Summerson

Here are a couple of new fun folks who'll be joining us in April for the first time. They're both going to be staying with me at Inndulge, but are looking forward to making all kinds of new connections. Bode Brentwood will be arriving on Friday and Louie  will arrive on Thursday. They'll both likely post in this thread with more info later, but they asked me to drop their links today since I had the time. They're both great guys. Feel free to reach out to them directly.  

Here are a couple of new fun folks who'll be joining us in April for the first time. They're both going to be staying with me at Inndulge, but are looking forward to making all kinds of new connections. Bode Brentwood will be arriving on Friday and Louie  will arrive on Thursday. They'll both likely post in this thread with more info later, but they asked me to drop their links today since I had the time. They're both great guys. Feel free to reach out to them directly.  

Here are a couple of new fun folks who'll be joining us in April for the first time. They're both going to be staying with me at Inndulge, but are looking forward to making all kinds of new connections. Bode Brentwood will be arriving on Friday and Louie  will arrive on Thursday. They'll both likely post in this thread with more info later, but they asked me to drop their links today since I had the time. They're both great guys. Feel free to reach out to them directly.  

as usual, I'll be offering various very casual morning outings this year......look over my thoughts below and, if even vaguely interested, contact me here in the forum via the message system......I plan to be in the Coachella valley area from late Wednesday the 10th to early Wednesday the 17th and will think of something for most of those mornings, scheduling, of course, around standing forum weekend events.......I can pick up and drop off anybody in the central Palm Springs area until my vehicle is full!......
Sunnylands Center And Gardens - this is a free, non-reservation area of the sprawling Walter Annenberg estate......longer for-fee tours of the estate and house are also available, but I won't be doing that.....  https://sunnylands.org/visit-the-gardens/
Whitewater Preserve -  last year, heavy runoff from the Mt. San Gorgonio area (southern California's highest mountain) prevented us from hiking much here....this year, we'll try again for a very bright and sunny out-and-back stroll on the world-famous Pacific Crest Trail (very gradual incline) and spend some time in the preserve area itself, remarkably cooler than down in the Palm Springs area.... https://wildlandsconservancy.org/preserves/whitewater    
Indian Canyons - on the lands of the Agua Caliente band of the Cahuilla Indians, this very popular close-in area includes easy-moderate hikes to rare stands of native palms and waterfalls along running creeks in rugged desert canyons....may try for an easy ranger-led hike if our scheduling allows....$12 or $7 for seniors (62).....  https://www.indian-canyons.com/indian_canyons 
other suggestions welcome!.....
 



 

I know we will not get a complete list but I am encouraging any escorts planning on coming to Palm Springs for the yearly weekend, to post here or in the travel section.  It will be a big help to those of us thinking about a close in counter of the 69 kind.  

I'll be there! Though due to a work commitment with my day job, I won't be arriving until Saturday evening after the dinner. But I'll be sticking around until Tuesday.

What you are describing is "a regular." I agree with everything others have said on this. I'll add that another advantage of having a regular thing is it allows a continuation of exploration. Like, "next time I'd like to try ______" or "next time could you bring ______?"
Having a regular thing going with an escort is not unlike having a regular business relationship in other trades. Yes, you're friendly, and you sincerely enjoy seeing each other when business brings you together. Maybe it even drifts towards a friendship, but otherwise it's the "professional relationship" you mention. Just this week for my day job I had a Zoom with a vendor whose contract was up for renewal, and when we got on screen we were both truly pleased to see each other after nearly a year of only being in touch occasionally by email. Then there are the baristas, barbers, trainers, etc etc... people who we know well enough to be greeted by name, and while not friends in the conventional sense there is still a friendly relationship.
Of course it's in the interest of business to have regular clients, escorts included, so I'll say I'm biased! But I see the advantage to both parties. Most of my clients are regulars, and it's nice to just get a text that says "come on over" and we pick up where we left off last time.

This (providers asking other providers about me) happens fairly often and I actually welcome it. I understand and respect the value you (and many others) place on discretion. I guess at 57 I'm considered a longtime member of the kink community and communicating about other players (both good and bad) within that community is pretty much a norm. For me, the positives far outweigh any negatives because some of the providers I've most enjoyed time with only reached out to me after they'd had some verification that I was trustworthy and treat people well. Those opened doors have led/continued to lead to some really fun times, but that's just my situation.  
There was one instance, nine or ten years ago, when I was living in NYC and a provider who I'd contacted but hadn't yet seen decided I was law enforcement because I hadn't gotten back to him as quickly as he wished. He shared this suspicion with a few folks, some of whom knew me and thought it was hilarious. Given my personal feelings about cops, I was briefly horrified until I realized nobody else took him seriously. A provider I try and see whenever I get back east still teases me about it to this day. 

I may be in the minority on this but I systematically offer the Uber, especially with a new hire. It sends the signal that I’m serious. It also lets me know when the provider is actually on his way and gives me a real-time estimate of when he’ll arrive. All for an extra $20-30 which is not much really.
The only thing I don’t like about it is when a provider tells me he’s ready for the pickup but isn’t and makes the driver wait. I don’t appreciate having my Uber rating dinged.