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Make sure if you bottom for him you clean out really good because he will flip and never see you again if there's an accident. I hired him 5 out of 7 days the week of my birthday and the last day did not end well. 

Make sure if you bottom for him you clean out really good because he will flip and never see you again if there's an accident. I hired him 5 out of 7 days the week of my birthday and the last day did not end well. 

In my experience: any kind of meeting for first time at a bathhouse or “sex shop” is bad business, regardless who’s at fault. Unless you can really trust the person or are experienced with bathhouse setups (I’ve met a client or 2 there before myself, but usually it was THEM who suggested it.)
 
I had a client in Denver talk me into meeting him at a large sex shop with a private theater area. I was smart enough to ask him to meet me out front first before paying to go back there, but I was stupid to have even gone there in the first place because: he never showed himself, and was trying to get me to go in the back in which I would have needed to pay $10 to get in. What the fuck? You booking an escort, it’s not that kind of arrangement. 
I don’t think it was a case of a toxic provider, or you needing therapy. I think y'all were just a bad match and the escort wasn’t fully vetted for your compatibility. In the future: don’t agree to meet anyplace high risk, like a bathhouse, sex shop, car etc. And that police line he pulled was a very weak and lame tactic, him and his friend should have been banned from the establishment for impersonating a Police Officer. I would have reported him to the staff.

I made this amount just to tell this story because I've been sitting on it for two days. One of the most traumatizing experience in the 10 years I've been hiring. 
I used to be on this site a while ago and have just been reading reviews and not commenting on anything. Tonight I needed to get this off my chest because I was traumatized by a provider to the point where I may not want to hire again. 
I live in Cleveland, Ohio. Not many choices here. I booked this escort from the site and we decided to meet at the local bathhouse that I've never been to. I went to one a few decades ago that made me uncomfortable so I never tried to go back to one. 
I booked the provider and got to the bathhouse. We began talking and I told him I was a bit uncomfortable. He got a room the size of a closet with two benches. I asked him if we could move to a room with a bed and I should be more comfortable.   We did. I paid for the room.  $26. Not much,  no big deal.  He asks for his small fee. We agreed on $200.  I hate paying before the service but it seems like that's what providers are doing these days,  especially if you don't give them a deposit, which i didn't. We agreed that I would send it through venmo as a business transaction so if things go wrong,  I can protect myself. I would never try to reverse a payment after a booking of we already spent the time together. He agreed.
We kept talking, I kept being visibly uncomfortable. He said after all this he thinks we should call his friend to come over for a threesome. I said I'm not comfortable right now so bringing another stranger into the room would make me more so. We ended up not bringing in his friend. 
The bathhouse has strict no street clothes rules and cell phones have to stay in the locker. He had his phone,  I had mine. He had his street clothes,  mine were in my locker. This became a red flag to me. He tried to leave to smoke a cigarette right after I paid him. When he left the room I texted him saying I was uncomfortable and I wanted to leave. He came back in and said I was wasting his time. (MY time, it actually was.)
He started saying he was a police officer and his cousin downstairs was a police officer as well. This added to me being uncomfortable. I started to panic. I've never felt this way with a provider before and I was thinking of shit, what did I get myself into. I was waiting for him to show me a badge and I waited for more police to come in and arrest me for paying for sex. Nothing. I told him I wanted to go but I was scared police were downstairs. I've heard of stings and I thought this was one. More panic. He walked me downstairs and I called myself an Uber and it was the longest 8 minutes I've waited for an uber. I was super aware of my surroundings and watched to see if police were coming. I got in the Uber, terrified this was it. I ran into my apartment and called a friend, panicking that I had screwed up. 
The provider kept texting me, taunting me and I stopped engaging, took sleeping pills and went to bed. He messaged me today and I told him how I felt. And I'm not engaging with him anymore.
He had me blocked on the site so I can't leave a review. I had emailed the site and they haven't responded yet,  which is weird because in the past they would respond within 24 hours. I think hours profile should be removed. 
Do you all ever get this nervous that you may be hiring an undercover police officer? I've had some bad (and great experiences) with providers but this was the worst one I've had. I have text messages of him taunting me. I'd post them but he texted some sensitive information about me (that you can Google).

