wearytraveller

As a client, I do NOT think you should be dropping your fee!!!! IF a client wants a "massage", some massage moves can be great foreplay --
 
Sensual, erotic touch and stokes to relax the client and get the blood flowing:) In this scenario, it is still an escort session - Stand firm as you and your client stay hard:)

As a client I appreciate a response like this; honest and straightforward. I've often been told how skilled a masseur a guy is after asking him for "an excellent massage with some fun after". As enjoyable as the "fun after" may be I always feel a little cheated when their massage skills amount to little more than a rub and tug:confused:

Sorry to hear this happened to you. I'd be inclined to respond … "Jerk off? … Jerk! F*ck off! … Now I feel better …"

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It's the new Sahara. It's been totally redone over the last year.
 
They did a nice job with it, although it can't ever really overcome its piss-poor location on the strip.

Same. Super frustrating. I like to use the email option to 1st contact the provider and make sure we're both on the same page. Then I'll text to make an appointment and speak more in detail. Also I like leaving reviews so contact via email was a requirement.

Of course it's a bit of a lottery but I've hired 4 guys who had no reviews but were offering what I was looking for & had recent pics. 2 had no face pics but willingly forwarded them on enquiry. I'm happy to say I had a great time with all of them & was pleased to be able to post glowing reviews which they thoroughly deserved. As you say they all have to start somewhere.
I guess it's a case of 'you pays her money & takes yer choice.'

I’ve now thought up of a great counter measure (In my lovely hot shower in my suite). Picture showing hotel room/apartment number with door cracked open. There’s no way a picture this specific could be online. Think of it as the OUTCALL INSURANCE on par with the 3 Fingered selfie!!!

Lighten up. It was a joke

Perfect message....
"Hi, saw your ad on RM. I am into (xyz) and am available to meet up (state when you are looking/availability). I am in (general location) and able to (whether you can host travel or both).
If this sounds like a good fit for you, let me know your rates for (length of time you are looking for).
Love your ad and looking forward to hopefully meeting you!"

As I said in one of the recent threads on RM reviews, when judging whether reviews look suspicious or not I use the following criteria:
 

How long have the reviewers been members? If the reviewers are long- or medium-term RM members then I regard them as legitimate.
How many reviews has the reviewer posted?
How many different guys has the reviewer reviewed?
How many reviews does the escort have and over what period of time?

 
One tactic to gauge the legitimacy of a review/reviewer is to ask the reviewer for feedback. I've done that and have gotten everything from an essay to a one-word answer. The one-word answer guys usually warm up after some back-and-forth. If they don't reply or reply with very little detail, I question the legitimacy. (Not to them, of course)
 
In this particular example, I would look at both the positive and negative reviews and apply the criteria above. If the majority of the positive reviews seem legit, I would chalk the one negative review up to a lack of chemistry, an escort who had an off day, an asshole client, or an asshole ex-friend/ex-boyfriend/fellow escort.

This is what can happen when the chemistry is off and the client takes it personally.
 
As other here have said before, when it's just not a match- but nothing terrible otherwise- sometimes the best thing you can do is part ways and not submit a review.
 
You cannot always force a round peg into a square hole. Some personalities are not meant to mesh.

Found myself in Vegas and decided to re-connect with Benjamin. Price was more than fair and the experience was incredible! Although he's aged it bit, he was as good as I remembered. Was able to accommodate me on short notice and he was easy to communicate with. A reliable professional in a city with a reputation for having its fair share of poor service providers. I highly recommend him if you're ever in Sin City!

True enough. I agree a deposit or some payment before meeting may be in order if you're looking for longer than a couple of hours. In the one case I had a provider come to me I offered to and sent money for air fare; things worked out fine. I like to think if you're comfortable enough meeting someone for an extended period of time, you've done some research and have had enough communication so that sending money ahead of time would be a reasonable expectation.

https://rent.men/Greek_herc asked for a deposit. I declined and said I've never provided a deposit. He said he "never has issues with people sending a deposit". I guess I'm not "people"

Ding, ding, ding, ding!
 
That being, um, said, the escort knew that the OP wasn't hiring him for conversation. He should have initiated some sort of physical intimacy.

Don't confuse "I love you" with "I am in love with you"!

Just because you test drive the car for an hour doesn’t mean you’ll like it for the weekend ?

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-on-mucsleboyjock-in-vegas.148925/

https://rent.men/EikeLatin
 
He has good reviews (including written reviews) on RM. Maybe it was a lack of chemistry, but my experience was different from those who had reviewed him. Lessons learned: no matter what the reviews may say, mileage may vary; and if things aren't going well during the session don't agree to pay for extra time on the promise that things will get better.

Sorry, nothing against you, partially fueled by other interactions I am having today but....
 
can we all start acting like adults and be upfront and transparent?
Don't continue to add to the ghosting culture and not respond...you don't want to send pic, say so.
if you are looking for certain interests, say so. If you changed you mind or can't make it say so...even if it is a made up excuse. Stop ghosting and not responding!!
 
rant over.

There is doubtlessly an element of insecurity with one's physical appearance and the fear of rejection. (as in "Damn... I can't even pay someone to fuck me").
 
However I'm more concerned about privacy.
 
Once a digital likeness of me is on any connected electronic device then I have lost control of it. When I take a selfie with a cute puppy then cloud service app(s) which I may not even be aware are lurking in my devices will swoop in and it has irreversibly slipped out of my fingers until the end of time.
 
If I take the next step and send it to you then the problem is multiplied multi-fold, even if you never have any ill intent toward me. If you are careless with your privacy then I am the victim of your social media app's aggressive surreptitious data grabs, a malicious attack on your device(s), or a casual mistake you may make that can't be undone.
 
It is like an iron curtain - either you allow it to be breached or you don't take that first step. As long as everyone makes an informed choice then half the battle is won. I'm simply not willing to put my privacy into someone else's hands.
 
The SeekingArrangement guys always wanted a selfie... I have some obscured pics that morph the biometrics that I'd send them and that's it. Several refused to meet... I'm fine with that.
 
(The obvious next question is why be so concerned about privacy. It's a harmless pic which is meaningless taken out of the context of the hiring of an escort. Answer: having my image in the public domain does not benefit me - it only has the potential to harm me - therefore I do not allow it.)

This question has come up periodically over the sixteen years I have participated on this site. I believe that I’m the buyer in this market and not the seller. I always provide the escort with whom I’m communicating a complete physical description of myself including age, weight, height, ethnicity and physical condition. I NEVER provide a photograph
 
My refusal to provide escorts with a photograph has absolutely nothing to do with issues of discretion or insecurity. It has totally to do with what I consider an appropriate request and an inappropriate one. I usually hire escorts based on their photographs and self- descriptions on rentmen. If they accept clients on the basis of physical appearance I believe that they seriously need to consider an occupation change. If an escort required a photograph of me for ANY reason I would find that request insulting and immediately terminate all further communication.
 
Now if my memory serves me correctly I have NEVER been asked to provide a photograph by a prospective hire.

They have every right to ask, you have every right to decline.
 
I'm still waiting to hear of someone sending a pic of two Bens and a Ulysses.
 
Kevin Slater

Banana cream pie:rolleyes: