.  One escort I will NEVER forget and for whom I have the fondest of fondest memories is Josh Weston.  At the time I met Josh he was dancing at the Nob Hill in San Francisco.  He was recently out of the navy and his first Falcon video had not yet been released. Believe it or not he was very shy.  We met at Ruth's Chris Steak House for dinner.  He was intimidated by the atmosphere, and the prices. It took me sometime to convince him to order anything he wanted. After dinner we went back to my hotel for some fun and games.  He was drop dead gorgeous both in and out of his clothing.  He had skin that felt like satin and was the color of ivory.  His body reminded me of that of a gymnast.  In bed he was absolutely ravenous.  He kept thanking me for such a wonderful evening. 

Unfortunately, he is a prime example of how pornography can and frequently does destroy its participants.  He died too young, likely from the use of too many growth hormones. I miss him.

P.S. For an excellent vision of the young Josh Weston try and get a hold of the Falcon DVD “Deep South – The big, and the easy” Parts I and II

 

Maybe it contributed but he ultimately died of Aids. Also had a Meth addiction which can wreak havoc with an immune system all on it's own. 

Could be that he tried douching but things just weren't getting clean. Diarrhea comes to mind. It happens and if it ruins if for you then maybe butt play just isn't for you. There's always other things you can do though. 

47 minutes ago, Rod Hagen said:

I linked to his old reviews above.  Just click the word "brogan" in my original post above.

 

Wait, here you go, just click this.  That's why I mentioned the internet archive being your friend 🙂

https://web.archive.org/web/20050824173913/http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/broganla.html

 

Anyway, glad you had fun with him .  I think everyone who met Brogan enjoyed meeting him.  One of the special past escorts who to my memory had no naysayers nor controversy.   Just beautiful and fun and professional.

 

Wow. Goes back to 2001. I have a special affinity for that era. It was so different and it was right at the edge before technology changed everything. No smartphones and guys still advertised their services in the back of magazines. Plus, I was still considered a young man myself. Ok youngish.  Ha. 

2 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

Then he maybe should stick to Grindr. I didn’t place a want ad, he placed a “for lease per hour” ad.
And how dare you call me fat and saggy! It’s accurate, but…

I think you're confusing the into with willing to for the.. 💵

On 10/11/2021 at 5:35 PM, jeezifonly said:

His self description is Muscle Guy

He’s into: Muscle

Isn't that why guys build their bodies up. I'm pretty sure it's not to meet fat and saggy. 

3 hours ago, samhexum said:

I am a very heavy pot smoker (both in terms of my weight and the amount I smoke).  I'm investigating getting a couple of tooth implants and have been told by the oral surgeon that smoking is a big no-no, and the main reason implants fail. 

So I figured this would be a good time to try edibles for the first time.  My dealer brought me some last time I saw her.  There was one piece of chocolate, which did nothing for me, and all weekend long I've been trying the 'strawberry-shortcake'-flavored cocoa-covered cereal treats.  I'd take some, wait 2 hours, and when nothing happened (except my tinnitus becoming louder), take a larger piece.  Lather, rinse, repeat.  I know I have an enormous tolerance to marijuana at this point, but NOTHING?!?!?  It IS quite tasty, though, and I think anyone with little kids should make absolutely certain they can't find the stash, because they'd think it is some kind of candy.

My dealer says she'll try to get me some gummies to try.

Does anybody here have any suggestions as to what the most potent type of edible is?  Any other suggestions on the subject would also be appreciated.

BTW, I've never used any other drugs, and haven't had a drop of alcohol in 30+ years (and never even got tipsy in my life).

I can only go by my own experience but this is the last one I tried and it totally jacked me up. Tried it in the evening and woke up the next day still high. That was only 25 mg too! Smoking doesn't deliver anything near the potency of edibles. 

My biggest fear of falling from those heights is surviving to enjoy the pain and probably disablement for the rest of my life.  That's an amazing story though. That's a big time fall to survive. 

1 hour ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

Being kept is still being powerless.  It's someone else's money.

Being left major assets in a will...  Now that's having options.

