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I wonder if he'll do a foursome with you, John Butcher and John Candle Stick Maker.

A lot of stuff these days is being written by AI. Drives me crazy as well.

Agreed. Find someone you really want to have sex with. Preferably someone with an average size penis. Use some anal ease cream or anything with Lidocane. Lube up with that stuff. Another good product is (don't laugh) Preparation H Cooling Gel. It has pnenylephrine in it, which loosens or reduces swelling in tissue. It really helps me. And relax. And tell the guy you're nervous or tense. Let him (if he will) tease you with a finger, then another. And it may hurt somewhat at first. But hang in there. Breathe deep. It gets better. Fantasize that you're giving yourself to this guy. Keep breathing deep. Make it as romantic as possible, whatever position is most desirable for you. Sometimes both being on your sides reduces the initial soreness. After all that if it's still not fun for you, accept the bitter truth. You're a total top.

Oh what a nice looking man.

@ANotAMouse, definitely report the incident to RM. I found them most helpful when a fellow tried to scam me. Of course take the advice you've been given here. Guarantee you it's going to be ok. He wanted to scare you, make you worry, make you uncomfortable. In that he has succeeded. But that needs to be done now. You are going to be OK. And live and learn. Chalk it up as a tough lesson. This is a great hobby, but none of us can afford to be careless. Remember this is a business transaction. Treat it as carefully as you would any other event or experience where you are trading your hard earned money for goods and services. And go get some exercise. You'll feel much better.

I found Ryan to be courteous and polite, IMHO.

Thank goodness none of these fellows were coaching in Las Vegas last week. You'd never get them away from the "all you can eat" buffets!

Now that the Super Bowl is over and KC has won yet again, it's worth noting that Chiefs QB Patrick Mahommes has only lost three playoff games in his career: He lost twice to the former GOAT Tom Brady (once in the Super Bowl and once in the AFC Championship). The third loss came at the hands of that Oh so very fine gentleman on the left: The Gorgeous and multi talented Joe Burrow. As President of the CoM unofficial fan club, I am delighted to observe that this fact just makes Joe Cool even more adorable.

He just makes me melt. SIGH! INDEED!!!!!

I agree that it was very weird.

I love the pics where the pose opens them up just a little bit. So sexy.

Thanks, @Simon Suraci for the response and offer to hook me up with some other guys who frequent the Tin Room. I am encouraged that some other folks enjoy the scene. I was a frequent visitor of the wonderful but sadly now closed Swinging Richard's in Atlanta. It was so much fun and I really miss that place. Great memories though! Perhaps I'll saddle up and go visit our Dallas club a few more times. Straight guys are fine in those places if they make an effort, which most of them usually do. Anyway, for now I'll just go solo. We miss you in Dallas.

Yea, I probably overreacted here. My apologies. And thank you @Whitman for all the pictures you post. I appreciate your time and effort, and enjoy them very much.

On second thought, Brock Purdy looks more like Howdy Doody than Lee Harvey Oswald.

How did you find the Tin Room? Everytime I've been it's been disappointing. Would love to hear somebody had a good time. Maybe I need to go on a different day.

Am becoming a fan of boyish faced Brock Purdy. Hope he wins tomorrow, though I doubt SF can hang with KC. Mahommes is just too good.

Gonna be a long show. The video with Mary J. Blige and U2 singing their song "One" is really awesome, IMHO.

Can't believe all these KIDS are over 18. As a website and community we should be more careful, IMHO.

Watched a few youtube videos of the Von Erichs. Geez Kevin Von Erich was a good looking man! Brought back pleasant high school memories.

Wow you're off on an adventure for sure. I bet you can find a willing partner that will meet most of your requirements. Fair warning though. This little hobby of ours is kinda addictive. Bet you can't eat just one. Anyway, have a great time.

But they are sooooo cute!

I love Jhonny. Decent massage, but the next part is wonderful. Such a sweetie!

OK I'll bite: Funny he doesn't look Greek. But it's nice of him to reach out to the community when he doesn't need the money. 😁

Me too. Cutest doctor I've ever had. It's a wonder I don't "spring to life" in his presence. Don't know if he enjoys treating me, but I surely love it.

Hey @APPLE1, thanks for all the advice. Still working on my starter; it is not really strong enough to make my bread rise sufficiently. But I'm kinda hooked, so I'll keep plugging away hoping to get it right.