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Odd that someone would downvote me simply saying I've never had sex with a woman. I didn't put a value judgment on those who have had sex with a woman. Is it wrong to be a "Kinsey 6" and to have known that about oneself from such a young age that one never had the urge to connect sexually with the opposite sex? Back to the subject of this thread, I can contribute this: I have never eaten canned tuna. I have always been so repulsed by the smell that I have never eaten tasted it. I would go to bed hungry instead of eating the tuna noodle casserole my stepmother made.

Had sex with a woman.

Something is either wrong with the provider or you misunderstood him when you thought he said not to pay him. I would also stop responding to this specific provider, but I would suggest this going forward: Unless you are okay with just paying guys to hang out (either paying a multiple of an hourly rate or negotiating a rate for a longer time period), make sure you initiate whatever activity you want to happen earlier in the session. It doesn't make sense to argue whose responsibility it is to make sure a session that's planned to only last an hour only lasts an hour; if that's your agreement at the beginning then you know you have a finite amount of time, so get the ball rolling earlier. Don't run the risk of creating a confusing situation where not much has happened after 60 minutes and the guy doesn't know you want him to stay around longer for free, for extra compensation, or perhaps you really just want him to leave because you aren't feeling a connection but don't have a nerve to say it.

As an example of someone whose looks faded during his thirties, look at Prince William. When he and Harry were young men, I certainly thought William was the cuter of the two. Somehow, however, William has fairly rapidly progressed into looking more like his father while Prince Harry looks better now than he did when he was younger. I don't think it's diet, exercise, or any other factor they can control in this case; it's just genetic, even though they share the same gene pool. I will admit that my assessment is heavily biased in the sense that I don't like balding men who don't know how to get their hair cut (or perhaps even their head shaved) to make the best of what they have. William's hair cut does him no favors. But I don't think I'm reacting just to hair. William's face has just aged in a way that his brother's hasn't, as if William's aging is controlled more by his dad's side of the family whereas Harry's is controlled by his mom's.

There's obviously not a single answer to this question, and I'm a bit surprised to find so many here who think that somehow once someone is too old to be a twink then he must be less desirable. Not everyone favors the twink look. Some twinks become twunks and then graduate into hot men in their late 20s and beyond. Some twinks look older than their years relatively quickly, presumably due to hard living/unhealthy habits. I'm sure that for some, their looks do fade. It is interesting that some men who are really cute when they are younger aren't so attractive as they age while other men preserve their good looks for decades.

I hired a guy once who apparently had serious incest fantasies, though they weren't mentioned in his ad. In person, however, once we got going he started talking about daddy/son stuff in explicit detail. I told him to stop because the more he got into it the less turned on I was.

I'm not a fan of lending money to family or friends. I'm in the camp that says if you can afford to give a gift, then do that instead of lending money. I don't think I'd be too happy to have a "provider" reach out to me to ask for a loan, but if I felt close enough to the guy I might gift him some money. Someone I barely know in Mexico benefited from my generosity a few times earlier this year. He didn't reach out to me. I am friends on Facebook with him after spending a fair amount of time in a small bar he runs. He is a nice guy and, apparently, an animal lover given what he posts. He had rescued a horribly neglected kitten and was getting it food and medicine despite being unemployed due to the pandemic. I reached out to him and told him I wanted to help him a bit since I knew times were tough and he was incurring extra expenses rescuing the kitten. He was appreciative. I am far from wealthy, but still working and could afford to send him money a few times. I don't expect anything in return (I don't even know when I will be back to Mexico to see him), but it felt good knowing that I helped someone get through a tough time.

Waif-like? That doesn't describe Alam.

Well, at least your taste is consistent. The first photo was used just a few months ago in an ad under the name LukasDozzi. You also asked about that guy and got no replies. I don't know anything about the guy, but if I was considering hiring him I would gently ask why he changed his name, especially since that's generally a red flag for me unless someone is changing their name from something that isn't really a name (HungTop) to something that people could actually say in public without people reacting (Lukas or Will, for example).

It really does sound like one of those guys who tries to squeeze in as many appointments as possible. On the one hand, in today's environment I can understand the need to maximize one's business. The way to go about that is not to schedule a bunch of appointments into a slot of time that cannot possibly accommodate for providing a good massage, clean up between clients, and travel time, if the masseur is doing out as well as incalls. Reminds me of a massage I booked once years ago that I probably posted about here before: I arrived at the masseur's location a few minutes early, so I texted him that I could walk around until our appointment time or come up early if he was ready. He told me to wait. At our appointment time, I texted him again and he told me he still needed a few minutes and to wait. I saw someone who may have been a client leave his building and then he texted me that he was ready. As I entered his apartment, he was on the phone with someone arranging an appointment for only 30 minutes later. After he hung up, I told him I was leaving because it was obvious he wasn't serious about providing a good massage if he was telling someone to arrive only 30 minutes after my session was going to begin. He started arguing with me as I left and I called him a con artist and kept walking. It would have been bad enough had he been scheduling someone for exactly 60 minutes after my time was supposed to begin, especially since we were already going to be starting 10 minutes late. But to tell someone to arrive in a half hour just told me that he was planning to do a rub & tug in the hopes that I would get off quickly and he could send me on my way.

