big-n-tall

I don't know the inner workings of Rentmen, but maybe he created an account and kept it hidden until he was ready to commit to escorting.

Well considering he joined RM a few months ago, you probably won't get an answer. He may be too new for anyone on the forum to have met him. I always thought he would be a lot of fun in bed (judging by his professional and homemade vids). I think he may scare some people off (who have purely vanilla interests) with his emphasis on kink in his ad. I'm not so much into kink, but I meet up with him in a heartbeat if I could.

Major points for the Death Becomes Her reference... "Siempre viva!!!" Oh and +1 for the other stuff.

I agree with what the previous posters wrote. Is it ok to be friends with an escort or masseur? Absolutely. However, the escort or masseur has to be open to it. You can’t force a relationship no matter how much you want it or think you click with the other person. Compared to the number of working guys I’ve seen, a small number have become genuine friends. With some of them, we clicked on the first meeting, others it took a bit more time.

I have not met him yet, but I contacted him about his rates. I'll be in San Diego later in the year. He was quick to respond. He asked a few questions in which we discovered we have a good number of nonsexual interests in common. Which further led to an extended conversation via text. I'm looking forward to meeting him in the near future. For reference he has done porn for various sites. His most recent stint was for Chaosmen. I think he also did a scene or 2 for Corbin Fisher. I'm certain he worked for another studio.

I have never been asked for my full name, at least not up front. I would never give out my full name/info for someone during the first contact. Well, unless someone I saw regularly and trusted, gave the other guy a glowing "nuclear level" referral. Over time, most of the guys I see regularly (save for a very few) know my full name. On the flip side, the only time I asked for an escort's full real name from the get-go is when I had to buy a plane ticket for them. That is only a small number though. Again over time and in some cases within a few minutes of contact/meeting, some working guys told me their full names.

I saw him a couple times when first started to promote on rentboy. He was never cocky or arrogant with me and extremely sweet. Hell we used to communicate back and forth via text for awhile about random stuff. However, I haven’t seen him in years and people can change. His rate definitely did. I think he is the owner or party owner of the site rentboys.us... or at least he used to be. Maybe he decided that’s were he’ll advertise only.

He retired from escorting some years ago.

Why thank you sir!!! Twernt nothin’.

His RM ad is still up. https://rentmen.eu/XanderCage/ He logged in two days ago. I assume he still eascorts. Did you try contacting him and inquiring about his services?

All of those pictures are not of the same guy. What you see in those pics may not be what you get if and when you meet. He has been talked about on the board frequently. He appears to be a member of the forum (name unknown) and when he gets negative press of any sort, he'll change his ad name.

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Wait... I thought @Caddy33 was @tristanbaldwin's best buddy. I'm so confused. Just kissing... I mean kidding.

Yeah, but... before yesterday the last time he logged on was like April 27. I don’t know about you, but I think most people who had a severe injury and in a lot of pain after isn’t thinking, “Hey, let me alter my profile for other people’s convenience.” Lol! I think he is just now going through his messages. Anyway, that’s all I’m going to say on the subject matter.

I don't know when you tried to contact him, but at the tail end of April, he was badly injured. The last few weeks he's been in enough pain that responding to messages is/was the last thing on his mind. He's pretty much out of commission for May. I'm not sure when he'll start seeing clients again. It really depends on how fast he recuperates. Be patient, he will respond at some point I'm sure.

Well seeing as most don't list on RM, there are two other ways to know. I mean they don't wear signs saying, "I escort." Your options are... 1) Find someone (on the forum) who has met one of the dancers for a "private performance" and get a recommendation. The problem with this is the dancers regularly change their appearance schedule. The dancer you find info about from a forum member may not be dancing when you go. The best thing is... 2) You have to go to the event. Find a guy that interests you, chat him up, and politely ask. Some of the guys are more popular than others, so asking each would be difficult indeed.

There is previous forum chatter on Fabio and Dario if you do a search. I haven't met but Dario gets raves from some forum members (with a couple detractors). One caveat, not all those pictures in his ad are him.

I can tell you, by looking at the online roster, that some of them had escort ads at on point. Now whether they were full service, muscle worship, or a combo of the two, I can't say. Some of the guys don't advertise but if you chat them up in person, some of them may be willing to do a "private performance."

His ad comes and goes. Next time it pops up, if it pops... get the number and save it for occasions like this.

Yes, he was an amazing bottom. He seemed a little bit reserved at first, but once I started kissing and working over that butt... the passion was on level 10!!! Sad he is a top only now. Someone should inquire. Maybe he's still open to it.

No experience, but I've been watching his ad. I sent him a text today inquiring about his rates. I haven't received a response yet. ADDENDUM: He got back to me. He quoted me his rate 300 per hour, 1500 overnight. I may see him in a few weeks. If I do, I'll submit a review.

From my understanding, he only sees regulars and may only meet someone new if one of those regulars recommends the new person.

I am pretty certain he hasn’t ever advertised on RM. There was a rentboy ad that used his pics but no one spoke out or verified if it was him. However, I know he does see people. I don’t know how often though. I have never physically met him... yet, but we have cammed, he’s made vids for me and I’m in regular communication with him. Please no one ask me his info. I’m not giving out his contact since it’s not readily available. Lol! I will say I first got in touch with him through Tim’s Adonis Lounge emails. Actually I got in contact with a few guys that way. Tim use to sometimes list the performers emails when they were available for private performances. Ken Ott was advertising on one of the masseur sites.

Well the Chaosmen site pegs (no pun intended) him at 5 feet, 9 inches. The ad states he’s 5’11”. So I guessing it might not be him.

Well when I asked about bringing him to my area he implied he wasn’t up for it. So I offered a secondary location in California which he was agreeable to. He is obviously new to this and testing the waters. He’s already changed his name, altered his ad copy, reduced the things he is into. I contacted him not long after he posted his ad and he quoted me $300 an hour. Some others (who seemed to ask after me) he gave a higher quote of $500 or more and another he gave a range depending on what the client and he does. Maybe he decided he can make more if he travels. However, when I asked, he wasn’t up to traveling cross country.