Yes. Take him to lunch and explain to him just like you did above. What with all the "new fangled" (thanks Grandpa) communication devices and platforms, there are plenty of ways to have a misunderstanding. Plus, it's worth your effort. Friends are hard to find at our age. Good luck.
With friends like these......
Really that's about the rudest thing I've ever heard. Didn't cancel 'cause they wanted free medical advice? Good Lord. I have to go wash my hands now just thinking about her.
Yea, that would really get my goat. I hate it when a provider tries to upsell me like I'm renting a car. "For two hundred more you can get leather!" Once had a guy tell me I'd have to pay an extra fifty if I sucked HIS. Gimme a break! If you want the guy to get neeked, ask him to get neeked. Otherwise move on. Life is too short.
Yep. You are paying for it. Don't ever forget that. But......it is possible to develop something a bit more. It takes a ton of work on your part, a good sense of humor, and a huge forgiving attitude. Lots of good thoughts herein.
I've been called a great client. I've been called a bad client. I have evolved from good to bad, or bad to good, in some of my longer relationships. I don't make too much of it. It's mostly about chemistry, anyway.
Since you like emoji's, I'll provide one for you, rather than yelling at you about your comment "hahaha" regarding bi people" ?. I did have another one chosen, but I would probably have gotten a time out. It had one erect middle finger.
Not to be too "pollyana" about it. But.....If you love your lover and you think you might be able at some point to forgive him for this flaw........then you stay. Besides, racism is learned behavior. It (theoretically) can be unlearned. Perhaps he will become more educated. Maybe you can help him along. You can't change him. You might be able to help him learn something new. Won't be easy. Takes lots of patience on your part.
I am reminded of a line from a Don Henley song. "When you find somebody to love you better hang on tooth and nail...." I think I'd stay. See where things go.
Loved the silly guy in the tower? "The tower! The tower! Rapunzel!" "Did I leave the iron on?" "How 'bout Mr. Rogers?" "Antie Em! It's a twister!" What was his name? Johnny?