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  1. I think he has mostly advertised as a masseur, but I do recall him briefly having an ad on either Rentboy or Rentmen.

     

    I hired him a few times. Very good looking, good massage, nice personality. The only reason I didn't keep hiring him is that he cut my last appointment short because he had other plans, and that didn't sit well with me.

  2. Like I say, I could be wrong. But his glans looks disproportionately small, as if he's had girth enhancing injections or an implant.

     

    His penis looks natural to me. I'm also a ginger and my dick is shaped like that when hard -- more girth at the base than the tip.

  3. I haven't followed the reporting of this case that closely, but earlier this week one of the frat brothers or pledges was trying to portray himself as some sort of hero because he was apparently the lone voice of reason that they needed to call 911. That didn't impress me. What he should have done is not just tell others that that was the right thing to do and then NOT do it because of peer pressure. He should have actually made the call because he knew it was the only moral way to respond to the situation at hand. Sure, it probably makes him slightly less culpable than the others involved, but only slightly.

  4. Confession: I have photos on my computer of almost every guy I've hired. I do this mostly so I can remember whether I've hired someone and the experience wasn't memorable or was bad, but also sometimes so I can look at a guy's photos and reminisce.

     

    I have two folders of guys named John. One of them I don't remember anything about. I don't remember where the other guy lived, but upon looking at his photos I remember my appointments with him being somewhat like what you described. Was he a lean guy with a little hair on his chest and a bald/shaved head?

  5. Bullshit.

     

    +1. I came out when I was in high school in the 1970s in a small town. I had a difficult time accepting I was gay because I knew of society's general negative attitude towards homosexuality, but I never tried to "leave homosexuality." I even refused to go to the prom with a female friend (who turned out to be a lesbian) and refused to give a New Year's Eve kiss to a young woman during my freshman year at college because, from a very young age, I knew that I never wanted to pretend to be heterosexual.

  6. Wow indeed! Despite the underlying obnoxious behavior - the honesty is almost refreshing. But, I am sorry you had to waste your time jeepo.

     

    I agree that I at least appreciate his honesty in canceling the appointment. I have been "stood up" a number of times and I think that's way more obnoxious than an escort calling a prospective client to cancel, regardless of the reason. Sure, it might make me reluctant to book him in the future but I definitely wouldn't book someone who simply didn't show up and didn't have the courtesy to cancel. At least with a cancellation, the client has more opportunity to took for someone else.

  7. I wouldn't pay $500 per hour for anyone unless I had a lot more disposable cash. But in terms of playing this fantasy game, and sticking to gay porn performers I would choose any number of Sean Cody performers (particularly Stu, Blake, Jess, and Tanner) or Corbin Fisher's Quinn; and the straight porn performer George Uhl. In terms of mainstream performers, I would choose Taylor Lautner or any of a number of other men whose names aren't coming to me right now.

  8. There is a world of difference between ordering medication online where you know it has an active ingredient (take Viagra, get an erection) versus one where you can only hope that it contains the proper amount of the active ingredients. Unless you have a way to analyze the pills at home to be sure what they contain, why would anyone want to risk ordering PrEP online?

  9. Of course there are "rules."

     

    If you're defining the term as 'precepts that apply to all people at all times in all circumstances,' then no. But that would be a problematic definition. The rules may vary from venue to venue, provider to provider but they exist within those venues and amongst those providers even if not reduced to writing. Just because some choose not to acknowledge or follow them doesn't mean they don't exist. Generally speaking, I'd characterize them as flowing from respect for boundaries and rates.

     

    For instance, Burke Williams has rules. Although there are exceptions and perhaps some guys in this thread alone have gotten their full service swerve on at a BW location, a masseur who does so is jeopardizing his job and the member his membership in the process. Even The Zone sex club here in L.A. (not to mention other such places I've either heard of or been to) has rules--violate them and you can be ejected and banned.

     

    Closer to what we're discussing here regarding the "private sector," many providers have rules regarding what they do (and don't do) and for what rate. I think, speaking as both an escort and client, it's important to respect those "rules." IMO it's a form of disrespect to cite a full service experience one received from a different provider as a supposed rationale for why a provider who is declining to do the same with you should change his mind/practices/rates.

     

    I haven't seen anyone suggest that just because masseur X had full-on sex with client Y that client Y then expected any other masseur to do the same thing. This is simply a discussion where some clients have described situations where, for whatever reason, the masseurs have ended up having sex with them. It almost sounds like you are trying to argue that that should never happen, and I get your point if you're talking about masseurs who work in a spa or other business where there are rules. But guys advertising erotic massages and then performing them in their own apartments or in their clients' apartments? The only "rules" about what that massage will entail are those of that specific masseur and that specific client.

  10. Both are good but totally different styles/body types. Pan is more therapeutic and Chad sensual all the way.

    PM me if you wanna know more.

     

    Funny how different people can have different experiences. My experience with Pan was sensual but not particularly therapeutic. This was years ago so maybe his set-up is better now, but I basically got a light bodyrub on a thin futon on the floor followed by a nice body-to-body rub. Chad definitely had massage skills and the table to go along with them. The massage also turned more erotic towards the end.

     

    I agree that their body types are totally different -- or at least they were when I hired them both a few years ago. Chad is less than average in height and has a tight, compact, slightly muscled physique (and a cute-as-a-button face and charming demeanor). Pan is much more muscular.

     

    I wouldn't discourage anyone from hiring either of them, but if I were to choose to return to one of them my choice would be Chad.

  11. Maybe I should be ashamed to admit it, but I have a soft spot for Ryan. I was predisposed to not like him after the Olympics 4 years ago, but then I watched his short-lived reality TV show. I found out that he was both the relatively immature, frat-boy party animal that was his public persona and a young man who cared about his family and friends and who actually treated the women he was dating with respect. I was expecting him to be just a dumb jock whose only purpose outside of sports was to get laid, but he came across as a nice, thoughtful guy. Not the brightest bulb in the bunch, but not stupid, either. I know -- reality TV isn't reality, so I don't know what he's like in real life. I'm not excusing lying about being robbed, but I do think the truth is probably somewhere in the middle of the swimmers' stories and those being put forth by the Brazilians involved in the incident.

  12. But he is also super-hard to get an appointment with, or even to show up. I had a confirmed appointment with him last year (I even sent him a photo and of course my hotel info), and he just blew it off. No notice, just did not show, did not return emails or text messages. (Naturally, I did not persist after a couple of text messages and an email.)

     

    Tryp is a bit of a mystery: Does he not need the income? Is this a hobby? Is he incredibly picky?

     

    If you filter Palm Springs ads to show only those who include PNP (party and play aka using drugs while having sex), Tryp's ad is included. I don't know the guy so I don't know anything about him, but I find that men who "party" tend to be unreliable in general.

  13. I don't find the sort of boarding announcement quoted above to be annoying. What's annoying are passengers who insist on bringing aboard as much junk as they are allowed, and then not having the common sense to actually have their bags ready to put overhead as soon as they reach their seat rows. Anyone who needs to open said bag to get things out of or put things inside of a bag while standing in the aisle is inconsiderate; sadly, there are always at least few passengers like this on every flight.

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