After years of waiting too long for my primary care doctor too many times, I switched doctors. I could understand running late sometimes -- after all, he was associated with a hospital and wasn't part of an HMO so I assume at times emergencies interfered with his schedule -- but he was late almost every appointment and one time sauntered into his office 45 minutes after my appointment time holding a cup of coffee and his dry cleaning. A masseur really has no excuse for not being on time. Massage isn't an emergency service so a provider should be able to set a schedule for himself that he can honor.

Madonna not getting the credit she deserves? I'd say that most people interested in popular music recognized her position at the top of the heap (along with a select few others) during the 1980s and 1990s. She was definitely recognized as a trend setter (even if some of those trends were actually things she just brought out from an underground scene, such as voguing).

Men can obviously father children in their teens, so I don't think the term "daddy" should be connected with whether someone is of an age at which they could be a father. I've seen guys in their mid to late twenties using the term daddy. Maybe for them it has more to do with personality than age. For me, I don't really think anyone can properly be called a "daddy type" until at least his forties. By late forties/early fifties, that's definitely daddy territory even though in real life that might be the age at which some men become grandfathers.

I don't get the concept, either. Paying $10 or more per month to watch someone's sexual exploits seems fair to me, especially since I know that the guys I'm watching are being watched by a lot of other people who are also paying. It isn't like they are creating content just for me.

I wonder what others' thinking is on the various Asian spa massage videos -- the ones where a guy enters a business, interacts with one or more guys whose faces are blurred at a front desk, and then enters an area where there are curtains separating different massage areas. On the one hand, I've been around enough that I know that most porn that's pretending to be either hidden camera or even just casual encounters where the participants both know recording is happening is staged. And, to some extent, I have a difficult time believing that a spa would have cameras set up to record encounters like this and then sell them or even distribute them for free, generally not blurring the clients' faces but almost always obscuring the providers' faces. Then again, if these sessions are from another country (and given the blurring of the penetration shots I assume they are), maybe the laws in those countries are different or maybe the producers simply think they can get away with this because the clients are unlikely to discover their massage session where they ended up getting fucked is available online. At any rate, I know I've enjoyed my sessions with men I hired for erotic massages that ended up progressing to full-on sex so I know that definitely happens. I hope I was never recorded by anyone, but I would think that if I was and discovered that for sale online I could require the seller to stop distributing it since I never signed a model release and could sue for damages if they refused. Of course, once the cat's out of the bag there's no putting it back in, so even a video available for a short time online can resurface again and again as people share it on various video sharing platforms. Even with the blurring and less than great camera angles I find these videos hot, probably because they do remind me of some of my own experiences.

I also remember that on at least one occasion, Austin posted a photo of the alleged client. That's really where he crossed the line for me since if someone was just a time waster contacting escorts with no intention of keeping appointments, there's also no reason to believe that that person used his own photos when setting up an appointment. So someone using Google image search might find Austin's post stating that the person in the photo contacted him to hire him as an escort and then flaked on the appointment when it very well might be that the person in the photo had nothing to do with it and, furthermore, doesn't even realize there's a post on the internet somewhere defaming him. Given how easy it is to spoof phone numbers, too, it's difficult to justify posting a phone number of an alleged time waster, too. I understand the frustration of both providers and clients with respect to time wasters, but I don't think Austin's way of handling this was reasonable.

His name on Rentmen is back to Daniel Narssi. Red flag for me that he would do so many name changes in such a short period of time.

Now listed in Las Vegas under the current Eduardo_massage name, though because he indicated his home base is San Francisco, he showed up this morning when I searched for masseurs in San Francisco on rentmasseur. Funny thing is that I have never seen his ad before and I regularly look for masseurs in my area, so when someone advertises that he is based here but traveling elsewhere I can immediately flag that as b.s.

Stu's Instagram isn't hard to find. Just Google search Stu + Sean Cody + Bodybuilder and his name will be among the first few search results. I have to say that he's still quite a handsome man, even though I preferred him in his pre-bodybuilder days since I generally don't like the look of guys who are as bulked up as he is now. Scrolling through his IG, though, he clearly still has that winning smile in some photographs.

A big "yes" to Anthony Moore.

I didn't find any previous discussion about Daymmgood or Healinghand, but JessThai has been discussed a few times. Here's one of the most recent ones. https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-on-jessethai.122312/#post-1749971

I scrolled through a dozen or so pages of that mugshots website. I know it shows arrests/mugshots, not necessarily convictions, but I would still steer clear of someone with a rap sheet that includes violence and/or theft.

I agree that young Hakan Serbes was quite the looker. I watched a few of his DP scenes with Nacho Vidal recently and it was interesting to see the chemistry between the two of them....more than once touching each other, and at the end of some scenes looking in each other's eyes with excitement. Definitely the most homoerotic straight scenes I've seen. For those who haven't seen any of these scenes, they are not bi scenes -- the guys don't kiss, suck each other, jerk each other off, etc. But in most straight porn with one female and more than one male the males have very little to do with one another. The connection between Nacho and Hakan in these scenes is quite out of the ordinary for straight porn. Makes me wonder if there wasn't at least some bit of sexual chemistry between the two of them.

As far as I know, that streetcar is in San Francisco and is used on the F-line (well, it was before the pandemic). I'm not sure, but with so much of San Francisco's transit system still shut down the F-line could very well being using motor coaches at this time.

The image "cutie pie" creates in my mind is someone younger and less inked than this guy is. It would think "stud" or "hunk" is a more apt term for a man like this, assuming one finds him attractive.