I will never go to a bathhouse again. The bathhouse itself was uncomfortable and didn't help. He had suggested it and got the first room. When I got there and asked if we can move to a room with a bed,  I thought that would help calm me down. It didn't help I didn't have my vape pen (lol).
I would have only reversed the payment if he took the payment and left me without the service. Because we had our time together whether good or bad, he would have kept the payment. I had forgotten to send it as a business transaction anyway so I lost the payment regardless.
If I do hire again, it will be guys with reviews. Also,  I don't actually trust anyone in the area that I live in right now. So I may travel a bit to meet some providers that I have hired in the past and we're great or good encounters. 
I'm sure he has his side of the story because there are three sides to every story. His side, my side, and the reality of what happened. I had previously tried booking him and it didn't work out so when he initiated again,  I was like,  okay let's try this again. At the start none of my discomfort was with him. My discomfort with him started when he left the room to smoke a cigarette. Then when he came back he started the police talk and it escalated from there. 
 

I will admit hesitating to use the word thug because of potential racial overtones.  But when I think of a thug, I see it more as an attitude than a skin color

Make sure if you bottom for him you clean out really good because he will flip and never see you again if there's an accident. I hired him 5 out of 7 days the week of my birthday and the last day did not end well. 

Give me time to think about this because I'm not so sure anymore besides the fact it was a 10 inch dick in cleveland

Nope. Not much else to the evening. Thank you for victim shaming. 

Thank you all for your feedback. I see that some people will always find fault in the client seeking a service and when it becomes (my) traumatic experience,  this wasn't the place to post it. 

@ThrowawayAccount: your encounter deserves sympathy and empathy.  Just out of curiosity though, what were your expectations from that meeting?  Did you communicate those expectations with him beforehand?
A picture is worth a thousand words.  His pictures seem to be in alignment with his RM profile descriptions, which were more or less reflective of your experience.  Unfortunately, this book can be judged by its cover.  I hope you will recover from this horrendous experience soon.

I made this amount just to tell this story because I've been sitting on it for two days. One of the most traumatizing experience in the 10 years I've been hiring. 
I used to be on this site a while ago and have just been reading reviews and not commenting on anything. Tonight I needed to get this off my chest because I was traumatized by a provider to the point where I may not want to hire again. 
I live in Cleveland, Ohio. Not many choices here. I booked this escort from the site and we decided to meet at the local bathhouse that I've never been to. I went to one a few decades ago that made me uncomfortable so I never tried to go back to one. 
I booked the provider and got to the bathhouse. We began talking and I told him I was a bit uncomfortable. He got a room the size of a closet with two benches. I asked him if we could move to a room with a bed and I should be more comfortable.   We did. I paid for the room.  $26. Not much,  no big deal.  He asks for his small fee. We agreed on $200.  I hate paying before the service but it seems like that's what providers are doing these days,  especially if you don't give them a deposit, which i didn't. We agreed that I would send it through venmo as a business transaction so if things go wrong,  I can protect myself. I would never try to reverse a payment after a booking of we already spent the time together. He agreed.
We kept talking, I kept being visibly uncomfortable. He said after all this he thinks we should call his friend to come over for a threesome. I said I'm not comfortable right now so bringing another stranger into the room would make me more so. We ended up not bringing in his friend. 
The bathhouse has strict no street clothes rules and cell phones have to stay in the locker. He had his phone,  I had mine. He had his street clothes,  mine were in my locker. This became a red flag to me. He tried to leave to smoke a cigarette right after I paid him. When he left the room I texted him saying I was uncomfortable and I wanted to leave. He came back in and said I was wasting his time. (MY time, it actually was.)
He started saying he was a police officer and his cousin downstairs was a police officer as well. This added to me being uncomfortable. I started to panic. I've never felt this way with a provider before and I was thinking of shit, what did I get myself into. I was waiting for him to show me a badge and I waited for more police to come in and arrest me for paying for sex. Nothing. I told him I wanted to go but I was scared police were downstairs. I've heard of stings and I thought this was one. More panic. He walked me downstairs and I called myself an Uber and it was the longest 8 minutes I've waited for an uber. I was super aware of my surroundings and watched to see if police were coming. I got in the Uber, terrified this was it. I ran into my apartment and called a friend, panicking that I had screwed up. 
The provider kept texting me, taunting me and I stopped engaging, took sleeping pills and went to bed. He messaged me today and I told him how I felt. And I'm not engaging with him anymore.
He had me blocked on the site so I can't leave a review. I had emailed the site and they haven't responded yet,  which is weird because in the past they would respond within 24 hours. I think hours profile should be removed. 
Do you all ever get this nervous that you may be hiring an undercover police officer? I've had some bad (and great experiences) with providers but this was the worst one I've had. I have text messages of him taunting me. I'd post them but he texted some sensitive information about me (that you can Google).

