PedroThreeTimes

The problem underlying all of this is inflation, which has increased 25 percent since 2021. So, guys who raised their rates from $300 to $350-$400 over the past couple of years are adjusting for inflation. And the inflation we've had has impacted housing and food the most. And inflation is hitting big cities, making them more expensive to live in and visit. And since inflation is affecting all of us, our purchasing power is lessened. So the guys raising their rates in response to inflation are dealing with clients who feel like our money isn't going as far as it used to. It's a regrettable situation but it's not necessarily greed. 

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New-ish provider here that recently learned about the forum:
I created my account after a regular at my home strip club made me aware of a post discussing me, someone saying they met me off Grindr before I was on RM, saying that he did not believe that story, as he was saying I can’t get an erection and could only bottom. There is no way this story is true, I do not recall any session where I could not get hard and most of my clients look for me to top them in fact. On top of that, I believe I was not was not even in the USA during the timeframe of that supposed meeting.
At first I thought about commenting there myself, but it felt tacky to “defend myself” as a new provider who no one ever heard about unless they are around New England nightlife, so I didn’t, just sent him a DM asking about it (which he did not answer so far). I hope customers who met me before share their own experiences meeting me, as it feels more genuine.
Anyway, glad to have heard about this forum, hope I can meet you guys soon in person 👁️🫦👁️

Honestly, I would really appreciate it, I am super sensitive under the foreskin, if the blowjob is teethy it is hard to keep it going for a while without it going down, no matter who it is 

Honestly, I would guess most providers don’t give much thought to that section of the profile, I see many other profiles with all selected or none selected.
Another thought I had is: the more you select, the less you highlight, like, should I select everything I am into since this is a feature for the filters or should I select only a few of them that I would want to highlight, like “Kissing”, so customers know that it I am a provider that kiss?
I ultimately decided for the first option, but I think most boys don’t overthink that much, so I would advise to not give it that much attention when hiring.
If you really want to know, you can always ask, but honestly, I don’t really understand when clients introduce themselves with their pictures, age, or any other characteristics of them, that’s not a valid reason for me to decline service. Me personally prefer when a client approaches me and tells me what they are looking for right away, what matters the most to me is to know what will satisfy the client, hope more providers can share as well what is their preferred approach when hiring.

Roasting as in like, talking shit about their appearances and stuff.
It is actually not uncommon for erotic photographers hire providers and either do “trade work” or even pay to model, IMO, it is inappropriate to ask it as a provider. While I see suggesting activities to do in a session ok, they should be at least adjacent to what you know the client likes to do.

Well, photographers have always touched me too to adjust or check if I need fluffing, usually not, being photographed gets me super horny 😛

I have ended up fucking every single photographer I have worked with.

Well, besides the eccentric guy that hired me to literally scratch my back for literally an hour and then ate the the skin rolls (love him btw, sorry, I’m a stripper with a heart) there was this one guy who legit left me speechless.
He wanted me to try some different speedos and was very particular about the texture of the fabric on them, until then, ok, just a slightly unconventional day at the office, but nothing to get any traction of me. We then go downstairs, and he has a box full of pictures of his dead relatives and a shredder, and he asks me to jerk off, roast them, and shred them. I have never seen such a raging boner without any touching or physical stimulation involved in my life, he said it was hot and he was glad they are dead because they were super racist to Hispanics and even more to gay Hispanics. Was a very fun session, I even said that was ok we were going overtime when he asked about the time. Lowkey looking forward for him to book me again, we actually got to vibe and got a nice chemistry together.
The best part of all of it is that I’m not even Hispanic 🥸

Honestly, I would guess most providers don’t give much thought to that section of the profile, I see many other profiles with all selected or none selected.
Another thought I had is: the more you select, the less you highlight, like, should I select everything I am into since this is a feature for the filters or should I select only a few of them that I would want to highlight, like “Kissing”, so customers know that it I am a provider that kiss?
I ultimately decided for the first option, but I think most boys don’t overthink that much, so I would advise to not give it that much attention when hiring.
If you really want to know, you can always ask, but honestly, I don’t really understand when clients introduce themselves with their pictures, age, or any other characteristics of them, that’s not a valid reason for me to decline service. Me personally prefer when a client approaches me and tells me what they are looking for right away, what matters the most to me is to know what will satisfy the client, hope more providers can share as well what is their preferred approach when hiring.

Yaa. I like the feeling of them being my real boyfriend, chilling, chatting, cuddling, kissing, having sex...in a way that's emotional. When i said that, they reacted as if it were something very strange.

