@Starlight77 and @kaboom35, Usually they contact me. Grindr deletes the word generous but to say something like “looking for a college age guy in need” will get their attention. I did reply to one guy who said in his profile: “My cat needs surgery or I’ll have to put him down. Anything helps”. 🐈
@ross06, I’ve also met Joe Flint. I agree, he was great! 👍🏼
@Starlight77, Have you ever attended a Buffboyzz party on LI? You might have luck meeting someone there.