I made this amount just to tell this story because I've been sitting on it for two days. One of the most traumatizing experience in the 10 years I've been hiring. 
I used to be on this site a while ago and have just been reading reviews and not commenting on anything. Tonight I needed to get this off my chest because I was traumatized by a provider to the point where I may not want to hire again. 
I live in Cleveland, Ohio. Not many choices here. I booked this escort from the site and we decided to meet at the local bathhouse that I've never been to. I went to one a few decades ago that made me uncomfortable so I never tried to go back to one. 
I booked the provider and got to the bathhouse. We began talking and I told him I was a bit uncomfortable. He got a room the size of a closet with two benches. I asked him if we could move to a room with a bed and I should be more comfortable.   We did. I paid for the room.  $26. Not much,  no big deal.  He asks for his small fee. We agreed on $200.  I hate paying before the service but it seems like that's what providers are doing these days,  especially if you don't give them a deposit, which i didn't. We agreed that I would send it through venmo as a business transaction so if things go wrong,  I can protect myself. I would never try to reverse a payment after a booking of we already spent the time together. He agreed.
We kept talking, I kept being visibly uncomfortable. He said after all this he thinks we should call his friend to come over for a threesome. I said I'm not comfortable right now so bringing another stranger into the room would make me more so. We ended up not bringing in his friend. 
The bathhouse has strict no street clothes rules and cell phones have to stay in the locker. He had his phone,  I had mine. He had his street clothes,  mine were in my locker. This became a red flag to me. He tried to leave to smoke a cigarette right after I paid him. When he left the room I texted him saying I was uncomfortable and I wanted to leave. He came back in and said I was wasting his time. (MY time, it actually was.)
He started saying he was a police officer and his cousin downstairs was a police officer as well. This added to me being uncomfortable. I started to panic. I've never felt this way with a provider before and I was thinking of shit, what did I get myself into. I was waiting for him to show me a badge and I waited for more police to come in and arrest me for paying for sex. Nothing. I told him I wanted to go but I was scared police were downstairs. I've heard of stings and I thought this was one. More panic. He walked me downstairs and I called myself an Uber and it was the longest 8 minutes I've waited for an uber. I was super aware of my surroundings and watched to see if police were coming. I got in the Uber, terrified this was it. I ran into my apartment and called a friend, panicking that I had screwed up. 
The provider kept texting me, taunting me and I stopped engaging, took sleeping pills and went to bed. He messaged me today and I told him how I felt. And I'm not engaging with him anymore.
He had me blocked on the site so I can't leave a review. I had emailed the site and they haven't responded yet,  which is weird because in the past they would respond within 24 hours. I think hours profile should be removed. 
Do you all ever get this nervous that you may be hiring an undercover police officer? I've had some bad (and great experiences) with providers but this was the worst one I've had. I have text messages of him taunting me. I'd post them but he texted some sensitive information about me (that you can Google).

Nope. Not much else to the evening. Thank you for victim shaming. 

I made this amount just to tell this story because I've been sitting on it for two days. One of the most traumatizing experience in the 10 years I've been hiring. 
I used to be on this site a while ago and have just been reading reviews and not commenting on anything. Tonight I needed to get this off my chest because I was traumatized by a provider to the point where I may not want to hire again. 
I live in Cleveland, Ohio. Not many choices here. I booked this escort from the site and we decided to meet at the local bathhouse that I've never been to. I went to one a few decades ago that made me uncomfortable so I never tried to go back to one. 
I booked the provider and got to the bathhouse. We began talking and I told him I was a bit uncomfortable. He got a room the size of a closet with two benches. I asked him if we could move to a room with a bed and I should be more comfortable.   We did. I paid for the room.  $26. Not much,  no big deal.  He asks for his small fee. We agreed on $200.  I hate paying before the service but it seems like that's what providers are doing these days,  especially if you don't give them a deposit, which i didn't. We agreed that I would send it through venmo as a business transaction so if things go wrong,  I can protect myself. I would never try to reverse a payment after a booking of we already spent the time together. He agreed.
We kept talking, I kept being visibly uncomfortable. He said after all this he thinks we should call his friend to come over for a threesome. I said I'm not comfortable right now so bringing another stranger into the room would make me more so. We ended up not bringing in his friend. 
The bathhouse has strict no street clothes rules and cell phones have to stay in the locker. He had his phone,  I had mine. He had his street clothes,  mine were in my locker. This became a red flag to me. He tried to leave to smoke a cigarette right after I paid him. When he left the room I texted him saying I was uncomfortable and I wanted to leave. He came back in and said I was wasting his time. (MY time, it actually was.)
He started saying he was a police officer and his cousin downstairs was a police officer as well. This added to me being uncomfortable. I started to panic. I've never felt this way with a provider before and I was thinking of shit, what did I get myself into. I was waiting for him to show me a badge and I waited for more police to come in and arrest me for paying for sex. Nothing. I told him I wanted to go but I was scared police were downstairs. I've heard of stings and I thought this was one. More panic. He walked me downstairs and I called myself an Uber and it was the longest 8 minutes I've waited for an uber. I was super aware of my surroundings and watched to see if police were coming. I got in the Uber, terrified this was it. I ran into my apartment and called a friend, panicking that I had screwed up. 
The provider kept texting me, taunting me and I stopped engaging, took sleeping pills and went to bed. He messaged me today and I told him how I felt. And I'm not engaging with him anymore.
He had me blocked on the site so I can't leave a review. I had emailed the site and they haven't responded yet,  which is weird because in the past they would respond within 24 hours. I think hours profile should be removed. 
Do you all ever get this nervous that you may be hiring an undercover police officer? I've had some bad (and great experiences) with providers but this was the worst one I've had. I have text messages of him taunting me. I'd post them but he texted some sensitive information about me (that you can Google).

