José Soplanucas

It’s Bad Bunny weekend so let’s take a timeout for some pizza. 

This sounds really predatory and coercive. If you said this about women in front of me, I would tell them to cover their drinks. You’re stating your intention to go into a space where people are drinking, identify people who are “needy” or “broke” and use their drunkenness or precarity to get them to have sex with them?
This might be considered premeditated SA in many jurisdictions. 
Minimally, you’re the embodiment of every horrible thing that the Right Wing says about gay men. 

This is one of the more interesting threads for me during my short time here. As some have already pointed out, “straight” is a matter of perception, self-description or impression of others. In this context, we’re talking about the client’s projection on someone who’s really not really completely “straight”. I find the range of tastes and reactions to this truly fascinating. As someone who’s been perceived as “straight” for almost all of my life but now having fun pushing boundaries, I think I can perhaps see both sides with more clarity than some. Strong preferences for uber macho men (fill in your own version) or very feminized versions (ditto) will always be appealing to some but most of us fall somewhere in between. I have had great fun letting my little head tell my big head what excites it and it’s been full of surprises. So far, I haven’t fully embraced either of these “extremes” but I I do have trouble understanding why some feel a need to judge someone whose preferences are different from their own. 

This sounds like many of the friends I had in college who were obsessed with straight men. Most of them are now middle-aged and alone. They never had a significant relationship. The rest of us (straight and gay) met partners, some had kids, and now we're enjoying our success. These guys sometimes find married guys who let them blow them. But that's it. Very sad. 
I do agree that it can be easy to find straight men who are willing to let you pleasure them. One needs only to have no self-esteem or standards. Or get them very drunk, which is borderline SA. Men don't respect the slutty cheerleader. 
And comparing oneself favorably to a Jewish collaborator of the Gestapo who may have sent up to 3,000 of her peers to the camps before converting to Christianity and becoming an avowed anti-Semite is wild. 
 

To be honest, I don't even know what it means when someone says they're straight.  People these days have become so casual about sex that being "straight" is more of a lifestyle indicator than a sexual preference.  To me, a straight guy is a guy who appears hetero in social interactions and who dates (or would like to date) women, but I know there's a good chance that he'd happily hook up with a hot guy or a gay buddy if he's horny or bored.  

Of the many chaperos I hooked up with at Sauna Thermas, two of the best kissers were straight.  Holy sh!t, did they make my toes curl!  I couldn’t care less if they were gay, straight, or Martian as long as their tongues turned me on.  When I hired one of them for a 5-hour evening, it was fantastic.  I knew his limits beforehand, was fine with them, and we both managed to have a great time.  Funny, I wouldn’t call it a boyfriend experience, more like a friends-with-benefits experience.  Conversation was so easy with him, like we were best friends from high school, with the fuckbuddy angle thrown in.
Like you, I’ve hired some real duds who were gay.  I didn’t hire the straight Thermas guy because he was straight but because we clicked so well on the premises that I wanted to see him offsite.  Whaddya know, he turned out to be one of my best hires ever.

Rather than trying to find one explanation for all the providers who self labeled as straight, do you not think that all of the narratives are possible? Some may be actually straight, some may not be straight at all but just marketing, some may be anything in between, above and below. Instead of arguing, and trying to debate the explanations we do not prefer, why we do not just have fun brainstorming imagining all the possible scenarios? 

Or as a well-known British entertainer once said, I'm bisexual, I buy sex.

Rather than trying to find one explanation for all the providers who self labeled as straight, do you not think that all of the narratives are possible? Some may be actually straight, some may not be straight at all but just marketing, some may be anything in between, above and below. Instead of arguing, and trying to debate the explanations we do not prefer, why we do not just have fun brainstorming imagining all the possible scenarios? 

I do not touch any guy that's either straight or isn't but puts 'straight' in their profile. I already made my peace at 17 to not touch or fawn over straight guys.

Rather than trying to find one explanation for all the providers who self labeled as straight, do you not think that all of the narratives are possible? Some may be actually straight, some may not be straight at all but just marketing, some may be anything in between, above and below. Instead of arguing, and trying to debate the explanations we do not prefer, why we do not just have fun brainstorming imagining all the possible scenarios? 