 

 

I know a couple in their 70s from Newport Beach that imported a Brazilin boy to be with them. They have a very successful Real-Estate business and they're teaching him everything to eventually take it over. That's one kind option.

Yes he has to perform husband duties for guys old enough to be his grandpa but between that and the cruises and European trips it's not a bad trade off.  He'll be a multi millionaire before he hits 30. 

55 minutes ago, xyz48B said:

 

I didn’t realize Playboy magazine was still a thing. I wonder if they’re doing full nudity for him. 😈 They lost a lot of subscribers when they went to no full nudity.

Also. Good job at being inclusive or whatever. But their “readers” are, by many miles, straight men and maybe lesbians. Neither one of those groups want to see a dude, naked or not. It shows how desperate they are to be relevant. 

I thought most of their readers were long since dead but good on them. 

I remember doing it in the late 90s through the the early 2000s. No better feeling then taking your shirt off and being admired by a 1000 other hot and sweaty shirtless guys. Not to mention the amazing sex orgies of hotties afterwards in the morning hours. God we'd be glowing. Ok maybe that was the chemsex drugs. Lol

I've done the white party in palm springs 3 times. The last being 5 years ago. Way different though being sober. 🙄 You're back to being on the outside looking in.  Plus, the new over the hill age sure doesn't help getting those hottie orgy invites that I remember so fondly.  I could hear all the sex moaning all night through the thin hotel walls though.  😩 

Today I can't imagine doing that. You'd have to drag me to it. 

2 hours ago, BonVivant said:

Think: 20s or look like it; 4-8 pack abs; short cropped hair; wearing almost nothing and dancing and doing other things on the floor 😉. That is the atmosphere. 
 

if you want a good dance party or event go to an EDM set or techno set. It’s inclusive and welcoming. It’s about the music. 
 

circuit is sex + music. If you don’t fit the type the bois will make you cry. Very mean. 

circuit is sex + music + a shit ton of drugs.  Ok that was my circuit party days experience anyways. 😉 Maybe things have changed but I doubt it. Circuit boys love their umm..energy helpers. 😉

2 hours ago, JoeMendoza said:

I started hearing about the term last year but decided to actually look it up this afternoon to figure out what it is (or at least portrayed it is). Anybody here been in or frequent such parties? My idea of a fun time typically involves some nice spread with a nice cocktail or 3, but curious to hear people's perspectives on these parties. And based on my "thorough" research on YouTube, a majority of the guys that I see enjoying these parties are hot...so are these parties intended to only draw in a certain type of crowd (i.e., not for the insecure, chubby types)? Anybody have any steamy or just plain ridiculous stories you wanna recount here?

Yeah, if you're insecure about your body and you go there think of the movie mean girls. 

Wow.  That takes some giant cajones to charge you all that for a dinner, movie and a small amount of lame sex. He must be really hot though for you to even consider using him again after that.  

He's no different then the guys that abuse steroids and get worshipped by the muscle fetish queens here. Bigerexia is all the same thing. 

17 minutes ago, Fcfs said:

Mani and peni are prereqs. Two of my regulars, in their late teens, take them to the next level. One paints his finger nails black, the other multicolour. Love them both.

Teens and my regulars should never be in the same sentence. Damn. 

23 minutes ago, TumYum said:

So a recent encounter that was, at best, so so turn a sudden turn for the horrible when, as we were about to transact last minute business the escort said to me "We've gone 10 minutes over..." and when I asked what he wanted (my first mistake) he said that I should decide.

Without going into further details because that is not the most important part here, I was caught like the deer in the headlights. I acquiesced (please don't flame me, I didn't know what else to do), and my anger only grew as I took more time to reflect on what had just happened.

To add to it, the escort contacts me frequently to make small talk. 

Am I wrong to feel that I had been wronged? Additional info: the guy in question was not worth even the initially agreed upon fee and if we did go over time, it was probably because he wouldn't shut up.

 

Wow. That takes huge brass balls. I'm surprised he didn't use a timer.  It takes nickle and diming to a whole new level.