He blocked me so I can't pay the link but his profile is Jahkor_Jacoby.

I will never go to a bathhouse again. The bathhouse itself was uncomfortable and didn't help. He had suggested it and got the first room. When I got there and asked if we can move to a room with a bed,  I thought that would help calm me down. It didn't help I didn't have my vape pen (lol).
I would have only reversed the payment if he took the payment and left me without the service. Because we had our time together whether good or bad, he would have kept the payment. I had forgotten to send it as a business transaction anyway so I lost the payment regardless.
If I do hire again, it will be guys with reviews. Also,  I don't actually trust anyone in the area that I live in right now. So I may travel a bit to meet some providers that I have hired in the past and we're great or good encounters. 
I'm sure he has his side of the story because there are three sides to every story. His side, my side, and the reality of what happened. I had previously tried booking him and it didn't work out so when he initiated again,  I was like,  okay let's try this again. At the start none of my discomfort was with him. My discomfort with him started when he left the room to smoke a cigarette. Then when he came back he started the police talk and it escalated from there. 
 

Perhaps the bath house added to your discomfort. I wouldn't go to one unless I was feeling very confident. 
You had a bad experience and it really shook you up. But you know the saying. "Get back up on that horse." The best suggestion you've gotten is, next time, use a provider who is well known and experienced. 
As for all these suggestions regarding your mental health; it's sort of silly to assume we know the state of your mental health after reading your post.
Hang in there brother.

That's EVERY room at a bathhouse.  I haven't seen a AAA rating giving any bathhouse room a 5 Diamond review.
If one wants comfort, go to a Hilton 

Thank you all for your feedback. I see that some people will always find fault in the client seeking a service and when it becomes (my) traumatic experience,  this wasn't the place to post it. 

I made this amount just to tell this story because I've been sitting on it for two days. One of the most traumatizing experience in the 10 years I've been hiring. 
I used to be on this site a while ago and have just been reading reviews and not commenting on anything. Tonight I needed to get this off my chest because I was traumatized by a provider to the point where I may not want to hire again. 
I live in Cleveland, Ohio. Not many choices here. I booked this escort from the site and we decided to meet at the local bathhouse that I've never been to. I went to one a few decades ago that made me uncomfortable so I never tried to go back to one. 
I booked the provider and got to the bathhouse. We began talking and I told him I was a bit uncomfortable. He got a room the size of a closet with two benches. I asked him if we could move to a room with a bed and I should be more comfortable.   We did. I paid for the room.  $26. Not much,  no big deal.  He asks for his small fee. We agreed on $200.  I hate paying before the service but it seems like that's what providers are doing these days,  especially if you don't give them a deposit, which i didn't. We agreed that I would send it through venmo as a business transaction so if things go wrong,  I can protect myself. I would never try to reverse a payment after a booking of we already spent the time together. He agreed.
We kept talking, I kept being visibly uncomfortable. He said after all this he thinks we should call his friend to come over for a threesome. I said I'm not comfortable right now so bringing another stranger into the room would make me more so. We ended up not bringing in his friend. 
The bathhouse has strict no street clothes rules and cell phones have to stay in the locker. He had his phone,  I had mine. He had his street clothes,  mine were in my locker. This became a red flag to me. He tried to leave to smoke a cigarette right after I paid him. When he left the room I texted him saying I was uncomfortable and I wanted to leave. He came back in and said I was wasting his time. (MY time, it actually was.)
He started saying he was a police officer and his cousin downstairs was a police officer as well. This added to me being uncomfortable. I started to panic. I've never felt this way with a provider before and I was thinking of shit, what did I get myself into. I was waiting for him to show me a badge and I waited for more police to come in and arrest me for paying for sex. Nothing. I told him I wanted to go but I was scared police were downstairs. I've heard of stings and I thought this was one. More panic. He walked me downstairs and I called myself an Uber and it was the longest 8 minutes I've waited for an uber. I was super aware of my surroundings and watched to see if police were coming. I got in the Uber, terrified this was it. I ran into my apartment and called a friend, panicking that I had screwed up. 
The provider kept texting me, taunting me and I stopped engaging, took sleeping pills and went to bed. He messaged me today and I told him how I felt. And I'm not engaging with him anymore.
He had me blocked on the site so I can't leave a review. I had emailed the site and they haven't responded yet,  which is weird because in the past they would respond within 24 hours. I think hours profile should be removed. 
Do you all ever get this nervous that you may be hiring an undercover police officer? I've had some bad (and great experiences) with providers but this was the worst one I've had. I have text messages of him taunting me. I'd post them but he texted some sensitive information about me (that you can Google).

