Tom C. Sinclair

It did. Hence why I said I forgot my mantra. 👍🏻 

@BuzzLiteQueer, detached. More concerned about the money than delivering. I always put the money out. He darted like a magnet to iron to it. Rushed too. Felt very unsatisfying. 

Forgive my ignorance. I’m gathering from this that “T(Tina)” is shorthand for meth? 

I wish providers would just be direct and say no. Don’t give a sub-optimal service if you know you will. Likely because it’s out of your specialty or strengths you’re charging more too. So now the client is paying more something of lesser quality. Don’t do that. Just say you don’t provide what’s asking. If you know where to direct him for what he’s asking, great. But don’t take his money for something you already know isn’t going to be the best he can get from you.

I wish providers would just be direct and say no. Don’t give a sub-optimal service if you know you will. Likely because it’s out of your specialty or strengths you’re charging more too. So now the client is paying more something of lesser quality. Don’t do that. Just say you don’t provide what’s asking. If you know where to direct him for what he’s asking, great. But don’t take his money for something you already know isn’t going to be the best he can get from you.

This sums it up well. It is absolutely within a patron’s right to request modifications, and for most the answer will come down to what the ask is AND potentially a whole host of things.
What it should never come down to, in my opinion, is the attractiveness of the client/patron. The provider bears the responsibilities of making and keeping  their place of business an attractive choice when someone is deciding where to give their business.

They were on target.

They were on target.

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I also don’t use Rent Masseur.

I met him several times. Good man. Very good talker. I appreciate his sense of humor. Perhaps a tad pricey for some, but he’s definitely accommodating. He’s more cut now since I saw him last if the pictures are up to date. You’ll have a good experience.
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They were on target.

It’s easiest to deal with people as a duck deals with water on its back. 

I know I’m ugly and unattractive. Hence why I don’t expect dating to work and pay good-looking guys to pretend to like me. I’m fortunate that though ugly, I’m financially able. 

They were on target.

Maria is always texting me with a special offer to make $1000 a day. She wants to know if I’m interested 😂 

I know I’m ugly and unattractive. Hence why I don’t expect dating to work and pay good-looking guys to pretend to like me. I’m fortunate that though ugly, I’m financially able. 

Avoid. Good lucks don’t make for a good time. Does not deliver for you. All about him. Do not recommend one bit

@BuzzLiteQueer, detached. More concerned about the money than delivering. I always put the money out. He darted like a magnet to iron to it. Rushed too. Felt very unsatisfying. 

Then we should stop saying that’s what we’re doing. 99% of the issues around hiring is because we don’t say what we mean. For some unknown reason. 

Bummer.

What!!! I thought she only liked me. Ugh I’m being two timed. 
Back to the subject: I get messages from RentMasseur saying that a premium RM client has checked out my profile and would I like to message him?  No thanks, I don’t like to send unsolicited messages. If they’re interested they’ll make contact. I’m not really wanting or needing to drum up business in that way. It seems a bit desperate to me, and even if I was desperate I wouldn’t want to appear so. 
 

@BuzzLiteQueer, detached. More concerned about the money than delivering. I always put the money out. He darted like a magnet to iron to it. Rushed too. Felt very unsatisfying. 

And also Kimberly. She will often send me her selfie. She’s a porcelain white skinned Asian girl who wears pastel bikinis. She often accidentally texts me but assures me I seem nice and wants to know if we maybe can be friends. 

I've gotten several of those "Hi". Have responded to some, and one ended up in a booking, the others were out of my area, but I had a nice conversation where I ended stating that I might consider them if I travel to where they are of if they come to my city. No harm done, just a nice, polite conversation. They reach out to prospective clients. I don't see anything wrong with it.
It's more annoying when I get those from Dell and T-Mobile.

Sounds more or less fruitless to me. I can be cynical but I bet if you try to pursue something with him it will end up going nowhere but you getting frustrated.