44 minutes ago, jjkrkwood said:

Eye jobs usually remove fatty pads that have formed in the orbital cavity or below the eyes..causing a droopy, closed off look.   Removing them and tightening the skin can restore a previous appearance... Only bad surgeons cant accomplish this, so do your homework ! 

Actually I have. Just removing the fat pads is old school technology. It can create an unnatural hollowed out look. It it's minor then filler or fat grafting can fix it. If it's more then fat repositioning and/or doing a mid cheek lift is the best way. It all deals with the cause instead of just the effects. 

2 hours ago, azdr0710 said:

eye jobs almost always look obvious to me....changes the appearance of the person to something they never looked like before......

Old school eye jobs are about removing stuff and that only changes you. If you want to restore yourself you have to add volume or lift the face up though. 

9 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

many gay men dislike and distrust other gay men. It's certainly an internalized homophobia I guess might have something to do with rejection, etc. 

There are laws in many states making a felony infecting someone with HIV, in other countries based on the Napoleonic code laws were applied about people who knew had diseases and engaged in close contact with others not concerned about infecting them. 

back to legal facts and not so much to feelings how could a judge determine the client was infected with HIV by the escort and not by someone else? 

Many people for sure, this was only one of his clients. Fortunately most of them used condoms and later on moved on to PrEP but we don't know. 

The fact that the OP is asking what to do instead of simply reporting and that we don't know where he lives makes us wonder if anything will come up out of this. 

Man jailed for life after deliberately infecting men with HIV | Crime | The Guardian

US: Michigan man who turned himself in for ‘deliberately’ infecting others, sentenced to 1.5 to four years | HIV Justice Network

 

Yes but there are cases like this one too. Even though they played safe and the "victim" never even acquired hiv he still got 25 years in prison for not disclosing. Of course it's a very red state where homophobia is high.  

https://www.cnn.com/2012/08/02/health/criminalizing-hiv/index.html

21 minutes ago, CuriousByNature said:

I'm not sure how this is considered as HIV stigmatization.  The issue isn't that the provider is HIV positive.  The issue is that the provider is a deceptive liar who is knowingly putting people at risk.  It doesn't matter if it HIV, tuberculosis, ebola or any other transmissible infection. Hell, in my book he is no different than Typhoid Mary.

Except Typhoid Mary could pass the virus off to anyone. Becoming infected with hiv takes two consenting adults or rape which I don't think happened. 

I've been on this site for many years and I've seen the stigma towards hiv people. Doesn't matter whether they're safe or not. Just the fact that they have it means they want nothing to do with them. You could try being a responsible adult though and just treat everyone as positive and act accordingly and not worry about who is and who isn't. Works for me. 

3 hours ago, bud001 said:

I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis, but as many others have said, as long as you keep up with medication you should be able to live a long and healthy life.

Second, although the provider has lied about his status, he might not be the vector as long as he is taking medication. Undetectable = Untransmittable, so if he kept up with his meds chances that he is the culprit is low. So while this is upsetting I think you should consider your other partners in terms of the source.

In some states, transmitting HIV is a crime, sometimes a felony (there are several news articles about this). The laws were written during the start of the AIDS crisis and they are almost always used to unfairly target gay men.

You know it's funny that other std's are equally bad. Say hepatitis B kills 884000 per year. Also HPV accounts for 43000 cancers per year. Yet no laws are made for transmitting the virus to others. I imagine if gay men were involved they'd change that over night. Also the more red the state is the more draconian the law is. 

4 hours ago, Lucky said:

Such a rude remark. A reminder on why we need a dislike icon.

How is that rude? Advertising "generous" seems to be common advice here. 

On 6/25/2021 at 7:59 AM, jjkrkwood said:

Hey, I think Madge looks "chiselled" and actually fine (facially), although AGE often will be revealed by hands and legs.  Unless she wears a floor lenght shroud, theres no concealing that she is as old as dust.....   But if she feels better with a New face,  who is it harming ?

Ha. You beat me to it. At least her neck looks alright. You'll see these tight filled faces and grandma corded out necks. 

11 hours ago, Lazarus said:

Yuck! Love the frosted hair. 🙄🙄🙄

Nice contrast with the over done tanned skin.