Rather than trying to find one explanation for all the providers who self labeled as straight, do you not think that all of the narratives are possible? Some may be actually straight, some may not be straight at all but just marketing, some may be anything in between, above and below. Instead of arguing, and trying to debate the explanations we do not prefer, why we do not just have fun brainstorming imagining all the possible scenarios? 

Again, as in the locked thread for the Philly provider, CAN WE STAY ON TOPIC AND DISCUSS SEX WORKERS WITHOUT TRYING TO CHANGE SOCIETY? 
 
the revolution is not gonna start at a website called The Company of Men ffs… 🤣

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I think this is better tan the first attempt.

Umm, what? A bad act committed by one knucklehead is certainly not representative of an entire race. I sympathize with your story, but what an extremely ignorant thing to say.🙄

I think the origin of the name Angles was the region where they came from - the Angeln Peninsula (German: Angeln, Danish: Angel) in southern Denmark/northern Germany.  There are other theories of the derivation of the word, but none of them relate the Latin word angel, angelus.

This just demonstrates a complete ignorance of history. There is no such thing as "intrinsic beauty." In heterosexuality, there are certain physical attributes that identify males and females are more likely to be fertile, whereas "blond surfer boy", which dates back to maybe the 1960s. 
 

I’m confused, you’ve exhausted all attempts to find him, but he has an active RM profile as @56harrisond kindly posted and there is a number there.  You made a transfer to legitimate accounts in Zelle and CashApp that are traceable by law enforcement, and you were beat up with injury to prove it in, what sounds like, was a public hallway.
have you considered going to the police?
I’m struggling to connect the dots when this is clearly someone who’s not hiding after an illegal act.  

Which came first ? the chicken or the egg ?
The Anglo Saxons were called Anglo (Angels) by the Romans thousands of years ago, because of their beauty. 
The beauty of a fit blond boy is not manufactured by marketing. Marketing uses the intrinsic beauty of the fit blond boy.
That said, Chase the Jock is merely taking advantage of good genes and marketing them. His bad attitude is likely a product the privilege of being better looking than most.
Again...I personally prefer men from other ethnic backgrounds that produce brown eye, black hair and sometimes darker skin. BUT I am fully aware of how the Abercrombie surfer boy look is the gold standard in fuckability for a lot of people. I wouldn't throw him out of bed, but I also wouldn't spend much time chasing after him. Everyone has their "type" There are a LOT of people who think this is their type. Including the ancient Romans who would capture young Germanic teens and keep them as sex slaves.
 
 
 

I’m shocked. SHOCKED! That you - a person hypercritical of almost everyone’s appearance- was/is the exact type that was universally admired and found attractive in the late 1990. I mean, what are the odds that a blonde white man considers himself the pinnacle of attractiveness? 
 
So you benefited from white supremacy and colonialism which exported euro centric beauty ideals? 
See above comment about colonialism. But I’ve never denied that the majority of people find conventionally attractive people attractive. That’s literally why it’s a convention. it’s you who cannot admit that such conventions are largely manufactured by systemic oppression and marketing. 
Look at the emaciated status of most A List actresses. They’re trying to look a specific way because of fashion standards even though most straight men do not find extremely thin women attractive. 🤷🏼‍♂️

He is undetectable. Whether or not you are in PreP is irrelevant.

Thank you.
Medellin is much, much better than Bogota. To start, you will not suffer soroche. The way urban planners have integrated nature and human habitat is admirable. The city culture is thriving. Paisas are the most kind and civil people I have ever been exposed too (I've never been to SE Asia). I am not a fan of the local food, but there is a wide diversity of options. Men and women are beautiful and amazing in bed.  The only reason I did not choose Medellin to settle is that they are far from the ocean. 

Luigi is spared !! 
https://nypost.com/2026/01/30/us-news/luigi-mangione-case-federal-judge-throws-out-death-penalty/?utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=nypost&utm_source=facebook&fbclid=IwdGRjcAPpr3FjbGNrA-mvZWV4dG4DYWVtAjExAHNydGMGYXBwX2lkDDM1MDY4NTUzMTcyOAABHpdHuAY4Giad_l_NmCBHhciIsp-1r12anZ57xQKA0DzcDsH1UOCbAaSpL9D-_aem_Ym4ExMF6EjcpLCjYn4I5cA

Luigi is looking even better with his new facial hair. That surprises me as it means I have started liking some facial hair.