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Max is a great guy. He was very affectionate with me, if that’s what you’re into. Although I think he can adapt to any scene. Honestly if he lived closer, I’d see him regularly. We’re already planning a weekend together probably early next year. Sadly scheduling (on my end) makes it difficult to see him sooner.

I have met him twice so far. The last time being in late August. He looks exacly like his pics. Very handsome and amazing smile. Amazing body with beautiful smooth skin. He also has nice feet and really nice butt. His body felt great. He is very kind and open. I didn't feel he was shy the first time or the subsequent time we met. I had a great time all around. I'm not a massage aficionado. I've only started to really get into them recently. In my limited experience the massage was very good. I asked him for medium pressure. I did the extended spa erotic massage treatment.

Another provider I should mention is Alec. He was so kind, sweet, and very very sexual. 😛

He's only been a member on RM since Sept 6. So the odds someone on the forum has met him is probably low. If he were in my area I'd take one for the team, but alas he's hundreds of miles away.

Although I think some people are better at emotional compartmentalization, on some level, long term client/provider relations develop some type of bond. On the rare occasion, I think it can happen in the short term too. Some people just click together. Although I know the op started this topic about clients becoming emotionally attached, it does swing the other way too… with providers getting attached as well. Can emotional attachment be a problem? Sure it can. However, I think it’s only when that bond is one sided or used to abuse, control, or manipulate either side. In my experience, I don’t necessarily seek attachment, friendship, etc., but it has happened a decent number of times. I’ve become friends with providers I used to hire and some I still do. Some have come and gone. Yet others, I’m certain, will be life long friends. We talk and see each other on and off the clock. Some have since retired, semi-retired or are still heavily involved in escorting. I love them platonically and it seems to be reciprocated. Hell, one of the ones who has retired has become a doctor. He and I travel together. We have 3 trips planned before the year comes to a close. The great thing about him is my kindness toward him (when he was doing porn and escorting) is being repaid in kind. He sometimes will pay for my portion of a trip because he says I helped him emotionally, academically (helped him study), and sometimes financially through medical school when he felt like giving up. I understand keeping the emotional side out of this business, but if the emotional attachment is respectful and mutual. I don’t see a problem. Now if there is stalking involved… that’s a horse of a different color.

Well I sent him a message a couple days ago. No response. Two issues. First, his ad appears to be gone now. Secondly, when the ad was up, the last date it listed he was on was in May. Mintboys is notorious for having guys on the site that are no longer available. So either he got what he wanted me from the site. Possibly a quick buck. Or maybe he didn't like the responses or clientele he was getting. Who knows, but he had to have taken it down himself. Ads from that site rarely disappear. Sad because I always hoped he'd escort ever since I noticed him in porn a few years back. Now all I need is Nico Coopa to make an ad somewhere. LOL!

Absolutely agree. Great all around. I didn't know about the crises he had but he was definitely hard to pin down. However, he was so good when we met. He is probably the only provider I overlooked the flakiness because he was just that damned good. He came back briefly a few years ago, but as before it was so hard to synch schedules then he vanished again. If he came back again... I'd definitely try to see him again no matter how hard it was to pin him down.

Michael was awesome. My fav thing with him was he would get so turned on when you talked dirty to him. I mean he was already super sexual, but talking dirty to him made him go crazy.

Julian Brady

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He has it listed in his ad copy. Open to: Dates, kissing, dinners, one and one, couples massage, 3some, overnight, and chill and hang out.Shoot me a message with what you’re looking to set up a meet-up. I only respond to texts.Passport holder

US City envy... no. City in another country... definitely yes. There are so many incredibly built guys listing as bottom/vers bottom/versatile, the type of which in the US, tend to list as ask me or top. In the US I can bring people in to see me or go to them if I choose. My biggest issue here is time followed by costs. Bringing someone from overseas or going to them is an impossibility mostly. Time and costs become a even bigger problem. Dealing with an unknown person from another country ups the drawbacks for me even more. I only have brought in one guy from Argentina, but we had met in the US and have a long standing client/provider relationship. So it made it easier. Especially since I knew who I was seeing when I opened the door.

At least you got a response lol

I contacted him a few times in the past and never got a response from him. So whether he’s real or not he may be particular in who he sees. Maybe that’s why he doesn't have many reviews.

