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I didn't mean to suggest he isn't real. I happen to know that he is. I just think his whole mystique is kinda fun.

Generosity is always a good thing. And it sounds like you're a lovely person 😍 This time of year can be really hard for us providers between family issues/fluctuations in bookings, etc. I think it's awesome to hear that people still think of us as people--outside of what we do for clients in bookings.

Plenty of us out there would be super grateful to be taken out to nice places like that! Maybe next time look for providers that have good reviews on here vis-a-vis BFE.

https://x.com/i/status/1993045119831097804 😉

It's really all over the map in terms of times. I find that Clients usually fall into the following groups related to timing: 1. Retired (9-5 works great) ✅ 2. On vacation (9-5 is possible here, you need to be in a vacation destination) 😎 3. Working from home (These guys often hire for a quickie between meetings)✅ 4. Business travelers (Won't work for 9-5 usually) ❌ 5. Working a normal job (won't work) ❌ Of course it's up to you which of these you take on.

What would you say is your "affordable" price point? (And where do you live?)

If you're a pure top on RM, I'd say the expectation is that you have at least 7 (advertised as 8 or 9). Not sure if you're allowing vers or vers/bottom guys in your search, but based on my research in the NYC area, those are the guys that usually have 'Boyfriend Dick'. But yeah, you're probably right that the market prevents lots of guys that WANT to be tops from being escorts if they don't have the size. Bummer.

Yeah, totally. That's what I meant by all the attention they WANT. People who mostly wanna watch will tell you as much, in my experience.

This is absolutely a thing! You can always find something you love about a guy (or at least I can). The compliments are probably true, maybe a bit exaggerated, but true nonetheless.

I wouldn't worry too much about pre-planning. The great thing about groups is the multiplicative explosion of possible dick/hole/hand possibilities! 🤯 See what happens. Any provider worth their salt is going to make sure the clients get all the attention they want. If it's more than one client, it's the provider's job to keep that balanced. Doing stuff with another provider, while fun, isn't the main reason we're there, and we know that.

Hey, hey ... No one is mad about you tipping 😘 But I never really go into an appointment thinking 'this person will probably tip me well.' If you're meeting with the same provider a second time, though, it's like you're starting to become a regular. Regulars get VIP treatment for sure. I know I'm repeating myself here, but it really matters way more than a tip.

I always assume people reach out to a few providers initially. Once we are in a two-way conversation, it's a little different. Hopefully clients aren't asking 3 different guys to come at the same time and then ghosting two of them 🤨

Thanks! Yes, it's been fun having that small business owner experience! Stay tuned for the OF!!

Sure, shit happens in any business. But with any business, leads need to be qualified. A bad actor can waste so much time, that that hourly rate you just mentioned would skyrocket if there wasn't SOME way of weeding out the abusers. That's where Ubers and small deposits come in. Beyond that, how can we really tell the scammers from the real clients? I'm not sure clients on this forum really comprehend the scale of the fake clients. It's like 40%-60% of all the incoming messages I get. Imagine how high the 'factored in rate' for LEGIT clients would have to be if 40% of messages were allowed to play out all their antics.

I grew up with lots of thuggy latinos and even thuggy asians. There are definitely parts of the country where white guys fit that descriptor too. Eminem comes to mind. And if you read up on the history, it was originally from India. So I'm definitely calling bullshit on this.