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RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Ryan was a pleasant surprise; I never expected to find anyone advertising there, let alone it being a great experience.  Massage skills B+ MT and HE from this former military man. He works out 6x a week. . .  today was his "chest day" at the gym, and man was I lucky! FYI - he has a full-time job and available in the evenings after 7:30 and weekends only.   

I just checked and was surprised the Madison, The power hotel in DC is in the low $200s. The Dupont Circle Hotel, actually on the circle, is the standard preferred hotel of people who know and about $270. Both in the center of a beautiful monied gayborhood with a couple dozen gay bars and gay cafes in a few blocks. Hundreds of great restaurants and bakeries all walkable. Up from the White House, close to many museums, the Kennedy Center and Georgetown. A $10 Uber to the otherwise boring museum area of the Mall/Federal Triangle. The Tabard Inn and the Windsor Inn are small charming townhouse hotels around $160 to $200 in the same gayish area of $3-$4 million townhouses. (Georgetown's nice too but keeps hotels out).  Hard to go wrong with the Dupont Circle Hotel and the Madison Hotel is really nice. For chains, the Washington Hilton is nice as are the Courtyard and Marriott west of the White House at the entrance to Georgetown. 
 

I once asked for both - a release at the start and another at the end with a build up for the second in between. It was a longer massage, like 90 minutes. Very nice.
it is always a good idea to have a discussion about what you want.

I would suggest "Ease of scheduling an appointment" or "Response time to first inquiry" or something to rate the responsiveness of the masseur to serious inquiries.

You are most welcome!  Thank you for posting this comment!
One more proof of how useful it is to warn the forum about swindlers who don't deliver what they promise. Especially when they change their name or ad.
It is so frustrating to go through the trouble of texting back and forth to make an appointment, then be excited about it, only to realize that it was all a total waste of time and money. It ruins your day, or more.
PS For some reason, more of them are coming to southwest & central FL 🙂, watch out for this guy, another bad experience:  https://rentmasseur.com/EuroSem

We all naturally have different priorities and preferences when getting a massage. I'd love to hear about yours and your favorite masseurs that check all your boxes.
Here are my requirements for a fabulous experience:
- Competent masseur who knows what he is doing and delivers a thorough, very good to excellent massage that doesn't neglect the glutes.
- He is at least somewhat hot, gets naked, is OK with being touched during the massage, and is fine with giving you a HE if all indications are that you'd enjoy it 🙂. I am not grabby and don't want or expect things to get sexual, although I don't mind it if the chemistry is really good. I just want to feel comfortable and on a level playing field being naked myself.
- He is reasonably fluent in English, able to communicate clearly and politely, responds to you within reasonable time, and charges less than $200 an hour.
Yes, they exist, I've encountered at least four over the last 6 months. Maybe I am forgetting someone, I'll be sure to add them if they come to mind. 
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That Rob is very much hit-or-miss in terms of availability. I hired him twice last year and was really very pleased, but haven't done so again in several months so maybe his availability has changed?
Thumbs down on this Rob -- a good first experience but a decidedly NOT good second one. Chatted with another guy here about him and he had a similar experience:
Male Massage by Rob Montana - massage/bodywork in Washington, DC - masseurfinder
WWW.MASSEURFINDER.COM Excellent legit massages here:
Sports Massage by Dmitrii - massage/bodywork in Arlington, VA - masseurfinder
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Energy Massage by Stefano - massage/bodywork in Washington, DC - masseurfinder
WWW.MASSEURFINDER.COM A great legit/sensual/erotic massage here and a very nice guy, but I had to give him up after a couple of sessions. His work was VERY deep which I found uncomfortable:
Massage Rejuvenation by Paul - massage/bodywork in Washington, DC - masseurfinder
WWW.MASSEURFINDER.COM This my go-to. Super-nice guy, great massage, nice combo of legit/sensual/erotic:
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Massage by Jeff - massage/bodywork in Washington, DC - masseurfinder
WWW.MASSEURFINDER.COM I've used Jeff several times when I travelled to DC for work.  Nice friendly guy - great space and if memory is correct you can shower there too.  Good skills and left relaxed and happy.
 