Well, besides the eccentric guy that hired me to literally scratch my back for literally an hour and then ate the the skin rolls (love him btw, sorry, I’m a stripper with a heart) there was this one guy who legit left me speechless.
He wanted me to try some different speedos and was very particular about the texture of the fabric on them, until then, ok, just a slightly unconventional day at the office, but nothing to get any traction of me. We then go downstairs, and he has a box full of pictures of his dead relatives and a shredder, and he asks me to jerk off, roast them, and shred them. I have never seen such a raging boner without any touching or physical stimulation involved in my life, he said it was hot and he was glad they are dead because they were super racist to Hispanics and even more to gay Hispanics. Was a very fun session, I even said that was ok we were going overtime when he asked about the time. Lowkey looking forward for him to book me again, we actually got to vibe and got a nice chemistry together.
The best part of all of it is that I’m not even Hispanic 🥸

I honestly, gushed from reading this template message as opposed to the usual “rates?”

I saw a guys profile the other day and he gave advice as to how to reach out and I thought it was fantastic - Short, simple, polite, and serious!
Hello, my name is (Desired name) 
I’m in (Desired City) and i would like to get together with you (Desired date and time) 
I’m interested in ( Desired information)
I can almost guarantee that you will get a good reply if you use this template with a solid provider. I think a good general rule is = you get the same energy back you put into the message.

Honestly, I would guess most providers don’t give much thought to that section of the profile, I see many other profiles with all selected or none selected.
Another thought I had is: the more you select, the less you highlight, like, should I select everything I am into since this is a feature for the filters or should I select only a few of them that I would want to highlight, like “Kissing”, so customers know that it I am a provider that kiss?
I ultimately decided for the first option, but I think most boys don’t overthink that much, so I would advise to not give it that much attention when hiring.
If you really want to know, you can always ask, but honestly, I don’t really understand when clients introduce themselves with their pictures, age, or any other characteristics of them, that’s not a valid reason for me to decline service. Me personally prefer when a client approaches me and tells me what they are looking for right away, what matters the most to me is to know what will satisfy the client, hope more providers can share as well what is their preferred approach when hiring.

Yeah, don't select everything. I tend to not believe that when I see it. I especially love when "straight" providers select everything.
Kissing is indeed one you should check off though if you're into it as I love to kiss for instance and will usually skip over a provider's ad pretty quick if they don't have that listed.

Honestly, I would guess most providers don’t give much thought to that section of the profile, I see many other profiles with all selected or none selected.
Another thought I had is: the more you select, the less you highlight, like, should I select everything I am into since this is a feature for the filters or should I select only a few of them that I would want to highlight, like “Kissing”, so customers know that it I am a provider that kiss?
I ultimately decided for the first option, but I think most boys don’t overthink that much, so I would advise to not give it that much attention when hiring.
If you really want to know, you can always ask, but honestly, I don’t really understand when clients introduce themselves with their pictures, age, or any other characteristics of them, that’s not a valid reason for me to decline service. Me personally prefer when a client approaches me and tells me what they are looking for right away, what matters the most to me is to know what will satisfy the client, hope more providers can share as well what is their preferred approach when hiring.

Honestly, I would guess most providers don’t give much thought to that section of the profile, I see many other profiles with all selected or none selected.
Another thought I had is: the more you select, the less you highlight, like, should I select everything I am into since this is a feature for the filters or should I select only a few of them that I would want to highlight, like “Kissing”, so customers know that it I am a provider that kiss?
I ultimately decided for the first option, but I think most boys don’t overthink that much, so I would advise to not give it that much attention when hiring.
If you really want to know, you can always ask, but honestly, I don’t really understand when clients introduce themselves with their pictures, age, or any other characteristics of them, that’s not a valid reason for me to decline service. Me personally prefer when a client approaches me and tells me what they are looking for right away, what matters the most to me is to know what will satisfy the client, hope more providers can share as well what is their preferred approach when hiring.

Honestly, I would guess most providers don’t give much thought to that section of the profile, I see many other profiles with all selected or none selected.
Another thought I had is: the more you select, the less you highlight, like, should I select everything I am into since this is a feature for the filters or should I select only a few of them that I would want to highlight, like “Kissing”, so customers know that it I am a provider that kiss?
I ultimately decided for the first option, but I think most boys don’t overthink that much, so I would advise to not give it that much attention when hiring.
If you really want to know, you can always ask, but honestly, I don’t really understand when clients introduce themselves with their pictures, age, or any other characteristics of them, that’s not a valid reason for me to decline service. Me personally prefer when a client approaches me and tells me what they are looking for right away, what matters the most to me is to know what will satisfy the client, hope more providers can share as well what is their preferred approach when hiring.