I don't judge people who are into pnp, but I don't seek out providers who list it. I had a very bad experience with a provider high on crack or meth. I don't know what it was exactly. In any case, because of this I have yet to hire anyone else who lists pnp in their ad. Whether they can handle their shit or not. I'm no longer willing to find out. I talked about what I considered my worst experience before on the forum. So I'll give the crib notes version. Early in my highing career, a provider I had met a few times (to which I had great to decent experiences with), called me as i was on my way to see him. He asked, "did I like to party?" Being new to all this I said yes. Thinking he meant.. like going to a party. Very naive I know. When I got to the room, he left the door open and the room was pitch black except for the sliver of light beaming through curtains. He sat near this sliver so I could see his silhouette across the room. The room had a weird smell. Not stinky, but nothing I've ever smelled before. I heard this weird inhaling whirring sound as a light, which look like a cigarette tip, glowed. The sound it made, made me think that it was not a cigarette. I had no idea what it could have been. So I kind of ignored that it could be something harder. During the session he wouldn't let me kiss him (he had before). He became increasingly erratic and become hyper paranoid. He started freaking me out and every time I tried to leave, he wouldn't let me. He actively blocked me, asking why am I leaving. What followed was him eventually having an episode where he was extremely manic, even crying to his mom, slobbering on the toilet, begging me not to leave him and at one point becoming comatose. I was scared to death because I thought he stopped breathing. I didn't know what to do. Should I leave... should I call an ambulance. My paranoid brain didn't help because I thought if I left and he died I could be in some series trouble. My finger prints and whatever else had to be all over the room and on his body. Did someone see me come into his room? What was supposed to be an hour meetup ended up closer to 4. Close to the end, he suddenly became clear and coherent. So much so he asked me to take him to the bus station. He acted like what just happened didn't. I was in shock at that point. As I dropped him off, he said he had a great time, looked forward to seeing me again, and asked me to write a positive review. I made sure I never saw him again. I met him through rentboy and he still posts on rentmen from time to time.

I finally met Max. It was well worth the wait. Very passionate. Very affectionate. I mean he's muscled and toned (as pictured in his ad) but you really don't get an exact sense of how big he is until you see him in person. That dude is thick.

He does porn for the site Gayhoopla under the name Ian Cage.

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Yes and no. In general, I don't talk about hiring unless I'm directly asked. This goes for friends and providers. It's probably why I partly use the forum for an outlet (because of the anonymity). However, I changed one aspect of this. After an incident, I no longer talk about my experiences (in detail) with a provider to another provider... even if directly asked. I've been burned by this because one provider miscommunicated info to another. Which I'm certain lead to the deterioration and end of one of the provider relationships with me. I mean there were other factors but I'm certain it was a part of the deterioration. Such is life.

Some idea of the providers personality in the ad copy. Some people just write some really basic stuff. Others are witty or even comical. Up to date pics preferably with full body shots and a mix of candid and professional pics. I know some guys use only professional shots where they are all ripped and glistening. It’s not impossible but that look isn’t easy to sustain year round. So having candid shots can give you an idea of how they appear in non-contest shape or every day look. That they include their intos. I’ve seen ads with none at all or very little. Personally if they list kissing, bear, and exclude pnp… I’m more prone to give strong consideration to that person.

Looks like he's escorting again. Looking very yummy to boot. Landon Conrad

He's not the fastest responder, but is great with communication when he does. However, and I didn't want to get into it, but he's been ill. It may be the flu or covid. It's why the overnight we had planned for this week has to be postponed. So he may not be responding because he's probably recuperating.

A lot of the providers I have seen are visiting my area. So I tend to meet them at their hotel and on the very rare occasion an air bnb. Since I’m coming to them I definitely need to know their location. Once we set a time, I need to factor in my travel and potential parking time to meet them on time. Usually they’ll tell me a hotel name or street. Once I park, they then give me the hotel room number or whatever pertinent info I need to meet them in their room. I have had offers to stay at a guy’s actual residence. Some on the first meeting, but most after I get to know the guy. I have yet to do it though. Mainly because with new hires I just feel more comfortable at a hotel. The regulars who offer, I just haven’t had the chance to visit them in their area to take up the offer.

I met him a few months back and had a great time. We were going to do a overnight next week but it may have to be postponed to Spring.

My two issues with providers come down to communication and scheduling. If I give full details or ask a question, I would hope I get full details or responses back. Especially if the prover asks me directly or through copy in their ad. The thing that bugs me the most is scheduling and lack of commitment. On a recent trip I set up meet-ups with 3 providers (at different times/days). All were no shows. Two actually told me they were on their way. And of course they weren’t. The third seemed like a lock.He was excited for the meet up and said he had the time. I made contact a couple days before the met up date/time. When I texted to confirm the day of… crickets. He contacted me just under 2 hours before the meet up time saying he wasn’t coming. His excuse, he had a hectic day at work and wouldn’t be coming. He could have told me that earlier. When he never responded to my confirmation text, I knew he wasn’t coming. No apology for wasting my time. For communication issues, I may sometimes give a little leeway and keep trying… but 3 strikes and you’re out. After that I won’t try to contact them again, ever. If you make a commitment and can’t make it be upfront and honest. If it’s a good excuse then Im willing to try again some other time. You say you’re coming and don’t contact me until a relatively short time before with a lame ass or no excuse about not coming… I’m done and won’t ever try contacting that person again. One of the guys was very well reviewed. He even came to my area this week. He’s off the list forever.