Tom C. Sinclair

His ad and pics are quite, quite enticing. 
I sent him a message at the RM site; he responded that I should contact him via text, but ater reading the preceding analysis of one man's experience., this cutie (via his ad and photos) will not be seeing me.  And since his English proficiency is highly lacking, we will definitely not be having the pleasure of each other's company. 
...too bad for that endowment and his "I Am Into's" as well as all of the photos accompany his ad are mighty encouraging and quite, quite mouthwatering!!
 

An experience trying to hire this guy…
1. I broke my rule – no deposits.
2. I had trouble paying him the deposit which should've been a red flag.
3. He required a $300 deposit to talk on the phone.
4. His English is abysmal. Every other English word is interrupted from the next with "es como," which I looked up and in Spanish is the equivalent of the English filler word "like."
5. He told me the arrangement was that we would go on a trip. That had been the first thing I had floated with him months ago, but in the course of discussing things since then, the plan had changed. He also didn't want to hammer out any plans from the get-go until I paid the deposit. Another red flag I ignored.
6. When it was clear that he was having trouble communicating verbally with me, another voice came on the phone. I asked who it was but never got satisfaction. He wanted to switch to texting because he could communicate better that way. No argument there. He probalby runs things through a translator.
7. When we got to text, he insisted that the arrangement had changed and that he agreed because he wanted to have a good time. Which smacks of selfishness. I told him I wanted my $300 back (I had little hope I'd get it back, but it was worth a shot) but he said he was keeping it because the arrangement had changed. I did tell him that his priority to have a good time was misplaced; that his priority should be customer satisfaction. I also told him I’d be sharing this experience here. He never responded after that. Likely he blocked me.
 

So unless you want a quicky with little-to-no conversation, this isn't your guy. I don't know where the good reviews are coming from. Perhaps people who speak Spanish.

An experience trying to hire this guy…
1. I broke my rule – no deposits.
2. I had trouble paying him the deposit which should've been a red flag.
3. He required a $300 deposit to talk on the phone.
4. His English is abysmal. Every other English word is interrupted from the next with "es como," which I looked up and in Spanish is the equivalent of the English filler word "like."
5. He told me the arrangement was that we would go on a trip. That had been the first thing I had floated with him months ago, but in the course of discussing things since then, the plan had changed. He also didn't want to hammer out any plans from the get-go until I paid the deposit. Another red flag I ignored.
6. When it was clear that he was having trouble communicating verbally with me, another voice came on the phone. I asked who it was but never got satisfaction. He wanted to switch to texting because he could communicate better that way. No argument there. He probalby runs things through a translator.
7. When we got to text, he insisted that the arrangement had changed and that he agreed because he wanted to have a good time. Which smacks of selfishness. I told him I wanted my $300 back (I had little hope I'd get it back, but it was worth a shot) but he said he was keeping it because the arrangement had changed. I did tell him that his priority to have a good time was misplaced; that his priority should be customer satisfaction. I also told him I’d be sharing this experience here. He never responded after that. Likely he blocked me.
 

So unless you want a quicky with little-to-no conversation, this isn't your guy. I don't know where the good reviews are coming from. Perhaps people who speak Spanish.

It did. Hence why I said I forgot my mantra. 👍🏻 

@BuzzLiteQueer, detached. More concerned about the money than delivering. I always put the money out. He darted like a magnet to iron to it. Rushed too. Felt very unsatisfying. 

Forgive my ignorance. I’m gathering from this that “T(Tina)” is shorthand for meth? 

I wish providers would just be direct and say no. Don’t give a sub-optimal service if you know you will. Likely because it’s out of your specialty or strengths you’re charging more too. So now the client is paying more something of lesser quality. Don’t do that. Just say you don’t provide what’s asking. If you know where to direct him for what he’s asking, great. But don’t take his money for something you already know isn’t going to be the best he can get from you.

I wish providers would just be direct and say no. Don’t give a sub-optimal service if you know you will. Likely because it’s out of your specialty or strengths you’re charging more too. So now the client is paying more something of lesser quality. Don’t do that. Just say you don’t provide what’s asking. If you know where to direct him for what he’s asking, great. But don’t take his money for something you already know isn’t going to be the best he can get from you.

This sums it up well. It is absolutely within a patron’s right to request modifications, and for most the answer will come down to what the ask is AND potentially a whole host of things.
What it should never come down to, in my opinion, is the attractiveness of the client/patron. The provider bears the responsibilities of making and keeping  their place of business an attractive choice when someone is deciding where to give their business.

They were on target.

They were on target.

@56harrisond
I couldn’t post my experience with him in the most recent post string when searched for him. See below. I did exactly what it said to do. I created a new topic. If that was an error, the mods can delete it.


I also don’t use Rent Masseur.

I met him several times. Good man. Very good talker. I appreciate his sense of humor. Perhaps a tad pricey for some, but he’s definitely accommodating. He’s more cut now since I saw him last if the pictures are up to date. You’ll have a good experience.
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They were on target.

It’s easiest to deal with people as a duck deals with water on its back. 

I know I’m ugly and unattractive. Hence why I don’t expect dating to work and pay good-looking guys to pretend to like me. I’m fortunate that though ugly, I’m financially able. 

They were on target.

Maria is always texting me with a special offer to make $1000 a day. She wants to know if I’m interested 😂 

I know I’m ugly and unattractive. Hence why I don’t expect dating to work and pay good-looking guys to pretend to like me. I’m fortunate that though ugly, I’m financially able. 

Avoid. Good lucks don’t make for a good time. Does not deliver for you. All about him. Do not recommend one bit

@BuzzLiteQueer, detached. More concerned about the money than delivering. I always put the money out. He darted like a magnet to iron to it. Rushed too. Felt very unsatisfying. 

Then we should stop saying that’s what we’re doing. 99% of the issues around hiring is because we don’t say what we mean. For some unknown reason. 

Bummer.

What!!! I thought she only liked me. Ugh I’m being two timed. 
Back to the subject: I get messages from RentMasseur saying that a premium RM client has checked out my profile and would I like to message him?  No thanks, I don’t like to send unsolicited messages. If they’re interested they’ll make contact. I’m not really wanting or needing to drum up business in that way. It seems a bit desperate to me, and even if I was desperate I wouldn’t want to appear so. 
 

@BuzzLiteQueer, detached. More concerned about the money than delivering. I always put the money out. He darted like a magnet to iron to it. Rushed too. Felt very unsatisfying.