Honestly, I would guess most providers don’t give much thought to that section of the profile, I see many other profiles with all selected or none selected.
Another thought I had is: the more you select, the less you highlight, like, should I select everything I am into since this is a feature for the filters or should I select only a few of them that I would want to highlight, like “Kissing”, so customers know that it I am a provider that kiss?
I ultimately decided for the first option, but I think most boys don’t overthink that much, so I would advise to not give it that much attention when hiring.
If you really want to know, you can always ask, but honestly, I don’t really understand when clients introduce themselves with their pictures, age, or any other characteristics of them, that’s not a valid reason for me to decline service. Me personally prefer when a client approaches me and tells me what they are looking for right away, what matters the most to me is to know what will satisfy the client, hope more providers can share as well what is their preferred approach when hiring.

Well, besides the eccentric guy that hired me to literally scratch my back for literally an hour and then ate the the skin rolls (love him btw, sorry, I’m a stripper with a heart) there was this one guy who legit left me speechless.
He wanted me to try some different speedos and was very particular about the texture of the fabric on them, until then, ok, just a slightly unconventional day at the office, but nothing to get any traction of me. We then go downstairs, and he has a box full of pictures of his dead relatives and a shredder, and he asks me to jerk off, roast them, and shred them. I have never seen such a raging boner without any touching or physical stimulation involved in my life, he said it was hot and he was glad they are dead because they were super racist to Hispanics and even more to gay Hispanics. Was a very fun session, I even said that was ok we were going overtime when he asked about the time. Lowkey looking forward for him to book me again, we actually got to vibe and got a nice chemistry together.
The best part of all of it is that I’m not even Hispanic 🥸

Well, besides the eccentric guy that hired me to literally scratch my back for literally an hour and then ate the the skin rolls (love him btw, sorry, I’m a stripper with a heart) there was this one guy who legit left me speechless.
He wanted me to try some different speedos and was very particular about the texture of the fabric on them, until then, ok, just a slightly unconventional day at the office, but nothing to get any traction of me. We then go downstairs, and he has a box full of pictures of his dead relatives and a shredder, and he asks me to jerk off, roast them, and shred them. I have never seen such a raging boner without any touching or physical stimulation involved in my life, he said it was hot and he was glad they are dead because they were super racist to Hispanics and even more to gay Hispanics. Was a very fun session, I even said that was ok we were going overtime when he asked about the time. Lowkey looking forward for him to book me again, we actually got to vibe and got a nice chemistry together.
The best part of all of it is that I’m not even Hispanic 🥸

Well, besides the eccentric guy that hired me to literally scratch my back for literally an hour and then ate the the skin rolls (love him btw, sorry, I’m a stripper with a heart) there was this one guy who legit left me speechless.
He wanted me to try some different speedos and was very particular about the texture of the fabric on them, until then, ok, just a slightly unconventional day at the office, but nothing to get any traction of me. We then go downstairs, and he has a box full of pictures of his dead relatives and a shredder, and he asks me to jerk off, roast them, and shred them. I have never seen such a raging boner without any touching or physical stimulation involved in my life, he said it was hot and he was glad they are dead because they were super racist to Hispanics and even more to gay Hispanics. Was a very fun session, I even said that was ok we were going overtime when he asked about the time. Lowkey looking forward for him to book me again, we actually got to vibe and got a nice chemistry together.
The best part of all of it is that I’m not even Hispanic 🥸

Well, besides the eccentric guy that hired me to literally scratch my back for literally an hour and then ate the the skin rolls (love him btw, sorry, I’m a stripper with a heart) there was this one guy who legit left me speechless.
He wanted me to try some different speedos and was very particular about the texture of the fabric on them, until then, ok, just a slightly unconventional day at the office, but nothing to get any traction of me. We then go downstairs, and he has a box full of pictures of his dead relatives and a shredder, and he asks me to jerk off, roast them, and shred them. I have never seen such a raging boner without any touching or physical stimulation involved in my life, he said it was hot and he was glad they are dead because they were super racist to Hispanics and even more to gay Hispanics. Was a very fun session, I even said that was ok we were going overtime when he asked about the time. Lowkey looking forward for him to book me again, we actually got to vibe and got a nice chemistry together.
The best part of all of it is that I’m not even Hispanic 🥸

Well, besides the eccentric guy that hired me to literally scratch my back for literally an hour and then ate the the skin rolls (love him btw, sorry, I’m a stripper with a heart) there was this one guy who legit left me speechless.
He wanted me to try some different speedos and was very particular about the texture of the fabric on them, until then, ok, just a slightly unconventional day at the office, but nothing to get any traction of me. We then go downstairs, and he has a box full of pictures of his dead relatives and a shredder, and he asks me to jerk off, roast them, and shred them. I have never seen such a raging boner without any touching or physical stimulation involved in my life, he said it was hot and he was glad they are dead because they were super racist to Hispanics and even more to gay Hispanics. Was a very fun session, I even said that was ok we were going overtime when he asked about the time. Lowkey looking forward for him to book me again, we actually got to vibe and got a nice chemistry together.
The best part of all of it is that I’m not even Hispanic 🥸