Nope. Not much else to the evening. Thank you for victim shaming. 

I made this amount just to tell this story because I've been sitting on it for two days. One of the most traumatizing experience in the 10 years I've been hiring. 
I used to be on this site a while ago and have just been reading reviews and not commenting on anything. Tonight I needed to get this off my chest because I was traumatized by a provider to the point where I may not want to hire again. 
I live in Cleveland, Ohio. Not many choices here. I booked this escort from the site and we decided to meet at the local bathhouse that I've never been to. I went to one a few decades ago that made me uncomfortable so I never tried to go back to one. 
I booked the provider and got to the bathhouse. We began talking and I told him I was a bit uncomfortable. He got a room the size of a closet with two benches. I asked him if we could move to a room with a bed and I should be more comfortable.   We did. I paid for the room.  $26. Not much,  no big deal.  He asks for his small fee. We agreed on $200.  I hate paying before the service but it seems like that's what providers are doing these days,  especially if you don't give them a deposit, which i didn't. We agreed that I would send it through venmo as a business transaction so if things go wrong,  I can protect myself. I would never try to reverse a payment after a booking of we already spent the time together. He agreed.
We kept talking, I kept being visibly uncomfortable. He said after all this he thinks we should call his friend to come over for a threesome. I said I'm not comfortable right now so bringing another stranger into the room would make me more so. We ended up not bringing in his friend. 
The bathhouse has strict no street clothes rules and cell phones have to stay in the locker. He had his phone,  I had mine. He had his street clothes,  mine were in my locker. This became a red flag to me. He tried to leave to smoke a cigarette right after I paid him. When he left the room I texted him saying I was uncomfortable and I wanted to leave. He came back in and said I was wasting his time. (MY time, it actually was.)
He started saying he was a police officer and his cousin downstairs was a police officer as well. This added to me being uncomfortable. I started to panic. I've never felt this way with a provider before and I was thinking of shit, what did I get myself into. I was waiting for him to show me a badge and I waited for more police to come in and arrest me for paying for sex. Nothing. I told him I wanted to go but I was scared police were downstairs. I've heard of stings and I thought this was one. More panic. He walked me downstairs and I called myself an Uber and it was the longest 8 minutes I've waited for an uber. I was super aware of my surroundings and watched to see if police were coming. I got in the Uber, terrified this was it. I ran into my apartment and called a friend, panicking that I had screwed up. 
The provider kept texting me, taunting me and I stopped engaging, took sleeping pills and went to bed. He messaged me today and I told him how I felt. And I'm not engaging with him anymore.
He had me blocked on the site so I can't leave a review. I had emailed the site and they haven't responded yet,  which is weird because in the past they would respond within 24 hours. I think hours profile should be removed. 
Do you all ever get this nervous that you may be hiring an undercover police officer? I've had some bad (and great experiences) with providers but this was the worst one I've had. I have text messages of him taunting me. I'd post them but he texted some sensitive information about me (that you can Google).

Thank you all for your feedback. I see that some people will always find fault in the client seeking a service and when it becomes (my) traumatic experience,  this wasn't the place to post it.