I unlocked his private pix.  He's a very handsome guy 😋

With the release of IPB 4.7.7, there has been an overhaul of the gallery.  
https://www.companyofmen.org/gallery
If you've enjoyed our legacy gallery forum, I would highly encourage you to check out the full gallery application!  
Gallery Homepage Revamp
The gallery homepage has been revamped to better highlights featured and new images.  It also brings recent image comments in to focus to promote discussion.
Better Video Support
Since our move to Invision two years ago, members could upload videos.  However browser support has varied wildly and this has sometimes resulted in a poor experience where viewers were prompted to download plugins or forced to download the video in its entirety.  Any videos uploaded into the gallery will AUTOMATICALLY converted to MP4 format so that it can be played on any computer or mobile device and users can skip ahead without needing to download the entire file.  
In addition, frames from the video can be extracted for the preview thumbnail automatically. You can still upload a separate preview image however if you want, but historically most people have skipped this step.  Now by default one will be created for you automatically if you don't do it yourself. 
NSFW Flagging
We realize people may not wish to view more explicit images as they may view the site from semi-public places.  With 4.7.7, images uploaded into the gallery can be marked with a "NSFW" flag which will provide a notice to the user so they can choose to view it.  With this initial release, none of the existing images have this tag.  What I want to do is work on a way to set this to be default within the private members only gallery and to allow users to have a preference to toggle the NSFW flag on/off for all gallery images.  That will have to come later as I need to do some extra development for it outside of Invision itself.  
 

Shout out to JJ_NYC!
JJ_NYC, Erotic & Therapeutic Gay Massage in Manhattan, NY (rentmasseur.com)
He was responsive and communicated consistently from time or booking to the day of massage.
Massage skills A+ Plus everything you'd hope for in a sensual massage (MT & HE.) I will be a repeat.

My first erotic massage experience was about two years ago. I used to go to a male asian massage spot in the west village. One day I called to make a reservation with my regular guy and when the owner answered, he told me that my regular guy didn’t work there anymore but that he (the owner) would give me my massage at a discount. At the time the spa required that the clients and the masseurs kept our masks on so I didn’t get a great look at his face but I could tell that he was very muscular and in his early-mid 30s. He gave a really great massage with lots of stretching (including at one point, putting me into a seated position on the table, standing behind me, and putting me in a half-Nelson to help crack my back) and deep tissue work, which I loved, and the HE was pretty standard. After that first session with him, he gave me his personal number so I can reach out to him directly instead of just calling the spa, and he was flexible with keeping the building open later to meet with me due to my work schedule not usually lining up with their operating hours. 
 
A few months later the spa ended up closing down, but the owner texted me and told me that if I ever wanted a massage, I could go to his apartment and he’d massage me there. It was the first time I’d ever gotten a massage anywhere except for a spa so I was really nervous, but having met with him a few times I felt certain it wouldn’t be anything nefarious. He asked that I take a COVID test before I went since I’d be going into his home, and once I showed him my negative result and he showed me his, he said we could take our masks off. It was the first time I got to see how handsome he was in addition to having a very sexy build. 
 
We started off with him giving me a light rubdown in his shower, then we wrapped ourselves in towels and went into the bedroom where he had the massage table set up. The first part of the massage was pretty typical of my massages with him - excellent deep pressure, lots of stretching - with a bit more focus on my inner thighs and butt than usual, but nothing I felt was crossing the line beyond what I considered inappropriate. When I flipped over I saw that he’d removed his towel and put on a jockstrap that perfectly framed his butt, but before I could get a great look he put a hand towel over my eyes. He then proceeded to continue the massage as usual, and after starting the HE, I suddenly felt him take me into his mouth. After about a minute of this he stops, takes the rag off my eyes, and guides me from the massage table to the bed, where we spent over an hour enjoying each other. What had originally been a request for a 90 minute massage turned into a 3 hour experience that I’ll never forget. When we were done I remarked that that was a first for me, and he said that it was for him too but he was glad that my regular masseur stopped working at the spa so that he was able to connect with me. 
 
I saw him regularly (and exclusively) for several more months until he moved across the country to live with his sister. After he left I went looking to recreate the magic with a new provider and that’s how I came across masseurfinder, then rentmasseur, and eventually this forum. 

Definitely one of the most skilled masseurs out there, that special top 1% and joins my all time favorites. Very articulate and friendly too. I asked for erotic, and he mixed in sensual elements and did my glutes with gusto, which is a must for me. I also love it that he got naked during the massage without me asking. I wasn't grabby while face down, the touching intensified once I turned over, nothing sexual but very sensual, just the way I like it. Add to that very favorable pricing for 90 minutes, and it's a clear repeat whenever I get a chance. The only negative is that he has put on a couple of pounds, but he is still very handsome in my book.
 

Happy to provide a review Kylane: NaturalTouchLMT, Erotic & Therapeutic Gay Massage in Washington, DC (rentmasseur.com)
Superb penthouse-floor massage space (dimly lit, light fragrance from infused oils) in a stunning new building in NE DC.
Great massage skills and touch - slow, medium pressure Swedish style strokes!
MT/HE, very reasonably priced. Will repeat for sure!  

