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DERRIK

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  1. from step one - "powerless and unmanageable"

    does one do an activitiy that make his life powerless and unmanageable?

    if I drink and wreck my car several times - get arrested several times - injure others - is my life unmanageable

    if I look at porn at night - stay up late - oversleep next morning - late for work repeatedly --powerless and unmanageable?

    if I buy lottery tickets every day and fail to pay my rent cause I am broke --  powerless and unmanageable?

    if I smoke pot and end up failing to go to work repeatedly -- powerless and unmanageable

    most men can drink, porn, whore, bet, smoke and NOT make their lives powerless and unmanageable

  2. 4 hours ago, tassojunior said:

    +1 Southern guys. #1 for me was always Birmingham with it's muscle boys with angel faces playing pool 24/7 at the Quest and looking for dates. I hear Al's, also famous for trade, is re-opened in southside. The Patio in Columbus Georgia is probably closed. Was full of Ft. Benning trade as is around many southern military bases.

    btw- the oldest existing gay bar in the US is Lafiete in Exile in New Orleans which started serving liquor in 1933 officially. Tito's in Birmingham was also a gay speakeasy throughout prohibition when B'ham was the south's largest city with many Italian immigrants. Sadly it closed. 

    Financial and business urban centers have the same guys or look-alike clones. Often because the same guys move between them. I've lived in DC most of my life and run into guys from bars here in bars in NY and LA and London. Either traveling or moved for work between offices. A few locals filter into these financial centers but mostly it's the same mobile social class. 

     

     

  3. Doing business today is tough for both sides (seller/buyer)

    it seems the best practice is to make it easy to buy/sell

    20 questions on either side make it NOT easy

    For the most part - I reach out to providers on here - its easy for me to vet them and vise versa

    I do business on the web - it's my sole source of income - while my service is complicated to complete - I try to make things as simple as possible up front - I quote a price upfront and don't invoice until I've completed the service

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