The latest from the blokes at Melbourne Muscular Therapies 🍑
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Several years ago I went to a Thai Spa for a massage.  I was asked the duration I desired, 30, 60 or 90 minutes and if I wanted a female, male or ladyboy to massage me.  Chose the 60 minute with a male and was led to the room and told to get comfortable.  I undressed and got onto the table, which was a standard massage table with the padded hole for my face at the head of the table.  Soon my masseur came into the room and began the massage.  He oiled my back and I enjoyed his firm hands massaging my back, strong hands.  He worked my back and neck, then my arms and legs and feet.  After my feet he moved to the top of the table and began rubbing my back from my neck down and as his hands moved down he gently allowed his crotch to touch the top of my head.  After doing this for some time (and it was hard to tell if he was hard) he moved to the other end of the table and began rubbing my legs up and down.  He then climbed on the end of the table and began rubbing from my butt to my neck and as he did that he allowed he would rub his crotch against my ass cheeks.  One of my first experiences and my mind is going crazy wondering how far this will go.  He then moved to the side of the table and was rubbing my back and now he was moving his crotch against my hand.  I could feel something, so I moved the position of my hand and began rubbing his growing cock through his pants.  At that point he asked me to turn over.  No hiding the excitement between my legs when I laid face up.  He began rubbing my stomach and thighs and made the JO motion with his hand.  I nodded yes and he began stroking my hard cock.  I was rubbing his cock through his pants and motioned for him to remove his pants.  He did and there stood a beautiful hard cock that was there for my enjoyment.  Excited beyond about what was happening it was over way too soon.  And so began my addiction to erotic massages.

I would say that asking such a question up front before even meeting with the masseur is a clear sign that you are seeking more than a massage.

My go-to masseur in Fort Lauderdale retired a few years ago.  He had strong hands, good massage technique, and worked the erotic changes like a master,  integrating erotic touch and more throughout the massage.  If you know someone like this in the Fort Lauderdale area, please shoot me a private message with details.
I do look through the postings here, but the information is usually too skimpy to make a judgment.  I've often been disappointed.
Thanks in advance.

Masseurfinder gives a provider the option to take his ad down temporarily and put it back up when he is ready to resume accepting appointments again, and many masseurs use that feature when they are unavailable or not operating their massage business for whatever reason. I am assuming that you created yourself a "user profile" on MF? If so, once Luke's profile is up and running again, save him to your Favorites list. This way, his profile will automatically populate in your Favorites list when he turns his profile back to a "live" mode and you will know when you can reach out to him to book an appointment. 

Who do you recommend instead?  

One of my favorite sounds…

As this discussion (and many, many similar discussions in the past) demonstrate, there simply is no rule when it comes to sensual/erotic massages.  As someone uncomfortable in situations where expectations are not clear,  it took me a while to accommodate to the ambiguities.  But I now relish not knowing in advance exactly how things are going to develop.
I never bring up explicit sexual expectations in a first conversation, although I do ask whether the masseur works in the nude.   Over the years I have experienced pretty much everything at one time or another during a massage, only once with an upcharge.  In that case, the masseur took advantage of my aroused condition to offer something for an additional fee; I agreed and regretted it afterwards...it was a distinctly lackluster experience.  
Bottom line: no matter how much advice you get here, you will not know exactly what's going to happen in advance.  Just jump in with some recommended guys.  After your first few experiences, you'll get the hang of it.  Good luck and have fun!

Absolutely at the discretion of the masseur.
A blowjob crosses the line from masseur to prostitution so as Jamie21 mentioned you are crossing into legal matters when you start paying someone for sexual favors.
My advice is to do less planning and go with the flow. Book your happy ending massage.
See how your provider approaches the happy ending on his own, and if you like this person, discuss afterwards if there are other menu options that they might be interested in providing for the next time.

He's definitely Top 2 for me. Have always snagged a session with him on his way through town. I don't think he's for everyone but let me go through the positives:
- Always has his table, seemingly professional-level massage.
- I love beards and a nice bit of hair, so he checks that box. Also, amazing set of tattoos all over. Definitely isn't cookie-cutter attractive, but if you're into that low-key, granola-loving alternative, outdoorsy vibe, he grows on you. 
- His personality is also not conventional, and definitely not a gym jock, athletic type. I find him quite smart and once talking, we've had deep, far-ranging discussions on topics that probably don't come up often on a massage table. 
- I've seen him personally shower, so not sure where that idea comes from.
I say give it a shot. Just relax and be yourself, and he should respond in-kind.